Exalting Vehemence



Ok, so there's no deep message or meaning this site, it's just me ranting, so there you go. Granted, for a while all the gross invties from dudes are funny but after a while it's less like watching a caterpillar on it's back wriggling around now. It's not funny...it's like starring at a roadkilled(Yeah, I made that word up) corpse of a deer with wayward organs and entrails everything this this point. And not in a cool way...It's just disturbing. So you block their invites, but that's only half of the problem, right.



So I'm going to reiterate something I've addressed before. It's a free site and people are free to do whatever right. If you can't be free and disgusting on a porn site where can you? BUT once you extended yourself to someone you open yourself up to criticism. The guys with their disgusting profiles asking for invites is one thing. I understand they just want to leech videos. I get it, they're morons, but it's understandable. If you're a woman and you're profile is filled to the brim with cock there's no reason to send me an invite. It's disgusting and a giant clash of interests. Like you can't have your cake and preserve it, too. What you like is what you like, but FFS why can't ANYONE on this site consider how other people will them of them before they send a damn invite. Does no one consider how their content maybe be unwanted by someone else? It's just a waste of time. If you have some shrine of cock-sucking, good for you but learn how to read, dammit. Don't invite random lesbians you have nothing in common with. God, it's so annoying to have to click on those profiles and tell them no. There's just no excuse...and it's beyond annoying. Yes, I could just block ALL invites, but eh...I shouldn't have to. Just stop..like stop.



Speaking of invites....considering all the recent random female and couple invites, I've started to come to a realization and seeing IDK how many thumbnails of the same thing. Perhaps porn isn't as inaccurate as I once believed. I mean it's no coincidence that every time a woman or a "couple" uploads personal vidoes of their own it's of the same thing man or woman. Blowjobs or handjobs or whatever other jobs. A guy uploads videos of him and his girlfriend/wife and it's of her getting him off. A woman uploads videos of them and it's of her.... getting him off. Usually calling herself a whore, slut or bitch and sucking him off in a myriad of ways in the process. Slurping down cum or something like it's the first few streams of dew discovered in a desert. The focus is never on the women being pleased let alone orally. It's like the women being pumped is enough...how dare a women be eaten!! Pfft. Yet, they suck cock, anyway. Which again, is just like porn. I mean there's a reason. Unlike porn where it's forced, these women/couples control their content and have a choice and they still opt to show the same thing, IMO it's frustrating and maddening in a way.
But don't get me wrong, there's nothing wrong with that. Consenting adults and all that. They know want to do and see. But there some hypocrisy in the women that complain about the one-sided nature of porn. Like you NEVER see some man or women uploading tons of videos of the man going down on her. Which I guess says something. When you think about it porn is more of a viable reflection than people seem to think. Which is why at this point there's really no reason for me to whine about how "degrading" porn is to women at this point, when most women choose to represent the same thing when given the chance. I just think it's kinda funny...and sad...and I've seen way too many profiles on this site. Just one time it would be interesting to see a woman be assertive. I just don't understand why a guy uploads cock stuff or has a cock avatar and then women always have the exact same thing...it's just like a penis is the only that that matters to anyone here. IDK, it's just something I'll never understand. Like if actual lesbian couples uploaded videos it wouldn't consist of the same one being the focus all the time. But the funniest thing is all this is why do I give a damn? None of this has anything to do with me...Perhaps:


lolno, certainly not that...I just spend way to much time here. BUT in the end I'm not trying to tell or criticize what people upload. Just an observation I needed to vent.

Good day.




* And of course the gifs aren't working....amazing.

* See what I mean? Just now...as I speak.

http://xhamster.com/user/fireballxl6

A pointless invite. I swear to god every couple on this place uploads the same crap.
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Hi, I am not looking for anything, but I just had to comment, I came across your page and started reading, the more I read the more my mouth dropped open. I must have led a very sheltered life because I was just amazed at the comments from porn movie makers and then when I read down your comments, just unbelievable, I feel totally ashamed, how can people write such appalling comments, sorry to post on your page but I just had to comment.
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to Thelambofdeth : well i guess we cant understand everything in the world lol
we must find one of these Dupes and ask her .. it is the only way we can find out what they were thinking (( if )) they were really thinking
and by the way i hate shaky cam too
especially in horror movies .. it is not scary it is just annoying -_-
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Thelambofdeth
to katachthonios : Well yeah, I get all that. The vast majority of porn is made by and for men. Either to vicariously project them into instances of which they would never feasibly ascertain IRL or to overly exaggerate something of plausibility to the point of hyper-realistic abuse. It's crap, but it's men..so what else would I expect?

My issue is women watch that crap, complain about it, then come here and choose to upload and it's of the same thing. Guys uploads videos centered around nothing but cock...and women uploads videos of them sucking cock. It's extremely disheartening. It makes women look like pathetic, penis-obsessed, passive beta-kittens and men look like raging, repressive homosexuals. But whatever. It's their bed, and I don't sleep in it.
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Thelambofdeth
to angelicgirla : Well yeah. Men are men. Most are extremely selfish and want to brag, so I understand them only uploading to further their bravado. What more could you expect from them. BUT when a woman uploads the same thing, and she's calling herself a "cum-slut" and deep-throating or lick his ass or some overtly disgusting thing and not even caring about pleasing herself HOW can she then go and complain about porn when you're doing THE VERY SAME THING. Not just doing, but they further promote that from of thinking. The man comes first(no pun....) and that's all that matters. The porn actresses have to do that crap, the other women don't. No excuses. I jsut hate the perception it sets. All women are just sluts waiting to worship dick...awesome.

That would be like if I complained too many action films had shaky cam. Then I'm given the chance to film my own movie, and I have all the action scenes with shaky cam. It would be funny if it's wasn't sad.
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katachthonios
It's a vicious cycle: by and large, pornography teaches boys the idea of phallocentrism, and they learn to associate their cock with the one on screen, which is why they don't show men's faces, or why their names aren't celebrated. Only the dick, that's what the mainstream celebrates. So boys grow older thinking the universe would implode were in not for the going-on of their penis.

(I don't expect you to have ever seen het-porn all the way through, but it's formulaic: when he busts his nut, the scene is over. Doesn't matter if she enjoyed herself at all, let alone cums, which pretty much makes all of g/b porn movies of watching other guys beating off with women present.)

The bulk of porn is focused on the male gaze, how the guy views the scene, how the guy views sex. This is intentional, for the viewer is often male, often insecure, and needs to believe in the idea of phallocentrism as it was taught. This is why so many g/b scenes adopt a 1st-person POV while g/g scenes are 3rd-person: so I can pretend to participate in the former and be in the room with the later.

Worst part is, I suspect so many people conform to this model through mimicking what they've already seen. Said amateur couple has probably never thought to let her hold the camera and film.
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to Thelambofdeth : yeah it is so irritating it getting ridiculous .. it is like these girls are brain washed !!! for example when a guy upload a clip for his girl friend sucking his dick i understand i know how his stupid retarded mentality works .. so it doesn't surprise me .. he is bragging about his stupid girlfriend sucking his dick not only that but she agreed to film it ... (((( but )))) when a girl upload the same clip with a dick in her face ( which i know she is not enjoying it ) because it is disgusting and girls do that only because her man want her to !!! so i wander what message she is sending with that ( hey i am the stupid slut how shove dicks in her face ) .. this blog made me try to search the words " amateur " & " home made " and guess what i found in the search results ??? surprise ... same shit not a single different clip (a blowjob by my ex girlfriend , young hoe giving her boyfriend deep blowjob ..... etc
and by the way they are not selfless they are just dumb .. because selfless for me means something very nubile
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Thelambofdeth
to angelicgirla : Now, I have ample "I hate men" stuff and girls kissing and materials like that. I'm not going to go and invite some random person I have nothing in common with or whom I might offend. Why can't people here just be more conscious of that kind of stuff? I'm only asking for a modicum of decency. If you have deep-throating and gang-bang crap, don't invite a lesbian. Just have a little respect. Or maybe some people just don't realize how disgusting some of the things they watch/do really are.
So here's the thing..again, I not trying to monitor what people upload. Like, to each it's own and whatever. It's not my business, but I just find one thing funny and that's the choice of personal uploads. Why do men and women both focus on the men? It's like men only care about themselves and the women only care about the men. You have your own platform and a chance to counter the disgusting and biased angle of porn and they upload the same exact thing. It's always the same and it just discredits the women who complain about porn when they upload the same exact thing they criticizing. It baffles me. The husband is like "Hey, watch my me give my wife a facial" and the women are like "Hey, watch me swallow my husband"...IMO it's just a bad look for women. It's like women have no needs just want to please men and that's it. JUST.LIKE. PORN. But they still complain. But hey, they don't care, the men like the cock-worship and the women do too, so who am I to question it? Lucky for the men, I guess. I wish the girls I dated were half as selfless as straight girls, lol.
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Sjm045
After I created this account I couldn't believe the amount of invites I got, I'm not the most technically gifted person in the world, (yes I was pleased when I got the picture to upload :smile:) so it's taken me a while to get the hang of things... Like blocking people I wanted to talk to.

It has genuinely been an education in more ways than one, because a woman has a healthy interest in sex/porn/erotic pictures, "she must love the cock"... We'll no, they don't.... "She's on a porn site, she's gagging for it". This is the same train of thought that has woman tagged "as asking for it" if they wear a shirt skirt.

On the upload side of things...I've loved the erotic pictures in some if the galleries, they are truly beautiful and I like the videos that have the Dutch/Australian woman (how does that work?)..... Have the Dutch and Australians signed some sort of porn alliance that I missed :smile:
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OK so i have few things i like to add that i am wondering about too .. when i started my account i received like 4 friendship invites while i am still registering .. i mean how could these guys find my profile and the account is not running yet (so that give me a hint about how thing is going on here ) !!! i was surprised then but now i am used to reject invites every time i log in
also i am used to get messages from men trying to hookup with me (OK i get it you are lazy to read but are you blind also not to see the lesbian sign in my profile !!! all these invites and i don't have locked videos or any video actually ( so i can imagine how many invites you get per day ) every time i check your profile there is this classic comment " i like your videos nice page please add me " lol
.. another thing i noticed some of these accounts with no avatar no favorite videos no blogs absolutely nothing but with a thousands of friends !!! i mean what the hell this guy is thinking of ?? is he just collecting friends !! and for what ??
and about the videos you mentioned a stand up comedian talked about it once " Amy Schumer " about how porn always ends up with the guy cumming on the girls face !! for porn i understand that most of porn is made to Simulates men desires .. but to see the same thing in privet videos uploaded by girl for her self giving her boyfriend / husband a blowjob or hand job every time with no video with the other way around just make me wonder
don't worry about the gifs .. great subject and great observations
thank you for this great blog
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