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UPDATE: Due to the massive amount of endless inquiries, as well as the overwhelming level of nonsense, ignorance, rudeness and games I deal with around here, I have decided to take a break from interacting with ALL people on here, with the very rare exceptions. This is temporary for now, but it may be a permanent decision, depending on how I feel about things in the upcoming future. I will do my best to still keep in touch with the handful of loyal friends that I have on here (you all know who you are). Please disregard anything described below, in terms of my offer to chat with people until/if I'm ever back in the game for that again. People on here have repeatedly proven to me that they cannot behave like mature adults, therefore, I'm just another one of the last remaining REAL women on these sites that you men have all chosen to disrespect and push away. Congrats! Need proof? Sure! Just read the wall comments, the blog posts, the 'avoid member list' or contact me directly for the proof via emails, screen shots, etc... .
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Old profile info begins here and is to be currently disregarded (unless you truly feel that you fall under that "very rare exception" category)...
First and foremost, my profile is always kept current, accurate, honest and updated. What I describe here is what I mean and I am hard-set on everything I say. No exceptions, no negotiating or compromise. I say this because I have been getting an influx of people asking to meet me or to cyber with, thinking that I'm willing to change/be flexible of my circumstances or being told that women don't always mean what they say on their profiles or that their profiles are old/outdated. Not the case here. I'm on this site strictly for entertainment purposes. Nothing more. If anything were to ever change (and it won't, I'm happily married), it would be revised, updated and reflected right here on my profile immediately.
Moving on...
As I said, I'm strictly here for entertainment purposes. Like any other people who come here, it means that I come to watch adult videos, pics, the occasional cam, chatting or dabbling into member posts, erotic stories and so on. I am NOT on this site looking for anything or for anyone at all for anything. Let that be known. I'm offering (not seeking) pen pal to anyone interested in the same. Be sure you clearly understand that pen pal is NOT "casual texting"...big difference there! I am willing to hold balanced, non-sexual pen pal chat conversations that lead to long-term online friendships with anyone who is contacting me on here, so be sure you're contacting me specifically for that reason to pen pal for the sake of building a meaningful online friendship with. This means that you should have good communication, English, spelling, punctuation and grammar skills and know how to hold balanced conversations in terms of meaningful, fulfilling and structured paragraphs. Talking in "text" or "shorthand" form is a huge turn-off, as it relays laziness, lack of effort or dedicated time and usually unintelligence. A good rule of thumb is the expectation for you to compose and trade one or two lengthy messages per week from each party, so be willing and enthusiastic to write messages out and dedicate free time to do so. Communication, balance and acknowledgement are all key points in a two-way conversation, so I expect that in return. I expect proper correspondence as a courtesy measure during any such time when life gets in the way and you find yourself unable to hold conversational chats, until that time period passes (e.g.: medical issues, abundance of work, family issues, life events, etc...). Good so far? If not, please bypass me. If so, read on...
If you are from India, Nepal, Turkey, Qatar, Serbia, Egypt, Pakistan, Morocco and Kazakhstan, then I have no interest in talking to you, since the majority of my issues on here stem from people who write to me from these countries.
I ONLY know and understand the English language, so if you choose to contact me, speak fluent English ONLY and please be a gentleman (or lady-like, if you're the rare female) and you'll have no problems here. Do you like to chat? Are you looking for good company online here to pass free time with general non-sexually balanced chat conversations via pen pal relationship? If so, get to know me. I'm a nice woman and expect to be treated nice. I do not care about your sexual stuff at all such as your perversions, fantasies, wants, wishes or if you are hard and horny. Go away! I'm NOT interested in sex chat, watching your cam on request, pic/video trading, link sharing, sharing my name, sharing my phone number, texting or talking off site. I'm not on this site for it's "Dating" section. I am taken (married to a man) and have no interests whatsoever to meet anyone from here in person (whether for in-person friendships, sex or otherwise). If you're contacting me in the message center, just have a reasonable level time to do so and show up around here frequently. Invest time, effort and enthusiasm into your compositions and chat to me like a decent and respectful human being...you won't regret it. I'm more than willing to establish meaningful online friendships with the right people, if you so choose to take that on. If you meet the criteria, introduce yourself with something more than a "Hi" or "Hello", as I will judge interactions like that upon you being a lazy, vague, boring or uninteresting person directly from the start who has no time, effort or fulfillment to invest with me. There's no second chance to make a good first impression, so make it count.
If your profile is set to "visible to friends only" or if your basic location is "Earth" or if your profile contains little to no details about you or a description, then I know nothing at all about you up front, and therefore, I'm not interested in talking to people blindly without knowing some background stats or critical profile information that's not visible to me.
Also, I'm not a 'friend' collector. I don't just randomly add complete strangers to my 'Friends' list, because you aren't my friend. Friends are a privilege and it's something that's earned through ongoing and interesting conversations, having things in common, mutual bonding attraction, honesty, personality, trust, balance, cooperation, compliance, respect and any other key values which make friends, actual friends. If you actually want to make it to my 'Friends' list, then be prepared to earn that over the course of time. Otherwise, your request will simply be deleted.
Follow through with what you have begun! If you decide to contact me, then we're game-on at that point and I expect the outlined terms to be followed. If, for whatever reason, you find yourself no longer interested in what's being offered here, then I expect communication to be followed through to the end with a proper and respectful level of closure and manners like a decent and mature human being.
Rudeness won't be tolerated. Blocking me won't be tolerated. Ignoring me won't be tolerated. Not acknowledging me won't be tolerated. Grow up! If you do any of these things you will be on group watch.
And to the rest of the peanut gallery: To those who don't understand that you're in no way obligated to drink alcohol if you go to a bar/club, but rather to socialize, play pool, watch live entertainment, mingle, play video games, and so on...you'll never quite understand your own idiocy. The analogy I make is to NOT attempt to mock me or belittle me because I'm on an adult site and CHOOSE to NOT talk sexually. Life has choices....yes, imagine that! Although I watch adult oriented things privately behind the scenes, does NOT automatically mean that I'm here to dirty talk/cyber or to be your verbal whore. We all have choices in life, comfort zones, reasons, restrictions, limitations and so on. Please respect that. I'm tired of the idiotic accusations, mockery and judgements from those who simply cannot understand this simple concept!
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Old profile info begins here and is to be currently disregarded (unless you truly feel that you fall under that "very rare exception" category)...
First and foremost, my profile is always kept current, accurate, honest and updated. What I describe here is what I mean and I am hard-set on everything I say. No exceptions, no negotiating or compromise. I say this because I have been getting an influx of people asking to meet me or to cyber with, thinking that I'm willing to change/be flexible of my circumstances or being told that women don't always mean what they say on their profiles or that their profiles are old/outdated. Not the case here. I'm on this site strictly for entertainment purposes. Nothing more. If anything were to ever change (and it won't, I'm happily married), it would be revised, updated and reflected right here on my profile immediately.
Moving on...
As I said, I'm strictly here for entertainment purposes. Like any other people who come here, it means that I come to watch adult videos, pics, the occasional cam, chatting or dabbling into member posts, erotic stories and so on. I am NOT on this site looking for anything or for anyone at all for anything. Let that be known. I'm offering (not seeking) pen pal to anyone interested in the same. Be sure you clearly understand that pen pal is NOT "casual texting"...big difference there! I am willing to hold balanced, non-sexual pen pal chat conversations that lead to long-term online friendships with anyone who is contacting me on here, so be sure you're contacting me specifically for that reason to pen pal for the sake of building a meaningful online friendship with. This means that you should have good communication, English, spelling, punctuation and grammar skills and know how to hold balanced conversations in terms of meaningful, fulfilling and structured paragraphs. Talking in "text" or "shorthand" form is a huge turn-off, as it relays laziness, lack of effort or dedicated time and usually unintelligence. A good rule of thumb is the expectation for you to compose and trade one or two lengthy messages per week from each party, so be willing and enthusiastic to write messages out and dedicate free time to do so. Communication, balance and acknowledgement are all key points in a two-way conversation, so I expect that in return. I expect proper correspondence as a courtesy measure during any such time when life gets in the way and you find yourself unable to hold conversational chats, until that time period passes (e.g.: medical issues, abundance of work, family issues, life events, etc...). Good so far? If not, please bypass me. If so, read on...
If you are from India, Nepal, Turkey, Qatar, Serbia, Egypt, Pakistan, Morocco and Kazakhstan, then I have no interest in talking to you, since the majority of my issues on here stem from people who write to me from these countries.
I ONLY know and understand the English language, so if you choose to contact me, speak fluent English ONLY and please be a gentleman (or lady-like, if you're the rare female) and you'll have no problems here. Do you like to chat? Are you looking for good company online here to pass free time with general non-sexually balanced chat conversations via pen pal relationship? If so, get to know me. I'm a nice woman and expect to be treated nice. I do not care about your sexual stuff at all such as your perversions, fantasies, wants, wishes or if you are hard and horny. Go away! I'm NOT interested in sex chat, watching your cam on request, pic/video trading, link sharing, sharing my name, sharing my phone number, texting or talking off site. I'm not on this site for it's "Dating" section. I am taken (married to a man) and have no interests whatsoever to meet anyone from here in person (whether for in-person friendships, sex or otherwise). If you're contacting me in the message center, just have a reasonable level time to do so and show up around here frequently. Invest time, effort and enthusiasm into your compositions and chat to me like a decent and respectful human being...you won't regret it. I'm more than willing to establish meaningful online friendships with the right people, if you so choose to take that on. If you meet the criteria, introduce yourself with something more than a "Hi" or "Hello", as I will judge interactions like that upon you being a lazy, vague, boring or uninteresting person directly from the start who has no time, effort or fulfillment to invest with me. There's no second chance to make a good first impression, so make it count.
If your profile is set to "visible to friends only" or if your basic location is "Earth" or if your profile contains little to no details about you or a description, then I know nothing at all about you up front, and therefore, I'm not interested in talking to people blindly without knowing some background stats or critical profile information that's not visible to me.
Also, I'm not a 'friend' collector. I don't just randomly add complete strangers to my 'Friends' list, because you aren't my friend. Friends are a privilege and it's something that's earned through ongoing and interesting conversations, having things in common, mutual bonding attraction, honesty, personality, trust, balance, cooperation, compliance, respect and any other key values which make friends, actual friends. If you actually want to make it to my 'Friends' list, then be prepared to earn that over the course of time. Otherwise, your request will simply be deleted.
Follow through with what you have begun! If you decide to contact me, then we're game-on at that point and I expect the outlined terms to be followed. If, for whatever reason, you find yourself no longer interested in what's being offered here, then I expect communication to be followed through to the end with a proper and respectful level of closure and manners like a decent and mature human being.
Rudeness won't be tolerated. Blocking me won't be tolerated. Ignoring me won't be tolerated. Not acknowledging me won't be tolerated. Grow up! If you do any of these things you will be on group watch.
And to the rest of the peanut gallery: To those who don't understand that you're in no way obligated to drink alcohol if you go to a bar/club, but rather to socialize, play pool, watch live entertainment, mingle, play video games, and so on...you'll never quite understand your own idiocy. The analogy I make is to NOT attempt to mock me or belittle me because I'm on an adult site and CHOOSE to NOT talk sexually. Life has choices....yes, imagine that! Although I watch adult oriented things privately behind the scenes, does NOT automatically mean that I'm here to dirty talk/cyber or to be your verbal whore. We all have choices in life, comfort zones, reasons, restrictions, limitations and so on. Please respect that. I'm tired of the idiotic accusations, mockery and judgements from those who simply cannot understand this simple concept!
He initiates contact with me:
"Hey there ...how would one know if vids are real or not."
I reply that his message was a bit confusing and asked him to better explain. He replies:
"Meant nothing by it . Saw your comment on vid and well liked it so hopeing to make a friend To chat"
I reply back and give a full run-down of answering his question in paragraph form, utilizing a lot of my time, my effort and my thoughts. I also address his proposition to "chat" with me, since (at least so for) nothing seems to match or feel compatible of what my profile explains to him. I saw a lot of red flags and asked him to kindly reply in explaining if he was a match or of what compatibility he was to my profile description (it was another full paragraph of my own time, effort and thought to compose). All in all, out of the roughly 20 minutes I have invested in replying to him, answering his questions/concerns and asking him questions, he turns around and simply blocked me, which again goes against my profile description. It really doesn't get any much ruder than that! I took 20 minutes out of my day to write to him and he simply treats me like garbage! When I open up to his proposition of a potential pen pal chat relationship, he just closes down rudely. So much for his interest in "chatting", eh? That's okay. Men like these don't get the last laugh. I have screen shot the entire interaction between us, word for word and have uploaded it to my friends, group watchers, blogs, forums, blacklists/watchlists, my "avoid members" list and to private "watchdog" sites who keep record of problematic members in order for women to know who exactly to avoid. His friends will be notified and (if applicable) locals in his geographic area, as well as added to flood lists of random women on site.
To think of how simple and respectful this really could have all been, had he opted to reply back to me, acknowledge that I had invested time into him specifically and made a simple determination of compatibility relayed back to me properly and responsibly like any mature and decent person should have done. But nope! He had to choose to be an ass to me! Disrespected me! Broke pretty much every set-rule that I have listed! Then in the end destroyed his odds at success online forever by earning a poor communal reputation for himself. hen in the end, more of my time and effort has to now be invested in putting him on community notice like this. All for what exactly! Rudeness will NEVER get you guys anywhere...EVER! So men, take that advice and don't be a Stinger24241! Respect and decency will get you far in life....and reading profiles will get you even farther! Congratulations to Stinger24241 as our new Hall of Shame inductee!
This person contacted me on 8/23/24 by thanking me for the testimony I had left against a male member on here. According to her, she was in the process of setting up a meeting with this guy to have him fly in to her country and she called the plans off when she read the testimony that was left against him by other women on this site for his poor behavior and poor testimony by the terrible way he interacts with women around here. So in the upcoming days, she writes comments to me in her attempt to explain things, but it tends to raise more confusion. I'm assuming it's a language barrier between us, a possible word translator or that English isn't her first language, so I politely try to untangle the confusion by asking her what her comments mean or trying to decypher them back to her. In turn, she pretty much omits everything I said or asked, then irrelevantly says: "I think you are bisexual. This situation started to interest me." out of the blue for no apparent reason. I again politely followed up with her on 8/27, explained everything about the bisexual thing, then tried to realign chat back to the questions and comments that were still pending answers to. No reply. Meanwhile, I check her profile daily and see her being signed into this site frequently. I try again on 9/1. No reply. I try again on 9/3, politely asking why she's ignoring me suddenly and reminding her that I'm still awaiting replies. I arrive online today (9/4) and now notice she's rudely blocked me. Ironic that she compliments and thanks me for calling out rude men, when she does the same exact things to end up on public notice, as well. Unreal! And this is what you get when you engage with aslidream and take your time and effort to compose paragraphs of info to her. In the end, you'll just get ignored/stonewalled, disrespected and then rudely blocked. She made it to the same blacklists and public boards as all of the other men around here...and truthfully, I probably suspect "her" to be a guy/catfish, since there is no hard proof anywhere that tells me she's a real woman...plus, when's the last time anyone has seen a REAL woman from Turkey show up on here? Anyone from Turkey just screams "sausage party" to me. So, take my strong advice and avoid aslidream at all measures if you encounter this person. Uploads to come soon with screen shots of the conversations held between us both, for transparency purposes.
He contacted me in early 2023. Things were fine at first. He decides to shift gears for unknown reasons, so he starts pushing buttons, breaking rules, overriding profile content and ruining our conversational relationship that he's started with me. Messages become sparse...then he just ignores me altogether. I'm left to constantly babysit him, follow-up, never receive replies, answers or explanations back. This goes on for well over a year. All I want is an answer, a determination and or a proper level of civil closure. Currently he replies, gets cocky with me in a few replies and still refuses to cooperate, comply or be a reasonable and respectful human being. He's now resorted to rudely blocking me, then setting his profile's settings immediately to a "profile is visible to friends only" status. Because of this fiasco, he's now on the public Hall of Shame boards, blacklists and forwarded to his entir list of friends...and beyond. The posted screen shots of the entire history of conversations I've had with him is on public view, for transparency purposes.
When you go out of your way to be polite, accept someone into your loop as a friend, he'll just rudely turn on you when he doesn't get his way, disrespect you, ignore you, get sarcastic, block you and then try to cover it all up by shadowing his profile to ONLY his friends. He'll only contact you to mislead you, lie to you, disrespect you, waste your time/effort, ignore you, dodge questions/comments and then ultimately block you when your kindness only seeks a proper closure. Again, it's all clearly proven on the screen shot conversations we've had. This is where a year and a half of my time, effort and kindness has gotten me for accepting HIS offer to chat. Ladies, you have all been forewarned about minicranberry (a.k.a. "Nick")! Do your background checks and research on him. Hard pass on this guy if you ever encounter him. You'll all thank me later!