Missing in Action

I stopped camming here a while back for another site. XHamster doesn't let you say the name, but it's similar to chatting while masturbating. I got tired of the general ~vibe~ here and some of the technical and payment issues.

At the other site, my heart isn't even in it that much anymore. I still like to get dolled up, but most people want to see a 'show', and I don't always do that. It's a lot of work, and frankly, I don't NEED the money like some of those girls do.

Aside from that, I don't get many viewers and a lot of the viewers I DO get are really just a pain in the ass. It's frustrating to the point of tipping the scales of not wanting to do it as much.

I understand my "brand" isn't for everyone and I can be difficult at times. I get tons of messages on here from guys who really don't give a fuck apparently and just want to leap directly into cybersex or marriage (wtf), etc. If You message me and I don't respond, maybe take a look at what you wrote instead of complaining about me. I'm pretty up-front with what I'm about. I'm here for me, not for you.

I'm totally down to talk or cam or whatever else if you (you as in, all people) can muster up something more compelling than "hi bb" or spamming my messages with private cam invitations.

I might even cam one of these days...
Published by LilyUnleashed
8 years ago
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lostnomad 8 years ago
Post the name on fetlife.
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RealMasterD 8 years ago
You are right! Some of the cam are just about "show me your ass and cock" and no one wants to have a talk. It's a shame that people miss the oportunity of having a nice talk with you. Anyway don't give up and have fun!
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LilyUnleashed
LilyUnleashed Publisher 8 years ago
to Synthecide : Community sounds silly when you realize where we are, but it was pretty much that. I liked seeing the same people in my shows and learning what they liked and actually talking to people. Most of the girls on cam don't do much of that - sometimes they just have too many viewers, but a lot of times it's just them token whoring.
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Vkarl1980 8 years ago
I miss your shows. You and your gf were a great diversion from the the average porn/cam show. Before Xham forced everything to be about tokens, the kind of shows you could find here were a great example of how "porn" doesn't have to be all about " show butt bb".
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Synthecide
Synthecide 8 years ago
It's A Shame This Place Isn't What It Used To Be Years Ago. This Was My Favorite Place To Watch Cams, And Seeing You Cam Was One Of The Reasons For That. It Just Isn't The Same At CB Or CamForeigner As It Once Was Here. We Had A Tighter Knit Community Of Pervs Here, The Few Idiots Around Were Usually More Entertaining Than Anything & The Real Assholes Would Most Likely Get Chewed Up, And Spat Out By The Regulars In The Room To The Point Of Them Leaving Without Having Mods.
Not To Say That I Was Always A Good Boy Here, I Had A Few Bans. My Favorite Was This Russian Girl, At One Point I Said To Her "Stop Being Such A Token Whore" She Said "If I Was A Token Whore I'd Have More Tokens!" I Replied "I Didn't Say You Were Good At It" BANNED! Duce66 Was There, He Loved It, And Got Banned Too.
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just4p0rn 8 years ago
i didnt know you were on cb, id love to catch one of your shows if you ever decide to go back to it :smile:
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bikeywest
bikeywest 8 years ago
to LilyUnleashed : It's odd, we want to be dominated but not by selfish pigs.
I just blocked many countries and now just play with friends who I special invite
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LilyUnleashed
LilyUnleashed Publisher 8 years ago
to bikeywest : Not sure I've noticed 'South Americans' doing anything bad, it's honestly usually people from Morocco or Mediterranean countries - Turkey, Syria etc.

They (as a generality) have a very interesting concept of how western relationships work.
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bikeywest
bikeywest 8 years ago
I noticed on c_bate so many south americans are the really rude ones. Very demanding and always gray.
Keep looking, there are so many sites to try
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jubelum
jubelum 8 years ago
BTW, I'm a Hoosier as well. Thank God the weather has lasted this long. I would love to try the cam thing some time. Never done it. Let me know.
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jubelum
jubelum 8 years ago
What ever works for you. Don't be shy about just saying hello to us Hamsters.
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strider2000 8 years ago
I don't know if you remember me, I've "attended" some of your shows (same username) about 1-2 years back. I'm sorry to hear you are having a negative experience, I did really like your shows. I remember them being pretty funny :smile:
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