Rudeness ~ Bosamsam221
So this guy Bosamsam221 writes me on 7/3, says "hi" and asks how I am. I promptly return his message, saying that I'm fine and asking how he is. Three days later and no reply back, even though I see him clearly signing in and out daily. 7/6 I send an emoji (sleepy face) basically meaning that I'm bored and awaiting a reply yet. Like magic, 11 minutes later I get a prompt reply back. Too funny!
So we chat throughout today a bit as he goes on a whim, making some comment that his wife is out of town and probably "has her legs spread". Ok, so I rolled with it, but tried to make sense or logical conversation out of things to no avail other than he lives a wild lifestyle where he and his wife sleeps around with others, yet the two of them don't care to talk to each other about the encounters. Ok, to each their own. So I try to get conversation moving forward and get back to general type of chat (my reason for being here). In turn, his replies are short and vague one-line dead-end answer type of answers that I'm ending up asking all questions to him. Yeah, go figure that one....this coming from a guy who first contacted me, not the other way around. So I encourage him to chat more. Suddenly, the chat goes cold for a few moments. He writes me and tells me that he's on a phone call (the time of that message is 15:52). I reply, telling him that I understand and that I appreciate him communicating that to me. I ask him to let me know when he's off the phone so that we can resume. So what happens? No response at all for two hours. At that point, I write to him, asking if he's still on the phone. No reply. Ten minutes later, I write yet again (sleepy face emoji...meaning that I'm still awaiting). No reply. Abut twenty more minutes and I write yet again, saying that basically I guess he's ignoring me since I saw him online and he's now signed out. Five minutes later he returns online, replying in a snarky manner "really i was on phone wow. first with work n then my brother n then work again why do I need to explain myself". Ummm, because I have been awaiting for a reply for 2.5 hours AND because you initiated contact with me AND because I have dedicated my time here and took on your offer to chat!!!! I mean come on, duh! As the matter of fact, it's the opposite....why do I have to sit here and explain this shit to you???? Isn't it common knowledge and basic courtesy that if you begin chatting with someone to freaking chat and dedicate time to that person. If something comes up, communicate that! Get with it! I tell him: "Soooooo please tell me, exactly why did you start writing to me if:
1.) You ignore me half the time?
2.) Talk sexual nonsense that my profile says I don't care about?
3.) Don't communicate half the time?
4.) Don't engage in balanced back and forth chat in any expanding or progressive manner ?"
And to no surprise, not a word of any of that is acknowledged, just all ignored.
So after all of that gets said and done, I try to resume things and am willing to chat. He then says to me: "wow i think its best we just dont talk we are not on same page im looking your not. im really looking for someone that want to play". Wait...WHAT?!?!?!?!?!? Where the hell on my bio did you at all read that I was here looking to meet or play with anyone? Nowhere! It says that I am only here to chat. It also says that I seek "nobody". Does it make sense that if you are looking for someone to play with that you contact someone whose profile says just the opposite of that???? So you are telling me that after three days of waiting for a reply from you that you ignored, then I had to pull teeth to get you to write back, then get ignored some more, then talked in irrelevant stuff a while, then get vague replies that go nowhere, you are now telling me that you haven't even written to me for the sole purpose to even chat with me as my bio outlines? Too funny!!!
So if that isn't enough, I even show him some screen shot views of my profile that say exactly opposite of why he is contacting me. He says "ok good good bye" and then he fucking blocks me! That isn't going to fly with me so now he ends up on the public posts for the rudeness and for wasting days of my time for absolutely nothing at all. I see other women on posts also have problems with this guy for the same reasons. He never learns! The more he is rude and ignores and blocks the more he is further put on the radar around here. Serves him right. Please mirror this guy.
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So we chat throughout today a bit as he goes on a whim, making some comment that his wife is out of town and probably "has her legs spread". Ok, so I rolled with it, but tried to make sense or logical conversation out of things to no avail other than he lives a wild lifestyle where he and his wife sleeps around with others, yet the two of them don't care to talk to each other about the encounters. Ok, to each their own. So I try to get conversation moving forward and get back to general type of chat (my reason for being here). In turn, his replies are short and vague one-line dead-end answer type of answers that I'm ending up asking all questions to him. Yeah, go figure that one....this coming from a guy who first contacted me, not the other way around. So I encourage him to chat more. Suddenly, the chat goes cold for a few moments. He writes me and tells me that he's on a phone call (the time of that message is 15:52). I reply, telling him that I understand and that I appreciate him communicating that to me. I ask him to let me know when he's off the phone so that we can resume. So what happens? No response at all for two hours. At that point, I write to him, asking if he's still on the phone. No reply. Ten minutes later, I write yet again (sleepy face emoji...meaning that I'm still awaiting). No reply. Abut twenty more minutes and I write yet again, saying that basically I guess he's ignoring me since I saw him online and he's now signed out. Five minutes later he returns online, replying in a snarky manner "really i was on phone wow. first with work n then my brother n then work again why do I need to explain myself". Ummm, because I have been awaiting for a reply for 2.5 hours AND because you initiated contact with me AND because I have dedicated my time here and took on your offer to chat!!!! I mean come on, duh! As the matter of fact, it's the opposite....why do I have to sit here and explain this shit to you???? Isn't it common knowledge and basic courtesy that if you begin chatting with someone to freaking chat and dedicate time to that person. If something comes up, communicate that! Get with it! I tell him: "Soooooo please tell me, exactly why did you start writing to me if:
1.) You ignore me half the time?
2.) Talk sexual nonsense that my profile says I don't care about?
3.) Don't communicate half the time?
4.) Don't engage in balanced back and forth chat in any expanding or progressive manner ?"
And to no surprise, not a word of any of that is acknowledged, just all ignored.
So after all of that gets said and done, I try to resume things and am willing to chat. He then says to me: "wow i think its best we just dont talk we are not on same page im looking your not. im really looking for someone that want to play". Wait...WHAT?!?!?!?!?!? Where the hell on my bio did you at all read that I was here looking to meet or play with anyone? Nowhere! It says that I am only here to chat. It also says that I seek "nobody". Does it make sense that if you are looking for someone to play with that you contact someone whose profile says just the opposite of that???? So you are telling me that after three days of waiting for a reply from you that you ignored, then I had to pull teeth to get you to write back, then get ignored some more, then talked in irrelevant stuff a while, then get vague replies that go nowhere, you are now telling me that you haven't even written to me for the sole purpose to even chat with me as my bio outlines? Too funny!!!
So if that isn't enough, I even show him some screen shot views of my profile that say exactly opposite of why he is contacting me. He says "ok good good bye" and then he fucking blocks me! That isn't going to fly with me so now he ends up on the public posts for the rudeness and for wasting days of my time for absolutely nothing at all. I see other women on posts also have problems with this guy for the same reasons. He never learns! The more he is rude and ignores and blocks the more he is further put on the radar around here. Serves him right. Please mirror this guy.
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Yep. What's your point?
The irony here is that it was YOU who willingly reached out to me for no apparent reason at all. 'Supposedly' you are just a complete stranger that would wander in to my profile/blogs and just so happen to have a complete problem with me for no reason whatsoever and attempt to retaliate on me, right? Is this what I'm supposed to believe as truth? Too funny! I know you are that same loser user who goes by 'cuckyfag101'. Later!
The typical of what I would expect from you. It's funny how one-sided and immature you are. You accuse and engage in conversation, yet could care less when explanation is given. Loser! Seriously, why are you on my pages at all? Just to troll, I suspect under this and your other user name 'cuckyfag101', not to mention one other that's known, as well as who knows how many other bogus user accounts you have. If you have nothing worthwhile to contribute here regarding me personally per my profile description, then go away please.
That's a bit vague to say and it solely depends if two people are actively online at the same time and writing one another back in real time or not. Although there is no IM on this particular site, there is emailing and of course communications on other forms of media, such as this blog post comment section, video/pic comment sections, erotic story comment section, etc... . I have had plenty of back and forth conversations here in real time with people, so yes, it CAN be like talking on the phone in those situations.
"Someone may start up a chat and message you back a few hours later or a few days, these people are not your life, boyfriends, girlfriends or family."
Likewise, yes, sometimes the system also gets used as email and people won't reply for hours or days later...and that's also fine. You act as if I exist here in waiting around just for those circumstances. Smh!
Now, you are trying to make an invalid point. The point in the blog above has nothing to do with the point you're trying to make here. That point is called courtesy and consideration. The user told me he had to take a phone call. Fine! I replied to him, telling him to let me know when he came back. Rather than doing so, two+ hours lapse and he was still shown as having an 'online' status. Naturally, I chimed in, asking him if he was STILL on the phone two hours later. For the next twenty minutes I hear nothing, even though he's STILL shown as being 'online' and after several attempts to reach out. Two and a half hours later he finally replies and with some fucking attitude, as if I'm the crazy one. If you cannot see the major discord and complete lack of respect in that, then YOU are part of that same social epidemic of ignorance and rudeness that our shitty modern day times are in! Think about it, the year 2019 means that humans are in the most technologically advanced times we've ever been in when it comes to ease of communicating. Nearly everyone has a cell phone that can be carried around 24/7 to reach out to anyone at any time 24/7. No more snail mail pen pals or Pony Express. Yet looking around, communications are at their all time worst! Go fucking figure that! Ignorance and rudeness with the flaky people who write, then infinitely ignore you unless you keep on them to respond back or who write back two weeks later, etc... . Sorry, I have dignity and I am here for several basic reasons. My profile explains that I am here to chat for those who wish to do so. Therefore, if someone contacts me for that very reason, then fucking chat. Period! Otherwise, explain and communicate to me that you wish to disengage. If you cannot follow simple and basic profile criteria, don't write.
No such thing as stalking online, when in fact everything is publicly posted. This is 'exposure', not "stalking". Perhaps you're not capable of reading, as the posting above and the two-sided conversations are self-explanatory. It's kind of funny how you accuse me of stalking, when in fact it's as clear as day that the user Bosamsam221 contacted me first. Too funny. You losers are abundant!