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NOT CURRENTLY PLAYING

Obviously first limit is no injury. Injury happened once don't want it again.

Second is this: I have a partner of 46 years. I am NO STRINGS ATTACHED. You might be a nice guy but I don't want the stresses of being away from home too much and the stress of disappointing someone whom I've come to like by not visiting enough or regularly. We might say "hello" before the session and "thanks" or good-bye" afterwards.

I am truly "blow and go." Some guys don't like and that's fine. We just aren't a match then.

Then come the regular limits ,no permanent injury, no blood,(These first two would rule out dental extractions and dental play) no unsafe sex, i.e barebacking, no breathe control, no scat, no kissing, no decrophilia (liking of tears), no kids and no females. New no drugs or alcohol. I drink, love vodka, but I don't drink and drive and I'd have to be driving home. I added this because it became an issue when I would not drink for the session because I had to drive home.

I'm more into degradation and submission than the pain. I do the pain as a form of submission. But I don't get off on the pain in and of itself. More into "kink" and submission. I'm not really a slave or even a sub. As a matter of fact I'm very much alpha or leader in my real life. I like giving up control DURING A SESSION. Some called me sex toy Ted. My goal is that the top get what he wants within the stated limits. Have fun and enjoy himself. I don't top from the bottom.

Looks, ethnicity and age not important, but I do like older: my age , older or maybe 10 years younger. Experience is very important to me.

The pictures I am putting up are from last Fall. Winter, and Spring.

If by the end of the first week we start talking we have not set a date for sometime during the up coming month, then we need to admit it's not going to happen and move on. I'm not into endless messages, e-mails or cyber sex. Do do some cyber with guys who are so far away I know I'll never meet them but that is rare. If you do cyber with a local, then it never becomes real time.

MY doctor has told me that I do not have active herpes virus, but that I do have the antibody to it which means I have had an early exposure to it. Nothing live now, but that doesn't mean it could not pop up sometime according to him. I like to get that out right up front.