I’m a visual person, I like what I see. Her dark curves, her two-tone hands and feet, her textured hair, her light up the room smile … all of these things take my breath away. Though beauty is only skin deep, the culture, the extended family, the music, the dancing (when I can get her to dance for me), are more reasons why I love her. My experience with black people is a positive one. The strange thing is though, I was adopted at birth. After 42 years, I found my birth parents. I find my mother has been married to a black man for decades. Maybe as much as our own bodies have genetic p Read more
Is sexual race play racist ?
This is not a question that has an easy answer, and I suspect anyone who thinks it has an easy answer is selling something. Race is complicated. Race play touches on some very uncomfortable realities about history. That’s what makes it powerful (and, for people who have that particular kink, fun). That’s also what makes it dangerous. Many years ago, I was at a play party hosted in a public dungeon with one of my partners and I met a Black submissive woman with a taste for race play. Specifically, what really got her off was white plantation owner/African slave **** fantasy. She said she Read more