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Personal information
I am:
Jay, male, heterosexual
From:
Right in the middle, Hawaii, United States
Seeking:
Female, heterosexual
Languages:
English, French, German, Nederlands
Education:
BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation:
Living a blessed life
Income:
Average
Kids:
No, but want some
Religion:
Buddhist/Taoist
Smoking:
Occasionally
Drinking:
Occasionally
Star sign:
Sagittarius
What I look like
Ethnicity:
Mixed
Body type:
Average
Hair length:
Short
Hair color:
Brown
Eye color:
Grey
Height:
193 cm (6 ft 4 in)
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About me

You can call me a bon vivant, I know how to enjoy the fun things in life, without wanting to avoid the serious things. You will not often find me with the remote control "in front of the tube". There are many nicer things you can do with the short time we`re here. My sensitivity is appreciated and fortunately I am still described as a nice guy.
I am loyal, open and honest, caring, sometimes a bit too idealistic, but also very open-minded. Of jealousy, I am fortunate, but I am careful with what I have and try to build with a submissive.
The gym sometimes shoots in, but I also try to keep my fitness level through training and sufficient movement as compensation for my "office job" as a developer.

Finally, a not unimportant detail: I take the relationships I`m in very serious about and expect the same from the other. This applies to ordinary relations, but certainly also to SM relations. I do 100% my best to give relations sufficient attention and never let anyone down.

What do I do in daily life? After completing my college education, I have been working as a technical designer for years. A function that I fulfill with great pleasure and a nice other source of satisfaction.

How does a master center a slave? Being centered is a Zen term that means a person is balanced, calm, healthy, peaceful, grounded, nourished. Some might see it as a relaxed state, one of calm, creative, full of the realization of being well-off, in communion with one’s self and one’s environment… How does a master center a slave? He does it by creating, with his slave, a right relationship, that is, one in which each is free to be him or herself; one with openness, honesty, and clarity of purpose. Centering comes from having a clear focus, mutual support, encouragement, and purpose.
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Jax9713 Host 1 year ago
to DYLARA : Danke verdammtes fickschwein Dylara
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DYLARA 1 year ago
Ich bin ein Fickschwein schönes Profil
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Jax9713 Host 5 years ago
to BBWLuva99 : Thanks, but I`m not into friends collecting. But thanks for the invite 
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BBWLuva99 5 years ago
love your profile pic. add me to see my bbw.
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Jax9713 Host 5 years ago
to hotaru_h : Thank you for accepting hotaru
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hotaru_h 5 years ago
Thank you for invite.☆⌒d(*^ー゚)b good!!
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Jax9713 Host 6 years ago
to Katrin382937 : My pleasure katrin.
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Katrin382937 6 years ago
Thanks for your request
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Jax9713 Host 6 years ago
to fatslut1988 : Well thank you piggie
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fatslut1988 6 years ago
Thank you for the friend request, I love your page!
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Jax9713 Host 7 years ago
to Body-of-a-Goddess : My pleasure, and thank you for accepting. I will surely have a look at your content.
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Body-of-a-Goddess 7 years ago
Thanks for the invite. Hope you enjoy my content. I love reading dirty comments on my pictures and videos. Feel free to check out my page and leave me some to let me know what you think! :wink:
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Jax9713 Host 7 years ago
to lovinlookin : Yes, plenty. we have a universe full with them :smile:
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lovinlookin 7 years ago
Are there any other world's to compare too??
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Jax9713 Host 7 years ago
to halinaplays : My pleasure halina, and thank you for accepting.
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halinaplays 7 years ago
thank you for the request xxx halina
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lovinlookin 7 years ago
well....I guess we AGREE to DISAGREE on this subject...to each their own I say! Thank you for trying to answer my question..it is just inconceivable to me the lengths a slave will go to make a Master feel "centered" but..what do I REALLY know? There are sooo many variations of M/s relationships and some just seem like abuse to me then being sexual. well, have a Blessed life and hope YOU treat your slave well!! LOL
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Jax9713 Host 7 years ago
to lovinlookin : ''How does a master center a slave? He does it by creating, with his slave, a right relationship, that is, one in which each is free to be him or herself; one with openness, honesty, and clarity of purpose. Centering comes from having a clear focus, mutual support, encouragement, and purpose''

A M/s relationship never revolves around 1 but 2 people, to center a slave a mutual state of mind needs to be achieved.

A Master/Mistress never uses a slave to get rid of the frustrations of the real world.
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lovinlookin 7 years ago
how can a slave be centered if it revolves around the master? Am I missing something here?
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Jax9713 Host 7 years ago
to lovinlookin : Interesting view you have on this lovinlookin, but I think you missed the point of being centered.
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lovinlookin 7 years ago
really? it would seem that the SLAVE is helping the MASTER become centered because you're using the slave to take out your frustrations from the real world. The slave can never be a balanced being because she feels unworthy therefore she can take all of your punishments (or encouragement, as you call it)
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