"More gay than bi"

Occasionally, as I message someone here in xhamster, I put that in a post here as well, hoping that it could help other men struggling with understanding their sexuality. I recently sent this to someone:

We married because we both had sexual needs that would never be part of a traditional marriage. She is (always was) from her early teens throughout high school, a promiscuous bisexual slut. Guys took her parking to fuck her, but not to the prom, never on a real date. When we met at a party (see her post: https://xhamster.com/posts/709883 ) there was an instant attraction which complimented our sexual desires. Fortunately she adores bi & especially gay men. For 30 years we had threesomes with bisexual men, many of whom were married. What I found in most was a preference for gay sex. In a threesome environment, the other guy and I would feed our desire for cock which would help us getting bigger erections to fuck her. This actually excited her, plus she encouraged us guys to have sex while she watched and masturbated. She and I rarely fucked unless a man was in bed with us. The more time I spent with men, the more I wanted cock. One of the most exciting things that really changed me was a time she invited a bi couple over, which we occasionally did for gay/lesbian sex. When they arrived, she said we were wife-swapping which shocked me. So I licked the woman's pussy but I never got erect, then the woman sucked my cock and I remained limp. Beth saw this and had the hubby feed me his cock...instant erection! His wife road my cock and orgasmed, then my wife road my cock. After they left, I asked wtf? Beth smiled and said, "You know I love gay men." After that we changed our swinger ad to, "Bi couple, hubby more gay than bi." We started getting a lot of answers from married men who were "more gay than bi."

UPDATE
I just wanted to add another comment:
Years ago we met a bi curious younger gay male. We were in our 30's, he early 20's. Like me he had started with boys in his early teens. The more time we spent together the closer we all got. He enjoyed fucking my wife with me in bed with them, just as I performed better with her when he was in bed. The three of us became lovers, and started dated openly, which in NJ/NYC was easier. One time in a movie theater, with her sitting between us, he and I held hands between her legs; she had her skirt up and we pressed our hands against her very wet pussy, with us taking turns fingering her. It was soft-core porn (not an x-rated theater though.) He would french-kiss her and so would I; he and I would kiss too, all very erotic. Beth said when she went to the ladies room, another woman said, "You are a lucky gal."

I am hoping as society becomes more accepting to a variety of sexual lifestyles, that some day threesomes like this can and will be more open.