By guest expert Jane Silverstein Yes, there really could be “too much of a good thing.” If you have experienced a “mismatch of size,” which ended in sexual pain or discomfort, you are not alone. This situation is much more … [Read more...] about Ouch! My Partner Is Too Big For Me!
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All About Custom Fit Condoms: Get the Right Condom Size Every time
Want to have mind-blowing sex without foregoing protection? Make sure you have the right-sized condom! If you’ve ever experienced the “red ring of death” or a moment of uncomfortable condom slippage, you know just what we mean. … [Read more...] about All About Custom Fit Condoms: Get the Right Condom Size Every time
How Do I Respond To Someone When They Tell Me They Have Herpes?
First, I’d like to acknowledge you for being the kind of person who wants to share this personal information and trusts enough to share this. Let’s give you an applause for being not only attractive to someone but also cool enough … [Read more...] about How Do I Respond To Someone When They Tell Me They Have Herpes?
Does Genital Size Matter?
Did you notice I didn’t say “Does penis size matter?”? Although the concern over penis size isn’t going away any time soon, we rarely talk about vagina size. I want to address both in this post. We live in a culture where the … [Read more...] about Does Genital Size Matter?
When Is The Best Time For Me To Discuss My Herpes Status With A Partner?
As mentioned in my previous article, How To Tell A Partner About Your Herpes Status, we want to start with understanding how we’re feeling about it ourselves. We know what that process looks like, and we also know that disclosing … [Read more...] about When Is The Best Time For Me To Discuss My Herpes Status With A Partner?
Having Great Sex Despite Chronic Medical Conditions
Your doctor solemnly announces that you have diabetes, lupus, heart disease, rheumatoid arthritis or some other chronic condition. You gasp. Your doctor explains the implications and then inquires, “Any questions?” You ask quite a … [Read more...] about Having Great Sex Despite Chronic Medical Conditions
How Do I Tell Someone I’m Interested In That I Have Herpes?
When people ask me a question related to disclosing their herpes status to a partner, they typically want to know if they should tell them over text, over the phone, or in person. I find myself unable to answer this question … [Read more...] about How Do I Tell Someone I’m Interested In That I Have Herpes?
What To Expect When Having Sex After A Hysterectomy
Getting a hysterectomy is a very common medical procedure for people with uteruses. It can be done due to a number of reasons including heavy periods or fibroids, pelvic pain caused by something like endometriosis, prolapse or … [Read more...] about What To Expect When Having Sex After A Hysterectomy
Emergency Pregnancy Prevention
Women seeking to end pregnancies have four options: emergency contraception, prompt insertion of an intrauterine device (IUD), medication abortion, or travel to places where medical abortion is legal. … [Read more...] about Emergency Pregnancy Prevention
Here Are All The Different Ways You Can Orgasm
Although orgasms may be elusive or few and far between for some people, once you figure out your own body and your partner(s)’ body, there is a whole world of pleasure awaiting your exploration. You may have heard of having … [Read more...] about Here Are All The Different Ways You Can Orgasm
The Sex Education You Never Got: How To Have Safe Queer Sex
It is an unfortunate but well-known fact that public school sex education is less than satisfactory. Many of us got very little if any sex education. Those of us who did get a sex education course or lecture were often told that … [Read more...] about The Sex Education You Never Got: How To Have Safe Queer Sex
Getting In Shape For Great Sex
Want hot sex? Beyond a loving relationship and basic sex education, lovers’ physical condition is key. Physiologically, enjoyable sex requires: … [Read more...] about Getting In Shape For Great Sex