The lifestyle and hard choices

Some recent lifestyle-related events (which I've shared in other posts) have led my husband to decide that he wants to be the dominant sexual and emotional force in my life. Where in the past, he has toyed with the idea of power exchange, enjoyed playing a passive role while I submitted to bulls, and even considered submitting to our bulls himself, he has now determined that he does not want to go in that direction. In fact, he says, he wants to reclaim his masculinity and resist any form of submission to me or our bulls going forward. I can understand his decision. While we've both been turn… Ler mais

Publicado por emsplayhouse há 6 anos 14

Ask Em: Is bigger really that much better?

"Is bigger really better?" I get this age-old question all the time, mostly from guys but also from less-experienced girls. The simple, sugar-free answer is "Yes, bigger is better -- most of the time and for most women." I can't speak for all women of course, but my survey sample size is larger than most. I've been in the lifestyle for 9 years, traded stories with many experienced women, and I've helped introduce dozens of newbies to sex with hung (black) men. Based on data from that sample, and my own experience, sex with a bigger cock -- exceptionally thick and 8+ inches -- i… Ler mais

Publicado por emsplayhouse há 6 anos 20

Ask Em: Recent success stories

I'll use this to post stories of progress and success with the women and couples I chat with here and on other sites. I will update it periodically. -------- Married couple, 20s. Hubby has been wanting to be a cuckold for a long time.... Dear Em. First of all I want to thank you for inspiration. I also want to thank you for getting back to me so quickly. Your response was short but more helpful than you might think. I doubt you get many thanks or feedback so I wanted to tell you what some honesty can achieve. Yesterday my wife and I spent much of the day watching ir porn and all of y… Ler mais

Publicado por emsplayhouse há 6 anos 2

Ask Em: Groundrules that help address fears

I've been chatting with a young couple, Rena and Roy. Roy introduced the idea 2 years ago through interracial porn. But over the last several months, Rena has been the one pushing it. Then Roy became hesitant. Rena reached out to me for help. Rena: Hi, would you please talk to my hubby about BBC and my desire for them. I almost have his consent and approval. A little nudge from someone would probably do it. Em: Hi Rena, It's nice to meet you. I would be happy to talk to your husband. Probably best to set a time to chat, to make sure I'm online and available. Do you have a suggested day/time?… Ler mais

Publicado por emsplayhouse há 6 anos

Ask Em: How do I persuade my wife/gf to try BBC?

I get asked this a lot by men who've been fantasizing about watching their girl being fucked into orgasmic insanity by a big black cock. My standard response is: 9 times out of 10, we're already interested, but conflicted inside about admitting or embracing it. What a lot of men don't understand about women is that we are in our heads a lot of the time -- a swirl of thoughts and feelings and anxieties. We talk ourselves in- and out- of action, talk ourselves in circles really, on a moment to moment basis. Don't get me wrong - I'm a strong woman, a feminist, and believe women have many streng… Ler mais

Publicado por emsplayhouse há 6 anos 11