I don't like the word "sissy"

I love crossdressers, traps, trannies, ladyboys, whatever you want to call them. But I think the word "sissy" is used far too frequently.

"Sissy" implies weakness, in my mind. A pretty crossdresser, all dolled up with sexy clothes, makeup, hair, etc. generally does this because of a desire to do so. The person wants to be a woman, and creates the best possible facsimile.

A sissy, in my mind, doesn't want to be a woman, but someone feminizes him against his wishes. He may just have to dress like a woman, or may have to perform sexual acts with a male, but he really doesn't want to. He just isn't strong enough to resist.

When I see a pretty crossdresser/trap/tranny/ladyboy, whatever, I don't see a sissy. I see a woman who has a little extra plumbing on the outside. But as long as she's dressed this way on purpose, she's not a sissy, at least not in my mind.

What do you think?
发布者 rickkink
6 年 前
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jojosmallone
jojosmallone 1 年 前
i feel sissy is over used. I don't consider trannies as sissies. Sissies are to me submissive beta males which i am one off 
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Jami-DFW
Jami-DFW 4 年 前
I think there is a broad spectrum and labels are sometimes limiting.  I am a male and don't want to be a female whatsoever, yet I enjoy sex with men and pleasuring them sexually in much the same way men would like women to perform sexually.  I have sucked a lot of str8 men's cocks (as well as bi and gay).  And I have had men tell me I was a good "piece of ass".  Because of this and my willingness to please, a man introduced me to wearing panties and when I say "panties", that's a shortcut word for most anything a girl would wear (from head to toe), telling me it reflected my sexuality, my submissiveness and my willingness to please, which I suppose it does.  Never in a billion years did I think I would do such a thing, but I sort of enjoyed immersing myself into the sexual role of a girl, but I don't want to be one.  I also don't crossdress alone -- only with someone, to make their cocks harder.  I've also had several good times CDing with another CD.  Since I'm not very effeminate looking nor acting, initially I didn't think the word "sissy" fit me very well, yet I dress and have sex like one.  And not all CD's want to be women.  Heck, I've even heard of str8 crossdressers (go figure!), which makes zero sense to me, but to each their own.  So, not sure where that leaves me.  Guess I don't care what you call me, as long as you just call me!  LOL!  I've hear that a transvestite (TV) is a crossdresser, but not necessarily interested in being a woman.  While a transsexual (TS) also crossdresses, but does want to be a woman.  But I guess they both can look and act identical and you'd have to know what's in their brain to know the difference.
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budlear
budlear 4 年 前
once again, we agree completely - sissy behavior has nothing with wanting to be feminine - wanting to be humiliated is someone else's fantasy; not mine - I find the female is the best art on the planet and if it has a penis so what?
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JemC
JemC 5 年 前
Completely agree
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jennysissycd
jennysissycd 5 年 前
the three previous comments say it all for me.
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experimentator 5 年 前
May be you are right. But many Sissies like to be right this way. :smile: Weak and stupid. And they even like being forced. :smile:
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popperdaddy 6 年 前
agreed....sissies don't even need to be any of the above....they get off on being subservient to cock and who it's attached to
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