Cousin Dilema
I have a Dilema with a distant cousin of mine I'm hoping someone has a solution too.
Basically, for about 4 months now I've been seeing one of my distant cousins. She's my mum's cousins daughter and she's a TS. She's quite pretty in my view, fair face and body and all, she's 7 years older than me, quite 'bigger' than me too. I've obviously always known she was TS but this year I started talking to her through fb and all I think she knew why but Anyways it ended with us now seeing each other and playing regularly.
She's real fun to chill and fuck with and we've had regular dates like normal couples. Even though our families can't ever know. She knows I'm top and I knew she was quite Dom before but the generally agreement was that I'd be the one always on top and I'd still pleasure her by hand or whatever. Recently, she's becoming quite more aggressive sexually let's say. She's doing stuff like waking me up by cock slapping or cumming on my neck and stuff which is annoying or when outs she's comfortably whopping her clit out and asking me to stroke it. It started out in quiet parks which I didn't mind but now it's while she or myself drive or like last week we were in the cinema watching deep water horizon and she's pulling it out in a packed cinema asking me to make her cum. She's always still gentle and seductive when doing this but she's risking a lot recently and I don't know why.
Anyone got any ideas on how to calm her or talk to her without making her feel bad or ashamed? I enjoy all our sex and time together but getting us caught or arrested isn't my idea of a fun day out lol
Also, please know this is my life and not porn so reflect that in your comments lol.
Basically, for about 4 months now I've been seeing one of my distant cousins. She's my mum's cousins daughter and she's a TS. She's quite pretty in my view, fair face and body and all, she's 7 years older than me, quite 'bigger' than me too. I've obviously always known she was TS but this year I started talking to her through fb and all I think she knew why but Anyways it ended with us now seeing each other and playing regularly.
She's real fun to chill and fuck with and we've had regular dates like normal couples. Even though our families can't ever know. She knows I'm top and I knew she was quite Dom before but the generally agreement was that I'd be the one always on top and I'd still pleasure her by hand or whatever. Recently, she's becoming quite more aggressive sexually let's say. She's doing stuff like waking me up by cock slapping or cumming on my neck and stuff which is annoying or when outs she's comfortably whopping her clit out and asking me to stroke it. It started out in quiet parks which I didn't mind but now it's while she or myself drive or like last week we were in the cinema watching deep water horizon and she's pulling it out in a packed cinema asking me to make her cum. She's always still gentle and seductive when doing this but she's risking a lot recently and I don't know why.
Anyone got any ideas on how to calm her or talk to her without making her feel bad or ashamed? I enjoy all our sex and time together but getting us caught or arrested isn't my idea of a fun day out lol
Also, please know this is my life and not porn so reflect that in your comments lol.
8 years ago
As far as doing risky things like sex in public, I can't imagine that she won't see the problem with that. Okay, so it turns her on, but would a night in jail be worth it??? I don't think so.
But you are both lucky to have each other, and it has to be fun when you're together. I'm hoping that you can both find some "middle ground" on which to share your lust for eachother's bodies.
Today she even said it that I don't need to suck her, just let her blow it in my mouth. That id enjoy it but it's not my cup of tea.
Anyways, I'm gna see her again on Wednesday, planning on visiting a spa/club together so I'm gna try speak to her after.
As for at home, may not be your cup of tea, but why not try out her cock? Let her cum higher, give her a little suck etc. You never know, you might enjoy it. Doesn't mean you have to give her a full blowjob to have her cum in your mouth, just lets her have that bit if pleasure and finish her with hand etc
But I think you're right about needing a good talk. Will try get it out the way before xmas
As for me, I'm very jealous and would love to be with a partner like this hehe
I kind of think and feel that she needs it a bit so I was thinking to suggest we bring someone else into te bed once in a while so she can fuck while we play. But im worried that she might enjoy that more and decide to end things or that she might even get upset by the suggestion.