SUCKING DICK
Sucking Dicks Doesnât Make You a Pig, Get Over It!
But wait, before we dive into the topic even deeper, thereâs just one thing that Iâd like to get out of the way. Itâs about the perception of many people -- especially women -- about fellatio.
I have to be honest. At first, the thought of kneeling down and putting a manâs dick inside your mouth disgusted me at first.
Thereâs no way Iâm going to do that! I remember telling my friends that.
But itâs the only way us gays can please a man, my gay friends would say.
I didnât argue with them because I knew deep down theyâre right. So I tried to imagine myself doing the ânastyâ deed, if only to prepare myself when an opportunity arises. But everytime I did, I found myself asking innocent, virginal questions, which did not help at all.
How about the smell? Isnât that dirty? Will I get sick?
Aside from those questions, perhaps one of the reasons why it took me some time to get into the action is the fact that most people describe blowjobs as âgrossâ and should never be done. Blowjobs are for sluts and porn stars, and those who do it do not have respect in themselves.
Iâm sure that most people can relate to this, but weâre grown-ups now. Sucking dicks does not necessarily mean youâre a slut... or worse, a pig. Get over it!
Why Men Love Blowjobs
Iâve been sucking my boyfriendâs dick for more than five years now, and though I have some pretty interesting theories as to why he loves blowjobs, I want professionals to tell us why exactly. Anyway, here are my thoughts.
First, whether we like it or not, admit it or not, every man wants to be a âmachoâ man. A husband expects submissiveness from his wife, and it gives him great satisfaction seeing his wife submit to him in the bedroom. Yes, slavery is very much alive!
Second, people are always looking for a validation of whatever prowess, traits, or possessions they take pride in having. In this context, men are always looking for ways to validate their manhood and ego. A good blowjob makes them feel like Superman.
Last, blowjobs can be a sign of love or a deep sense of connection. If a girl is willing to suck her boyfriendâs dick in earnest, this can be perceived as love or admiration. On the contrary, when blowjobs are a one-night-only thing, the act is purely lust.
[Related: Benefits of Giving a Blowjob]
How to Give Your Man the Hottest Blowjob Ever
Giving head is not as simple as you think. Itâs actually an art. Art, you say? Why yes! Itâs not just about unzipping your manâs pants, pulling his penis out, and sliding it up and down your mouth. If you want to give the best, mind-blowing blowjobs, understand that it is a process that should be done with passion and so much gusto.
Let me give you a step-by-step process in achieving just that.
1. Be in the mood.
First of all, condition yourself. You have to want it. You have to be submissive, sexy, naughty, and very into it. Otherwise, itâs not going to work. In my case, Iâm always in the mood. My boyfriend is a hot dude, and he has such a nice-looking dick. So when he drops by my place, which is usually on the weekends, I make sure Iâm feeling sexy and ready to please him.
Different people have different ways to get into the action. Some would watch porn, and others prefer to cuddle and make out. Find out whatâs yours, and use it to your advantage.
2. Give time for foreplay.
I donât know about you, but I love initiating my boyfriend and Iâs intimate moments. He prefers it that way, and he responds better if I do that. I theorize that doing this fills up his ego, making him more and more like a man.
What I do for foreplay is to pamper my man. I give him a back rub, a massage, and even clip his nails. While doing these things, I tease him like a shy girl by secretly rubbing my leg onto his crotch. Of course he knows what Iâm doing, and the pseudo-mystery helps increase both our libido. I touch him here and there, and rub his crotch slightly, feeling his hard-on.
So yeah, tease, tease, tease.
3. When youâre ready, slowly and gently scoop your manâs penis out.
Donât forget the flirty smile and the slutty look while youâre doing it. And please be gentle. Hold his dick like you would your most treasured possession. Be careful with the head and the front part of the shaft because theyâre the most sensitive and delicate parts of the penis. Long nails look sexy, but careful not to scratch the Big Ben.
While doing all this, unwrap your man like a delicate gift. Let him lie down on the bed or sit with his arms at the back of his head. Donât his armpits look sexy? Yes, smell his manhood, kiss his happy trails, then move your way up to his nipples, chest, neck, nipples again, neck again, and then his mouth. But whatever you do, donât let go of the Big Ben. Stroke it gently, up and down, up and down...
4. When youâve had enough appetizer, itâs time for the main course.
Once again, give your man the sluttiest of the slutty look while moving down to his manhood. Cup your manâs balls, fix your hair, and then start with the head. Let your imagination take you back to when you were a k** enjoying a lollipop. Close your eyes and let out a slight moan.
When you have enough, stick out your tongue and slide it all the way down to the back part of the shaft. If youâre man is circumcised, toying with the skin at the back just below the head will send your man into paradise. So take your time to suckle it like you would the juice of a fruit. Slobber it back and forth, while you throw sexy glances at your man. At this time, he would be rolling his eyes and calling all the saints in heaven. Youâll love this reaction, naughty bitch!
5. Grab the shaft, and then lick them balls.
Continue the pleasure by concentrating on the balls. Lick them, and do it gently. Go back to the shaft again, and then slide your way back to the balls. Iâm sure you can almost see your manâs pre-cum.
6. Put your lips together, create a tight opening, then slide your manâs dick inside your man.
Feel his manhood inside of you, and best of all, enjoy what youâre doing. And to borrow my boyfriendâs words, âitâs the distanceâ that matters and not the speed. Take your manâs dick as deep as you can. Then, go up and down, up and down, up and down. Do it slowly at first, then make it faster. Then slow, then fast again.
There are two things Iâd like you to remember at this point.
First, NO TEETH. To accomplish this, pull your lips inside your mouth like an old woman with dentures. Do not let go of this position.
Second, cup your manâs balls while doing this. I donât know why, but doing this gives your man a better sensation.
7. Get ready for the explosion.
There are two ways to know when your man is ready to explode. First, when the head of his penis âlightsâ up, throbs, or becomes bigger. Second, when the shaft is very stiff and hard, and so is your man.
Men love it when you swallow their cum, but if youâre not comfortable with it, you can just spit it out.
[Related: Spit or Swallow, Which Do Men Prefer?]
Some Hot Blowjob Tips for You
It took me some time to master the art of giving a blowjob. So donât worry if you havenât absorbed everything I said. These things take time. Just make sure you have enough practice. Anyway, Iâd like to give you more tips.
1. Be careful with the sensitive parts.
The last thing you want to do is to scratch or injure your man. The most sensitive and delicate parts are the head of the penis and the front part of the shaft.
2. Though I urged you to be your slutty self, I also strongly urge that you do it with passion.
After all, youâre not a slut and youâre not having sex with a stranger. Youâre making love with the man in your life.
I love my man. When I give him head, I always do it with passion. Blowjob for me is what connects me to him. Everytime weâre together, I wish I could give him head forever. To me, itâs more than oral sex. Blowjob is the heart of our relationship. So to keep this heart healthy, the goal is always to give him maximum pleasure and satisfaction.
3. Talk dirty.
Dirty talk increases both your libido, so discard your modest and virginal self and use terms such as âdick,â âfuck,â âsuck,â âfuck yeah,â and so on...
4. Unless your man is really smelly, donât ask him to take a bath.
A manâs musk adds to the sexiness of the moment. Plus, it makes you in the mood. Think about this. Why do some women love sniffing their husbandâs soiled clothes? Why is a female deer attracted to a male deerâs smell?
5. Swallow his cum.
This is discussed in this article, so head over to that link to know more about swallowing.
6. Try some tricks.
Whether it is using a prop or slobbering your manâs dick with choco syrup, feel free to try something new. Remember, though, that not all experiments will turn out to be a success. I remember one time, my friend suggested that I gargle with mouthwash before giving my boyfriend head, and so I did but he didnât like it.
The point is, you should add a little variety to the whole up-and-down and slobbering routine. Change a position, for instance. If you're used to doing oral sex with your man lying down, have him sit or stand up to know the difference. Add a little tingling, cool sensation by putting a little bit of toothpaste to your mouth. Try something new, or better yet, fulfill his sexual fantasies.
7. Watch yourselves in the mirror.
In love hotels, they have mirrors all over the room, especially on walls and on the ceiling. Try watching yourselves in the mirror while you do it. Trust me, youâll notice a lustful difference.
8. Itâs not how fast you go. Itâs how FAR youâre willing to go, then back again.
One of the biggest misconceptions I had when I started sucking my boyfriendâs throbbing lollipop is that men want the up-and-down motion to be as fast as possible. But there were a couple of times when my boyfriend would stop me and urge me to slow down and just focus on the âdisplacement.â Thatâs my boyfriendâs term that means the distance my mouth should take / cover, from his pay-nisâs head down to the base of the shaft. So avoid the rush. Go up and down slowly, and make sure you devour everything.
NOTE:
How do I know all these things? I learned from the best. I learned from Jack. You can be an expert blowjob giver, too if you enroll in his classes.
<< Jackâs BLOWJOB LESSONS >>
But wait, before we dive into the topic even deeper, thereâs just one thing that Iâd like to get out of the way. Itâs about the perception of many people -- especially women -- about fellatio.
I have to be honest. At first, the thought of kneeling down and putting a manâs dick inside your mouth disgusted me at first.
Thereâs no way Iâm going to do that! I remember telling my friends that.
But itâs the only way us gays can please a man, my gay friends would say.
I didnât argue with them because I knew deep down theyâre right. So I tried to imagine myself doing the ânastyâ deed, if only to prepare myself when an opportunity arises. But everytime I did, I found myself asking innocent, virginal questions, which did not help at all.
How about the smell? Isnât that dirty? Will I get sick?
Aside from those questions, perhaps one of the reasons why it took me some time to get into the action is the fact that most people describe blowjobs as âgrossâ and should never be done. Blowjobs are for sluts and porn stars, and those who do it do not have respect in themselves.
Iâm sure that most people can relate to this, but weâre grown-ups now. Sucking dicks does not necessarily mean youâre a slut... or worse, a pig. Get over it!
Why Men Love Blowjobs
Iâve been sucking my boyfriendâs dick for more than five years now, and though I have some pretty interesting theories as to why he loves blowjobs, I want professionals to tell us why exactly. Anyway, here are my thoughts.
First, whether we like it or not, admit it or not, every man wants to be a âmachoâ man. A husband expects submissiveness from his wife, and it gives him great satisfaction seeing his wife submit to him in the bedroom. Yes, slavery is very much alive!
Second, people are always looking for a validation of whatever prowess, traits, or possessions they take pride in having. In this context, men are always looking for ways to validate their manhood and ego. A good blowjob makes them feel like Superman.
Last, blowjobs can be a sign of love or a deep sense of connection. If a girl is willing to suck her boyfriendâs dick in earnest, this can be perceived as love or admiration. On the contrary, when blowjobs are a one-night-only thing, the act is purely lust.
[Related: Benefits of Giving a Blowjob]
How to Give Your Man the Hottest Blowjob Ever
Giving head is not as simple as you think. Itâs actually an art. Art, you say? Why yes! Itâs not just about unzipping your manâs pants, pulling his penis out, and sliding it up and down your mouth. If you want to give the best, mind-blowing blowjobs, understand that it is a process that should be done with passion and so much gusto.
Let me give you a step-by-step process in achieving just that.
1. Be in the mood.
First of all, condition yourself. You have to want it. You have to be submissive, sexy, naughty, and very into it. Otherwise, itâs not going to work. In my case, Iâm always in the mood. My boyfriend is a hot dude, and he has such a nice-looking dick. So when he drops by my place, which is usually on the weekends, I make sure Iâm feeling sexy and ready to please him.
Different people have different ways to get into the action. Some would watch porn, and others prefer to cuddle and make out. Find out whatâs yours, and use it to your advantage.
2. Give time for foreplay.
I donât know about you, but I love initiating my boyfriend and Iâs intimate moments. He prefers it that way, and he responds better if I do that. I theorize that doing this fills up his ego, making him more and more like a man.
What I do for foreplay is to pamper my man. I give him a back rub, a massage, and even clip his nails. While doing these things, I tease him like a shy girl by secretly rubbing my leg onto his crotch. Of course he knows what Iâm doing, and the pseudo-mystery helps increase both our libido. I touch him here and there, and rub his crotch slightly, feeling his hard-on.
So yeah, tease, tease, tease.
3. When youâre ready, slowly and gently scoop your manâs penis out.
Donât forget the flirty smile and the slutty look while youâre doing it. And please be gentle. Hold his dick like you would your most treasured possession. Be careful with the head and the front part of the shaft because theyâre the most sensitive and delicate parts of the penis. Long nails look sexy, but careful not to scratch the Big Ben.
While doing all this, unwrap your man like a delicate gift. Let him lie down on the bed or sit with his arms at the back of his head. Donât his armpits look sexy? Yes, smell his manhood, kiss his happy trails, then move your way up to his nipples, chest, neck, nipples again, neck again, and then his mouth. But whatever you do, donât let go of the Big Ben. Stroke it gently, up and down, up and down...
4. When youâve had enough appetizer, itâs time for the main course.
Once again, give your man the sluttiest of the slutty look while moving down to his manhood. Cup your manâs balls, fix your hair, and then start with the head. Let your imagination take you back to when you were a k** enjoying a lollipop. Close your eyes and let out a slight moan.
When you have enough, stick out your tongue and slide it all the way down to the back part of the shaft. If youâre man is circumcised, toying with the skin at the back just below the head will send your man into paradise. So take your time to suckle it like you would the juice of a fruit. Slobber it back and forth, while you throw sexy glances at your man. At this time, he would be rolling his eyes and calling all the saints in heaven. Youâll love this reaction, naughty bitch!
5. Grab the shaft, and then lick them balls.
Continue the pleasure by concentrating on the balls. Lick them, and do it gently. Go back to the shaft again, and then slide your way back to the balls. Iâm sure you can almost see your manâs pre-cum.
6. Put your lips together, create a tight opening, then slide your manâs dick inside your man.
Feel his manhood inside of you, and best of all, enjoy what youâre doing. And to borrow my boyfriendâs words, âitâs the distanceâ that matters and not the speed. Take your manâs dick as deep as you can. Then, go up and down, up and down, up and down. Do it slowly at first, then make it faster. Then slow, then fast again.
There are two things Iâd like you to remember at this point.
First, NO TEETH. To accomplish this, pull your lips inside your mouth like an old woman with dentures. Do not let go of this position.
Second, cup your manâs balls while doing this. I donât know why, but doing this gives your man a better sensation.
7. Get ready for the explosion.
There are two ways to know when your man is ready to explode. First, when the head of his penis âlightsâ up, throbs, or becomes bigger. Second, when the shaft is very stiff and hard, and so is your man.
Men love it when you swallow their cum, but if youâre not comfortable with it, you can just spit it out.
[Related: Spit or Swallow, Which Do Men Prefer?]
Some Hot Blowjob Tips for You
It took me some time to master the art of giving a blowjob. So donât worry if you havenât absorbed everything I said. These things take time. Just make sure you have enough practice. Anyway, Iâd like to give you more tips.
1. Be careful with the sensitive parts.
The last thing you want to do is to scratch or injure your man. The most sensitive and delicate parts are the head of the penis and the front part of the shaft.
2. Though I urged you to be your slutty self, I also strongly urge that you do it with passion.
After all, youâre not a slut and youâre not having sex with a stranger. Youâre making love with the man in your life.
I love my man. When I give him head, I always do it with passion. Blowjob for me is what connects me to him. Everytime weâre together, I wish I could give him head forever. To me, itâs more than oral sex. Blowjob is the heart of our relationship. So to keep this heart healthy, the goal is always to give him maximum pleasure and satisfaction.
3. Talk dirty.
Dirty talk increases both your libido, so discard your modest and virginal self and use terms such as âdick,â âfuck,â âsuck,â âfuck yeah,â and so on...
4. Unless your man is really smelly, donât ask him to take a bath.
A manâs musk adds to the sexiness of the moment. Plus, it makes you in the mood. Think about this. Why do some women love sniffing their husbandâs soiled clothes? Why is a female deer attracted to a male deerâs smell?
5. Swallow his cum.
This is discussed in this article, so head over to that link to know more about swallowing.
6. Try some tricks.
Whether it is using a prop or slobbering your manâs dick with choco syrup, feel free to try something new. Remember, though, that not all experiments will turn out to be a success. I remember one time, my friend suggested that I gargle with mouthwash before giving my boyfriend head, and so I did but he didnât like it.
The point is, you should add a little variety to the whole up-and-down and slobbering routine. Change a position, for instance. If you're used to doing oral sex with your man lying down, have him sit or stand up to know the difference. Add a little tingling, cool sensation by putting a little bit of toothpaste to your mouth. Try something new, or better yet, fulfill his sexual fantasies.
7. Watch yourselves in the mirror.
In love hotels, they have mirrors all over the room, especially on walls and on the ceiling. Try watching yourselves in the mirror while you do it. Trust me, youâll notice a lustful difference.
8. Itâs not how fast you go. Itâs how FAR youâre willing to go, then back again.
One of the biggest misconceptions I had when I started sucking my boyfriendâs throbbing lollipop is that men want the up-and-down motion to be as fast as possible. But there were a couple of times when my boyfriend would stop me and urge me to slow down and just focus on the âdisplacement.â Thatâs my boyfriendâs term that means the distance my mouth should take / cover, from his pay-nisâs head down to the base of the shaft. So avoid the rush. Go up and down slowly, and make sure you devour everything.
NOTE:
How do I know all these things? I learned from the best. I learned from Jack. You can be an expert blowjob giver, too if you enroll in his classes.
<< Jackâs BLOWJOB LESSONS >>
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