Our first time
Well this is the start of our blog, we generally like talking about the experiences to people and others who are looking to meet. We will try to get both our perspectives down on here as we write when we are together so bear with us! If anyone wants us to expand on certain points let us know.
I, Justin met Sophie when she was 16, I was 25 and we met through some extended friends. I instantly fancied her and thought she was stunning. At first I would go crazy with jealously if another guy looked at her (which many did) but I guess this was only normal. I then saw a video online of a guy watching another lad have sex with his girlfriend, i was hooked. From then on I thought about watching the same with Jess.
I then had to bring it up with Jess, she was sexually quite shy and lost her virginity to me so I knew it would be a big deal. I brought up fantasies, she said she didnāt have any then I told her mine. Oops! She went crazy, questioning how I could ever want or like that. It got so bad that we split up for a few days so I had some making up to do.
We got back with each other and I left the idea for a whole, I then gradually introduced it to her again, eventually she just spoke about it and that was that. A whole while longer I then started to try and arrange dates, she wasnāt interested. Following on from this one day out of the blue when I suggested it she said āok fine arrange itā I couldnāt believe it and was so happy.
From my point of view (Jess) I was really happy with our sex life, when he suggested this I freaked out. I love J so much and he is so good to me I just couldnāt believe this idea and had not heard anything like it before. I have always been brought up that sex should be with one person in a relationship, not to be sleeping with random people. After a while I think I was just ground down by him and called his bluff, I thought If I said arrange a meeting he would panic and actually regret it. He didnāt!
After a few weeks J said nothing more about it, I thought my plan had worked. One Friday night a few months ago he text me saying get dressed up we were going out. I got all dressed up and he drove which I thought was odd. After leaving Notts around 1am we ended up in a woods car park, I thought this was strange really. He pulled up next to a car and this man got out and started walking over. I knew then my plan hadnāt actually worked!
I, Justin met Sophie when she was 16, I was 25 and we met through some extended friends. I instantly fancied her and thought she was stunning. At first I would go crazy with jealously if another guy looked at her (which many did) but I guess this was only normal. I then saw a video online of a guy watching another lad have sex with his girlfriend, i was hooked. From then on I thought about watching the same with Jess.
I then had to bring it up with Jess, she was sexually quite shy and lost her virginity to me so I knew it would be a big deal. I brought up fantasies, she said she didnāt have any then I told her mine. Oops! She went crazy, questioning how I could ever want or like that. It got so bad that we split up for a few days so I had some making up to do.
We got back with each other and I left the idea for a whole, I then gradually introduced it to her again, eventually she just spoke about it and that was that. A whole while longer I then started to try and arrange dates, she wasnāt interested. Following on from this one day out of the blue when I suggested it she said āok fine arrange itā I couldnāt believe it and was so happy.
From my point of view (Jess) I was really happy with our sex life, when he suggested this I freaked out. I love J so much and he is so good to me I just couldnāt believe this idea and had not heard anything like it before. I have always been brought up that sex should be with one person in a relationship, not to be sleeping with random people. After a while I think I was just ground down by him and called his bluff, I thought If I said arrange a meeting he would panic and actually regret it. He didnāt!
After a few weeks J said nothing more about it, I thought my plan had worked. One Friday night a few months ago he text me saying get dressed up we were going out. I got all dressed up and he drove which I thought was odd. After leaving Notts around 1am we ended up in a woods car park, I thought this was strange really. He pulled up next to a car and this man got out and started walking over. I knew then my plan hadnāt actually worked!
9 years ago
