The Most Beautiful Image

The most beautiful image in the world is that of a woman who is naked, on her back, her legs spread wide for a young hard stud who is filling her fertile body with his cock — while the man in her life is by her side, holding her hand, whispering tender words of support and encouragement. The beauty of this image is not just the natural erotic response to seeing a woman so accepting of pleasure, or so accepting of her natural desire to create life. It goes deeper than that, because it is an image of a woman who fully accepts her sexuality as a joyous thing that should not be suppressed in the name of love or fidelity. It is the image of a woman who wants to glory in sexual sharing, and who wants the support of her partner as she seeks, seduces and enjoys a wide variety of other men… and embraces the possibility that it brings. Infidelity in a traditional monogamous relationship is a act of deceit that builds walls between men and women. The pleasures of illicit relationships cannot be discussed and relived, much less enjoyed openly. It is impossible to truly enjoy such experiences without guilt or remorse, and the memories of those encounters have to be hidden away and forgotten, or relived only in secret. For the sake of protecting their partner, people slowly build secret compartments in their heart that can never be opened for fear of the penalties that honest disclosure might bring. A truly loving, open relationship transforms the burdens and guilt of what society views as “unfaithfulness” into a source of shared joy and intimacy. Instead of suppressing their desires, and building secret resentment as a result, men and women openly discuss, enjoy, share and relive the pleasures they have enjoyed with others. Instead of driving them apart, the enjoyment of sexual pleasure with others becomes something that continually brings couples closer together.
For this reason, I believe a woman should NEVER suppress her sexuality. If a woman wants to bond with her partner, she must open up to him and freely acknowledge her desire to savor the touch, taste and pleasures of other men (and perhaps women as well). A woman desires these things not because she wants to replace her man, but because she wants to embrace her natural urges to enjoy the physical and emotional high that results when a new lover, or old friend, fills her womb with his seed. The special bond that results from open sharing is immune to the corrosion caused by acts of infidelity and dishonesty that inevitably result from imperfect human beings trying, and failing, to suppress natural sexual and reproductive desires.