Womens version of escape into porn...

So... men often come on porn sites to get their fantasy and sexual needs met, but did you know that a lot of women read romance books for the porn factor? I bet guys didn't really think about that much. There are many, many flavors of "romance" books out there and they cover the gamut that you find on here, though often more obscurely. The fact that women read these books says to me (as a woman myself) that women love fantasy, and sex just as much as men. Sadly, our Western, puritanical culture often vilifies our interest in sex. We are whores if we love sex. We are the evil seductress, the mistress, the bad girl who deserves the horrible end because we forgot that we were supposed to be pure and a vessel for and in service to only one man, our needs secondary. In essence we are "human givers" and only men are "human beings." This is real stuff folks I k** you not and it is perverse in the worst way. Women are just as sexual as men, and yet we are subtly and not so subtly repressed by greater society and our families. It sucks. In comes the romance books, with sex galore. We get to fantasize we are that free woman having multiple orgasms, being seduced and fucked until we are replete, then cherished as we want and wish we were for the beautiful complete human being that we are. Do not k** yourselves gentlemen women love and want good sex. What way can you encourage your lover to feel more valid, sexy, beautiful, desired that you are not currently doing? How can you support her sexual curiosity? Mind you... this is not an exploration for the faint of heart and it is by no means an easy path. But I do encourage those of you on here to discuss with your partner if the books she reads have sexy time in them and if there is a particular scene that gets her excited. You might be rebuffed, or you might get blushes, or you might get excitement, but either way -- she knows your interested in her and what she likes, which is always a good thing.

Much love and good luck my horny fuckers....