Sharing vs Cuckold

I am curious.
I have no interest in being Cuckolded but interestes in sharing my wife with another guy.
Have chatted with wife and she is slowly coming around to why i am curious.
She hasn't said no .

I have chatted to a few guys online and they almost sound like they want to try and humiliate me rather than add to our sex life. They don't seem to understand its about us. Not them.
Any people able to share their good experiences?

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4 years ago

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nwukcupl 1 year ago

As long as you both want to try it, fine. But it must be mutual...

James6loves 2 years ago

surely 2 cocks will be better than 1....

I've met a few couples as a second cock for the wife, and from chatting beforehand online and in social meetings, your experience is sadly all too common. A lot of guys think being an uncultured yob and frankly unpleasant whilst saying they are going to "smash your wifes pussy" or "fuck the shit" out of her is the ideal way to join a couple. And then probably 8 out of 10 guys bottle a meeting, and out of the 2 that do, a lot of guys can't get or stay hard in company. You have to go through a fair bit of a selection process to weed out the good from the bad, but speaking from experience when you do find the right one, it makes for a fantastic time. The couples i have met have all said they talked meeting others over for a long time, then set ground rules and stuck to them. Any sign of things going wrong and they pull the plug. And they insist on chatting online for a while with an early exchange of verifiable pics, then a social meet to make sure the vibe is right. Then a play date, which the guy organises in a neutral place like a good hotel, with a couple of drinks at a separate bar first. The emphasis is always on the lady, her pleasure is paramount and the hubby and second guy are there to make her happy. It seems a bit of a process to go through, but it's always been well worth it. Repeat meets with the same people must mean they enjoy it as much as I do. If you are a strong couple, finding the right guy adds another dimension to your relationship.

Same as me, it was about sharing for the both of us, we had a very nice older man join us he was 56 we were in our early 30’s. A wonderful experience for us both

Wilts69 3 years ago

Sharing is about both of you and the lucky chap who you are welcoming into your life. There should be no humiliation, or pressure on anybody in the threesome. Yes means yes and No the same.

The_Fucklicker 3 years ago

to The_Fucklicker : Reading the reply’s to the original post something stands out. The men have said it should be equal. No one has mentioned the females wants and needs, surly the wife might not want it to be equal. I get the impression that men want to share their wives and coerce their wives into taking a third, then get but hurt when they feel the lover is taking the piss. It is clear that some shared relationships do not have the maturity to be open. If you want to share or cuckold your partner please make sure your relationship is strong and loving and it’s is something that you both want to explore and enjoy.

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The_Fucklicker 3 years ago

to The_Fucklicker : Cuckolding is different, yes there often is humiliation involved but it should be the wife that is humiliating the husband, not her lover. Some husbands want to feel submissive to his wife and other men or the husband is bi curious. A cuck relationship can be as equal as any other relationship if the couple is mutually agreed and the rules are communicated to the lover. The problems arise whey rules are not communicated or the lover tries to break the rules. In my experience both types of relationship is all about placing the female at the centre of the universe, a very powerful place for any female to be. In either type of relationship, I have one very important rules, the couple writes the rules and the female sets and keeps the rules. If she wishes to break the rules then she may after she has asked her partner. Before I meet a couple I make it very clear that the female has complete control over me, nothing happens without her permission or command and if the husband try’s breaking the rules, I will support the wife’s wishes and if that fails I walk away. I am there to help her husband take her to the centre of her universe

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The_Fucklicker 3 years ago

to The_Fucklicker : To find a partner to share your wife with is often quite difficult, there are lots of men that are time wasters or bottle out. And there are all the assholes to deal with.

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The_Fucklicker 3 years ago

Men that want to humiliate you are just inexperienced arrogant assholes, who only think about themselves, Thay don’t give a fuck about the woman they are fucking or her partner.

fredes 4 years ago

har læst det her- og ønsker også liveværdig sex

Olliedom 4 years ago

Hi, I don’t understand it either- I don’t like the whole cuckold thing. For me it’s more about three equals having fun, with the lady the centre of attention.

Neil144 4 years ago

Dont understand trying to humilate someone.......they should just enjoy the experience of sharing another couples love.....sharing another mans women is fucking hot x

loveyourlips 4 years ago

People think that because you wish to share, they have the upper hand and cause humiliation. Some people are into that, everyone to their own, suppose it what makes the world go around. If I was asked to share a woman with her husband/partner it would be for all our pleasure, suppose it's depends what type of person you are?

cheeryguy67 4 years ago

As you said it is only about you and your wife. Bringing another man to the party is for your pleasure and expierence. As you have said you are sharing.

smithy59 4 years ago

no not humiliate , it should be enhance the sex you have with your wife , test your feelings , I sure your wife has thought of it , a very taboo but exciting fantasy ….