Cum Tributes - My Thoughts

I can still remember the first time a guy asked to tribute me and I had to get him to explain what it was. Now if he had asked me a few years earlier my thought would have been um thanks but no, no thanks. The thing is he asked me after I learned that I quite enjoy seeing men cum. Through my dogging experiences I learned that men can cum a variety of ways. Some spurt, some ooze, some have a little some a lot, some are runny some are thick. I also learned there is no way of telling how a guy will cum. Quite often it changes with the same guy.

Ill openly admit I enjoy cum. I might even say I’m fascinated by it. I think I’d like it if we made a mess like men do. It’d be fun to leave them all gooey like they leave in and on us.

Despite that though, when I was asked if I wanted a tribute there was a bit of uncertainty. I’m not sure why, just a feeling that I didn’t think I’d enjoy it. I said sure though and watched and was surprised by how I felt about it. I’m sure some would call it bad and objectification but personally I enjoyed it. I know it’s not difficult for men to cum but I couldn’t help but feel a bit of an ego boost. I thought ok I did nothing but he came. He came by just looking at me. He must like what he sees.

I soon learned that many who offered tributes were just looking to have nude pics sent to them and for the most part I fell out of it because of that. Despite that though there are a few things I found I really liked about some. I liked them when:

1) they talked and told me what they were thinking when they did it. What were they thinking and what about me interested them
2) not being delicate with themselves. I found I liked it when it just seemed less like a delicate adventure and almost like self abuse with how frantic they were
3) they stopped jerking when they came. I guess I didn’t like doubting if it was shooting out or simply getting flung by the cock being flicked. I like it when it shoots and I couldn’t help feeling like, hey he’s cheating
4) they moved so I could see the hole in the tip. For some reason I always feel a bit of danger when a penis is looking right at me

Some May judge, but I feel if that some tributes can be very entertaining
Published by Bcnorth
5 years ago
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Bcnorth
Bcnorth Publisher 4 years ago
I’m not really sure I understand your question of have I seen one in person.  Do you mean has a man ever masturbated while we were together?  If so, yes.  That happened before only one asked to give me a tribute on
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tribute-ary
tribute-ary 4 years ago
Like someone said below, I do them as appreciation, hence the name tribute. I hate getting messages from blank profiles asking or demanding that I tribute their ex, or other such nonsense. 
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tribute-ary
tribute-ary 4 years ago
In my mind, most tributes are done as videos for the person. Have you ever seen one in person, or at least on video?
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ItalySpain
ItalySpain 4 years ago
Thank you for your thoughts. When I do cum tributes i am very vocal and describe what i'm thinking when i cum on/for the woman. Sometimes i shoot a rope of cum but mostly just oozes. You have very thought provoking blogs. thanks.
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urfrendwithbenefits
awesome post. i think we're in agreement in what we enjoy in a quality tribute. except for seeing the hole in the tip. i've never much thought about that before. the talking and moans and grunts are really exciting. also, i find it exciting to see what turns a guy on or gets a guy off... and just being in agreement with how beautiful someone is. or, when tributing to porn or slideshow, what scene or pic carries them over the top.

thanks for the honest thoughts from your perspective!
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Bcnorth
Bcnorth Publisher 5 years ago
to n2oral : It surprises many but I never masturbate.  It’s not because of any hang ups or anything.  I simply prefer to be touched by another rather than myself.  Much of my enjoyment comes from feeling naughty and daring.  I’ve never been one to fantasize and think what if.  So I’ve never really felt the need to take care of myself.
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n2oral
n2oral 5 years ago
The operative here, at least for me, is “tribute” - when I am motivated to offer one, it is in gratitude for the arousal that a woman has given me.  When it’s possible to thank her in person, I do so by giving her an orgasm by fingers, lips, tongue or penis. When distance makes that impossible, I like to show her how much she has excited me by ejaculating for her and hoping that my gift prompts her to pleasure herself as well.  Do you masturbate when we tribute you?
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