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    Masturbating when you have a lover

    Do you masturbate - alone - even though you are in a fantastic relationship with another person? Heve you ever been caught masturbating by your lover? What happened?
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    10 years ago
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    nymphea3181
    nymphea3181 1 month ago
    never caught masturbating yet, but love to enjoy self fun because we don t have same needs ad i don't want to cheat on her so self pleasure is a good way i think
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    Lulu_2000
    Lulu_2000 3 months ago
    It is so natural for me to play with myself or my little A -cups when watching the tv. I'm not even aware that im doing it. Just a natural thing really.
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    gen2160 6 months ago
    I did for him often but hwe still went out and found others to play with
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    twolookingforfn2
    twolookingforfn2 8 months ago
    Jerk off often never been been caught 
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    male247
    male247 9 months ago
    Looking back when I was Married (I loved my wife then and she was beautiful and sexually satisfying) I did masturbate in secret and did not get caught.  I have been divorced 20+ years now, have learned in that time to be open, being open means Communication. I would expect the woman to please herself alone or when I am around and vice versa.  Its just different pleasure and should not be viewed as, "What are you doing?  Do I not satisfy you?" from either party. Even mutual masturbation is a turn on.  Come on, this is a porn site, have we not watched males and females masturbate on here?  Why then would we not want to watch our partner masturbate?  Importantly communication is key, talk about it.  There is nothing to be embarrassed or feel ashamed of when it comes to sex.
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    hardon1
    hardon1 1 year ago
    Awwww Torri, my darling....you should never have to masturbate alone!...your pretty pussy deserves to be cherished and loved...leading to one or more stunning orgasms, love! xxxx 
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    videochatman
    videochatman 1 year ago
    Ofcourse! I love masturbating, even I have sexy wife, but I love good porn. And I can't watch porn without masturbating...Yes, I have caught by her...she asks, if I' m watching porn or talk with other girls... :grinning:
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    panzade
    panzade 1 year ago
    Once, on a whim, I asked an ex girlfriend if she would masturbate in front of me. And perched within inches of her vulva. I watched as her contractions signaled an impending orgasm. it’s hard to describe my excitement. It’s something I’ll never forget.
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    MelR1985
    MelR1985 2 years ago
    to xmasgirl : I've only been girls only
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    xmasgirl
    xmasgirl Publisher 2 years ago
    to MelR1985 : I had a BF watch me back in high school. But now only girls. 
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    MelR1985
    MelR1985 2 years ago
    to xmasgirl : Being watched heightens the eroticism
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    xmasgirl
    xmasgirl Publisher 2 years ago
    to MelR1985 : Absolutely … we know what we really like so we do it. Nothing wrong with that. I’ve been watched a few times. 
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    MelR1985
    MelR1985 2 years ago
    I do. I am the only one who knows exactly what I like. I have been caught many times and they would either watch or join me
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    ScaryFun69
    ScaryFun69 2 years ago
    I do once in a while 
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    sticky08 2 years ago
    Am a bi married male of 30 years who masturbates daily.  Wife sometimes watches or joins in for a mutual session, we love to look into each others eyes as we cum, same for when we fuck.  on occasion she has sat and watched while a bi friend and I satisfy each other, although my absolute favourite is when she presents me with a nice cream pie either created by me or someone else.
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    I'm in a wonderful marriage but I masturbate daily, often multiple times, without my wife knowing. We had a great sex life until menopause set in. Now I'm here on a very regular basis. 
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    captJack33
    captJack33 3 years ago
    Yes I do and yes I have after 35 years now she is happy she is off the hook lol but back in the day she loved to watch and partake in her own pleasure as she did
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    strakke36 4 years ago
    I do and I do it with secret friends at xhamster skype kik and all!! I just love to do it hear the other woman  cum while she watches me and i her! I get horny just talking about it! X
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    hardon1
    hardon1 5 years ago
    Noelle.....such an insightful blog....with many interesting responses!  xxx
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    hardon1
    hardon1 5 years ago
    to Female_body : Oh, Lauryn.....that sounds soooooo mournful...
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    nakmuay1337
    nakmuay1337 5 years ago
    to xmasgirl : Nature always finds a way, doesn't it?
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    DrWhoWhatandWhere
    DrWhoWhatandWhere 6 years ago
    Masturbating to lovely women, solo or with a lesbian lover, is one of the greatest turn ons for me. I love to masturbate and usually do it daily. Many years ago I was caught masturbating on my bed, just fantasizing  when I was caught by my lover. At first embarrassed, she showed me how enjoyable masturbating with someone could be as enjoyable as sex. This was the start of my love of mutual masturbation. Entwined in each other, side by side, doing oneself, doing her, doing all together...almost nothing better. 
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    n2oral
    n2oral 6 years ago
    She likes to come up behind me while I’m shaving nude, and I love it when she reaches around and tugs me from behind with her tits against my back, wanking me and biting my shoulder - she loves watching my ejaculation!
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    n2oral
    n2oral 6 years ago
    I love masturbating her - it’s often part of our foreplay! I particularly like putting my hand over hers while she twiddles her twat, learning how she prefers touching herself. Or I’ll fondle her breasts while she rubs herself, tweaking her nipples so she can use both hands for an especially stimulating orgasm. 
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    xmasgirl
    xmasgirl Publisher 7 years ago
    to silverbone : I would love to reply but you are not accepting PMs or friend requests.
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    silverbone 7 years ago
    As a male I masturbate almost every day. Often my wife masturbates with me, although she also masturbates alone with toys. I am bisexual, so I have done both men and women and gotten pretty good at it. I have even visited a few gloryholes to stroke cocks and have the same done to me or receive a blowjob. I never waste cum so I eat my own cum whether I came in my wife on on her. I am very oral, love to cum on a hairy pussy, tits or give a nice warm facial. The best part for me is the clean up!
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    Female_body
    Female_body 7 years ago
    There were never any secrets, no need to masturbate alone. It was done together, with each other, the need to do that was never there.
    However now I find myself masturbating alone most days. Remembering the good times.
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    gazza2206 7 years ago
    to renolami : I do that too while they are sleeping and breathing heavy. Such a turn on..
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    renolami
    renolami 8 years ago
    I have actually masturbated in bed next to my partner whilst they were asleep, it's fucking hot. X
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    emigre69 8 years ago
    I think it depends on the relationship. I have been in relationships where I may have masturbated more than usual, partly because it was encouraged to do so and we discussed it a lot. Equally I have been in relationships where such openness did not happen and I carried on, but somewhat furtively.
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