10 Reasons why you should be a Sissy today.

1. Being a sissy is a healthy form of escapism

Escapism is not always a bad thing, and it takes more forms then you might imagine. For example, meditation is a form of escapism likewise with smoking weed or even taking a bath. These are all moments in which you turn off time, shut out the world, and bring your mind at ease by focusing on your personal time. Going deeper, sissies have the benefit of being able to escape the pressures and expectations of masculinity. By taking refuge in your feminine side, you are turning off your male ego and the pressures that come with it. Sissy time allows you to become a different you, it is a form of refuge from the stresses of real life obligations. Simply choosing a night in to dress up and play with yourself is similar to taking a vacation; time away to relax and release. After which, you return feeling more at ease in life and with a clearer mind, this will undoubtedly make your more capable at tackling life's many obligations.

2) Masochistic Emasculation Could Be a Healthy Emotional Outlet

It’s no secret that a large part of feminisation is masochistic emasculation. We enjoy being fucked, humiliated, called a slut, throat fucked and being treated as a cum dumpster. Whilst for many people these are simply fantasies that are enjoyed during sissy time with their dildos and heavily masochistic hypnos, other sissies enact their fantasies in real life by meeting up with doms and mistresses. When we are being dominated, spanked, slapped, abused, fucked hard and rough - we are being submissive because it makes us feel all the more girly and slutty. The psychological side of forced feminization and masochism is complex, and whilst indulging overly can be bad, having a healthy masochistic kink is a great way to release your inner most desires and sexual tension. Being dominated is a way to actually take control of your fears and insecurities, turning them instead into sexual desire. This is why many people who grew up with strict dominant mothers develop masochistic fantasies, because they seize their past emotional fears and distress and spin them into a sexual desire. In a sense, being a submissive sissy slut is an emotional outlet, allowing you to take control of your fears and insecurities and turn them into something that sexually pleases you, isn’t that what we’d all like? Of course moderation is key here, insecurities and fears shouldn’t grow with your masochistic sexuality, but become a part of it. This will allow you to be the sissy slut you could be without being detrimental to your mental health. More info on that here.

3) Sissies Get to Experience a Broad World of Sexuality, And Get To Discover the Pleasures of Sex Throughout its Spectrum

Sissies get the benefit of not only being able to enjoy vanilla sex, but our sexuality is open to a world of sexual experience that drive us deep into the most sensual, satisfying and world shattering pleasures that are otherwise missed out by standard hetero guys. We can get pegged by other women, dominated by men and have sissy playtimes too, and when sissy time is over you could go back to standard old vanilla sex no problem at all. The best part is that not only do we get to experience the amazing feeling of males orgasms, but also get to discover the most intense and deeply powerful sissygasm which will change your life. Sissygasms are prostate orgasms and are completely different from standard male orgasms; not only is it many times more powerful, but we can have sissygasms one after another without having to reboot unlike normal boring male orgasming. A sissygasm is simply an indescribable sensation that will absolutely rock your world, and guess what - you’ll never get to experience it if you live your life as a bog standard heterosexual male! Enjoying sissygasms does not require having to fuck another person, its achievable with a dildo or prostate massager and will be more powerful than any orgasm you’ve ever had during vanilla sex. You’ll truly be missing out if you go through life without ever having experienced the pleasure of a sissygasm.

4) Get in Touch With Your Feminine Side

Like ying and yang, every person has a masculine side and a feminine side to a degree. Sissies get to really touch into their inner femininity and thus they get a deeper experience in exploring their own minds and bodies. By being able to express our feminine side we learn more about who we are, learn more about the female gender and experience life in a deeper level. Fashion legend Tom Ford famously said that every man should experience bottoming at least once in his life; “I think it would help them understand women, It’s such a vulnerable position to be in, and it’s such a passive position to be in. And there’s such an invasion, in a way, that even if it’s consensual, it’s just very personal. And I think there’s a psyche that happens because of it that makes you understand and appreciate what women go through their whole life, because it’s not just sexual, it’s a complete setup of the way the world works, that one sex has the ability to literally—and is expected to and is wanted to—but also there’s an invasion. And I think that that’s something most men do not understand at all.” So then, a sissy gets to really delve into their feminine side and experience what it is to be penetrated, entered and submitting their bodies - this is sexually intrinsic and enables us to get in touch with our true selves.

5) Learn About Yourself

This goes hand in hand with getting in touch with your feminine side. Being a sissy means a deep level of self-exploration and if done properly it can be a profoundly enriching experience. A sissy explores her mind as well as her body, learning the things which excite her, yearning to submit and be a happy princess sissy girl. This journey will demand a sissy to truly understand who she is and what she wants in life. She will learn to overcome her insecurities, embracing her weaknesses as a sexual gift. A sissy spends her nights dressing up, learning to apply makeup, practicing female etiquette and when she’s ready she gets a hypno playlist on, maybe some poppers and weed to unwind, and primes up her dildo for a personal sissy love making session. A sissy truly gets to please herself by inserting cock up her ass, finding her spots of pleasure, feeling the sensations of her nipples and achieving a groundbreaking sissygasm which makes her feel like fireworks are taking off inside her belly. Nobody can explore and learn her own body like a sissy can. Remember that thrusting your ass with a big dildo is not enough to achieve a sissygasm, a sissy also must master her mind because a sissygasm is 90% mental and 10% physical. This means that a sissy must practice mindfulness and will have more mental discipline as well as physical capabilities to please herself and be at peace with her identity.

6) Sissies Are Encouraged to Exercise and Keep Fit

Being a sissy means that exercise should be one of your number one priorities! A sissy needs to workout to get a slim girly toned body and look fabulous naked. A sissy should do everything to get a plump feminine bottom, and how else could that be achieved without exercise. Sissyhood is therefore motivation to keep healthy and achieving a beautiful fit body. Whats more is that there are many ways to incorporate exercise during sissy time. You can for example go to the gym with panties on underneath, and even a buttplug and feel like a naughty little slut. You can do exercises with your dildo, for example depicted above pushups and deep-throat training. Bouncing on your dildo cowgirl style is also exercise in itself, but it is also very tiring - so a sissy must keep fit and exercise regularly to build her stamina! Sissies can also take it to the next level by having an entire workout as part of their sissy time using FapRoulettes, learn all about it here. As you can see, being a sissy isn’t only just a sexual fetish, but a lifestyle which requires healthy habits and lots of self-discipline - things that will go on to benefit your normal day to day living!

7) Crossdressing is a Creative Process and Teaches You About Women's Fashion

Being a sissy isn’t just about dressing up in bras and panties and playing with dildo’s. True sissies learn the art of crossdressing; buying wigs, selecting sexy outfits, keeping a smooth body all over, browsing lingerie sections online - these are all creative exercises which will keep a sissy busy for a long time. Crossdressing is a worldwide hobby practiced by many people, and has a very determined fanbase. The desire to be passable gives sissies a solid goal to look to achieve. Even the sissies who aren’t able to shave their bodies can look for ingenious ways to look aesthetically pleasing and smooth by strategically dressing up. Many sissies love to cosplay as their favorite characters too, bringing some naughtiness to their personal hobbies. All this also requires knowledge of women's fashion, and the more you learn the more you develop as a person! A man who understands women's fashion is universally impressive and even somewhat attractive, just look at all the top fashion designers! Therefore, crossdressing is a great part of sissyhood because not only does it inspire creativity, but teaches you important lessons along the way.

8) Develop a Sissy Alter Ego

It is soo much fun making a sissy identity. Choose your girly name, start making accounts in hypno sites, take part in discussions on Reddit, and uploading saucy pictures of yourself to the sissy community to truly express your sissy identity. Having a sissy alter ego gives you an opportunity to leave your current self and experience being a whole new person. When you are dolled up and passionately riding your dildo you will not for a second feel like your normal masculine self, you will be immersed in a whole other sissy persona; one that is girly and giggly and super slutty. Some days you could just come home and dress up for the evening, do your day chores, some tidying, watch a movie or study whilst being in your sissy personality. Being able to switch between the sissy you and the normal you opens doors to lots of fun opportunities. Furthermore, having a sissy alter ego can be a personal place of refuge when normal day to day life grows exhausting and overbearing. Simply give yourself time off to be someone else for the day and when you’re ready to switch back you will do so in a way that reinforces your understanding of your normal self and in turn strengthen your understanding of who you are on a deeper level.

9) Sissies Prioritize Personal Grooming and Hygiene

If a sissy doesn’t regular face cleanse, shower, shave, keep her nails manicured, her skin smooth and moisturised, then she will not be a good sissy. Just like exercise, sissies must always keep a well-disciplined attitude towards personal grooming if she wants to look and feel her best. Stubble can easily ruin a sissies entire look, and body odour is the opposite of feminine! Even the sissies who can’t shave all over will make it a priority to keep their skin looking vibrant and healthy. Being a sissy compels you to really take care of your looks and personal grooming, and this will of course translate into your daily life when your nails are always kept tidy, face is always smooth and clear and your body hair is at least trimmed if not shaved. It is clear that being a sissies makes you more attractive in all fronts!

10) Experience a Vivid Lifestyle Which Will Have an Invaluable Impact on Your Wellbeing!

As you probably gathered by now, being a sissy is not strictly a sexual fantasy, but a spiritual experience which requires the best of your mental discipline, excellence in growing your femininity, developing knowledge on many aspects of life and sexuality and most of all develop a profound new understanding of who you truly are. And with all these things you also get to enjoy the deepest and most intense sexual pleasures that truly enhance your capacity to experience the most intimate of pleasures. Being a sissy CAN positively translate into a happier and healthier life that manifests itself in the end with the most vivid of sexual satisfaction and prowess. Become a sissy today and enjoy a vibrant, colorful, girly world of self-discovery!
Published by miss-behavin
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ivana6699
extra i translate to my language but it is so simple to understood

i think- not so bad to be sissy
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carolinestacy
so informative and so true pretty well the 10 commandments for us sissy girls 
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to royalewithchees : Same here!
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royalewithchees
Not trying to overshadow this well written post, but for more on the topic of sissification, please feel free to check out my posts on the subject.
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royalewithchees
to kink2kink : I know the feeling. I was always beefy and masculine growing up. If I could do it over, I'd be a fuck toy to rich Daddies.
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bethanyuk
So many important and often little discussed elements of the sissy lifestyle here, wonderfully described.
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cristine3030
just wonderful 
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Petrahh
So true !!!
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As a beta loser and faggot,I wish I had been feminized when I was younger
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subbeg
there is so much about selfcontrol and discipline in being a sissy!
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Wonderful words
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john1969john
Well said! Excellent post
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love seeing these inspiring posts, let more sissies embrace who they really are, love fucking them
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LapperOfLabia
Absolutely brilliant! Especially resonate with 7 & 8.
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carolinestacy
What a lovely constructive well put 10 reasons for being a sissy girl thank you so much Andi xxx
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I really enjoyed this a lot. Thank you Andi!
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jojosmallone
1,2,3 and 5 all are super important to me. Turning my fem side loose, accepting my place as a submissive sissy cock sucker and learning to please "real" men has fullfilled so many of my sexual needs and desires. Now my sex organs are my mouth, lips, tongue and throat
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JTuck
Prior to retiring, I was senior manager for an Fortune 500 Company aerospace corporation in the Washington DC metro area. I managed 80+ engineers and technicians and their well being and security was always in my hands - a terrific strain on me (emotionally) at times. I would have loved to end each work week by being able to shrug off my management responsibilities for others by being able to spend a few blissful hours devoid of any decision-making duties and just live in a totally submissive manner - allowing others to command me and make decisions for me. It appeals to my (latent I guess) submissive needs to think of letting those employees who report to me use me sexually to fulfill any and all of their unfulfilled personal sexual desires and to be the mouth my employees could come to when they want/need to have their cocks sucked and their wives no longer agree to suck them as they desire.
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wl19821772
great post!!! numbers three and five really struck a personal chord with me... i'd just add nylons and heels, cause of course... i always add nylons and heels : )
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How very wonderful. Every man who has ever thought about being a sissy, or just trying crisscrossing ought to read this. 
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sdcv21
could not agree more
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very interesting 
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alex6931
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SandyPark
Wonderful essay darling!  Thanks for posting.  Kiss, kiss.
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Inspirational and spot on. It takes me 2minutes to ejaculate. It takes me 20 minutes to sissygasm. I feel the aftershocks of my sissygasm for at least another 20 minutes. They don’t come often but boy when they do...."...
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Very nice thinking
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being a sissie takes you away from  the real world of men and women Dressiing up and masturbation at the same time is  euphoric The only downside is cumming when you come to the reality you have to meet the real world It is an addiction born by most CDs when very young Then comes the interest of cocks in panties and one wonders if you are gay or just like a cock in lingerie 
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I tend to balance on the edge of Yin Yang.
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this is excellent
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I think we all need a sissygasm xx
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