Anal sex is fucking great, says Siri. :)
Voluptuous blonde Siri is a fucking dream come true. When I'm watching porn, not much gives me greater pleasure than watching her having straight or lesbian sex (check out her vid with Natasha Nice for a great example of some fantastic boob-worship).
She posted the following on her blog yesterday - basically how to get the most out of a stiff cock in a hungry asshole. She's at http://siripornstar.tumblr.com/
I'm seeing my fuckbuddy Ellie on Friday and Saturday night, and hope to fuck her gorgeous ass. With the help of Siri, how can I fail?! ;)
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In porn, they require a water enema before a scene, just to be sure youâre cleaned out. But in my personal life, I never fuck with that. I just do as you stated, go for it with some lube when I am in the mood. But since you havenât tried it, first of all, she should try and poop before, or only have anal AFTER a good poop. And keep baby wipes handy. ;) You just gotta get over the mental image of the body functions associated with the asshole. The baby wipes assure you that if you see something when youâre pulling out, you can quickly wipe it away and not be taken out of the moment.
My husband ass-trained 6 women before he met me, and I was a happy 7th. Heâs since done an 8th and she loves it now too. So I am going to let him finish this list of tips for me.
These notes are based on personal experience, not a documented procedure. The best prep for anal sex is analingus, that is, oral sex on the asshole. So have her clean it with a baby wipe and then go down on her. But this should follow a teaser round of vaginal sex. Get her horny, wanting more, and her external sphincter relaxed and accepting. Then go down on her ass. You should be able to sense her anal tissues relaxing more and more, with your tongue.
Then lube it up a lot (her ass, not your tongue) and put pressure on it with a finger. (Make sure your nails are completely trimmed back before). Then slip part of the finger in and hold it there. Lick her pussy or suck her tits, or something else she finds erotic. While doing that, push the finger all the way in. Slowly start to slide the finger in and out, finger-fucking her asshole. This is a slow-and-steady wins the race type of endeavor. While youâre focused on her asshole, and maybe licking her pussy, encourage her to partcipate so she doesnât focus on any discomfort or the unusual sensations in her ass. Have her rub her clit or vibrate her clit (whatever she usually prefers).
The next step is key. Itâs where a lot of first-time anal fails. Guys are so excited they just ram in a rock hard cock. The best next step is to lube and insert a soft jelly anal toy or dildo, but something bigger than the finger and smaller than the cock. If you can toy her ass a little with an intermediate tool, you will get her mentally ready for your actual penis.
Now, you can do something optional here which makes it fun for both of you. And in the future, go from analingus to toy insertion, to this step, to ass fucking, as intermediate training. Pretty soon, she will feel confident in the analingus-to-fucking with no other warm-up required. This step is, have her reach around and hold the toy in from underneath while you fuck her pussy with her still on her back. This is a form of double penetration which will really get her aroused because she can feel your cock rubbing against the toy inside her through the thin tissues which separate the anal and vaginal walls. To really get her invested, have her slide the toy in and out of her ass while you fuck her pussy.
Ready to slide it in her ass? Well you will have to challenge yourself. I use the toy time as part of this process in order to relax myself a little. If you can, mentally control your erection so that itâs not rock hard, still firm enough but a little fleshy, thatâs the best. If your cock has some give when you slide it in, all the better. Again, make sure itâs lubed, but the trick is, only apply the lube when youâre ready to enter. But guess what? The first anal position is NOT doggy like everyone makes you think. Itâs missionary. So she remains right where she is, on her back. Donât change it up, just keep building on what youâve started.
When you put it in, just put the head in completely and stop. No friction, no in and out. Get her to breathe and relax and keep rubbing/vibrating her clit to maintain sexual arousal and not think of pooping. Usually when your mind goes there, you instinctively contract the sphincter muscle to hold that in. So she has to stay in receive mode. When you feel her anus relax a bit more on your cock, and you are really seriously lubed up so that you donât feel her asshole sticking to your cock, then you can slowly push it the rest of the way in. Do that and then hold it, so she feels all of you inside. Once sheâs breathed through that, begin sliding it in and out.
Slowly. Stay slow and steady until she is so into it that you can go a bit faster. The pick up a nice medium rhythm which she can enjoy and you enjoy it too. And then itâs just about her and seeing if she can get to orgasm while you do that and she masturbates. Thatâs the other key to navigating this maze. If sheâs masturbating the whole time, sheâs staying relaxed physically and inviting sex, instead of tensing up to keep from pooping.
So have her completely go for it. Just rub it out, finger her pussy, whatever. Iâve had a girl put a vibrating egg in her pussy and leave it there while she rubs her clit and I fuck her ass. Anything to get her to that full-body orgasm. Because this orgasm is the most amazing one ever. And if she cums that way, awesome, but if you then want to switch to doing anal from behind, thatâs up to you, or save it for next time. Loving anal over multiple sessions takes practice and working up to it.
One more variation, once youâve gone through intermediate training and she totally wants anal, and even asks for it⌠have her insert a penis-sized dildo, preferably a jelly dong, into her pussy so that you can fuck her ass while she has the toy inside. Then she gets full DP, you get the anal, and you both get to cum as if you havenât fucked in a month!
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You heard the lady - happy assfucking. :)
She posted the following on her blog yesterday - basically how to get the most out of a stiff cock in a hungry asshole. She's at http://siripornstar.tumblr.com/
I'm seeing my fuckbuddy Ellie on Friday and Saturday night, and hope to fuck her gorgeous ass. With the help of Siri, how can I fail?! ;)
_____
In porn, they require a water enema before a scene, just to be sure youâre cleaned out. But in my personal life, I never fuck with that. I just do as you stated, go for it with some lube when I am in the mood. But since you havenât tried it, first of all, she should try and poop before, or only have anal AFTER a good poop. And keep baby wipes handy. ;) You just gotta get over the mental image of the body functions associated with the asshole. The baby wipes assure you that if you see something when youâre pulling out, you can quickly wipe it away and not be taken out of the moment.
My husband ass-trained 6 women before he met me, and I was a happy 7th. Heâs since done an 8th and she loves it now too. So I am going to let him finish this list of tips for me.
These notes are based on personal experience, not a documented procedure. The best prep for anal sex is analingus, that is, oral sex on the asshole. So have her clean it with a baby wipe and then go down on her. But this should follow a teaser round of vaginal sex. Get her horny, wanting more, and her external sphincter relaxed and accepting. Then go down on her ass. You should be able to sense her anal tissues relaxing more and more, with your tongue.
Then lube it up a lot (her ass, not your tongue) and put pressure on it with a finger. (Make sure your nails are completely trimmed back before). Then slip part of the finger in and hold it there. Lick her pussy or suck her tits, or something else she finds erotic. While doing that, push the finger all the way in. Slowly start to slide the finger in and out, finger-fucking her asshole. This is a slow-and-steady wins the race type of endeavor. While youâre focused on her asshole, and maybe licking her pussy, encourage her to partcipate so she doesnât focus on any discomfort or the unusual sensations in her ass. Have her rub her clit or vibrate her clit (whatever she usually prefers).
The next step is key. Itâs where a lot of first-time anal fails. Guys are so excited they just ram in a rock hard cock. The best next step is to lube and insert a soft jelly anal toy or dildo, but something bigger than the finger and smaller than the cock. If you can toy her ass a little with an intermediate tool, you will get her mentally ready for your actual penis.
Now, you can do something optional here which makes it fun for both of you. And in the future, go from analingus to toy insertion, to this step, to ass fucking, as intermediate training. Pretty soon, she will feel confident in the analingus-to-fucking with no other warm-up required. This step is, have her reach around and hold the toy in from underneath while you fuck her pussy with her still on her back. This is a form of double penetration which will really get her aroused because she can feel your cock rubbing against the toy inside her through the thin tissues which separate the anal and vaginal walls. To really get her invested, have her slide the toy in and out of her ass while you fuck her pussy.
Ready to slide it in her ass? Well you will have to challenge yourself. I use the toy time as part of this process in order to relax myself a little. If you can, mentally control your erection so that itâs not rock hard, still firm enough but a little fleshy, thatâs the best. If your cock has some give when you slide it in, all the better. Again, make sure itâs lubed, but the trick is, only apply the lube when youâre ready to enter. But guess what? The first anal position is NOT doggy like everyone makes you think. Itâs missionary. So she remains right where she is, on her back. Donât change it up, just keep building on what youâve started.
When you put it in, just put the head in completely and stop. No friction, no in and out. Get her to breathe and relax and keep rubbing/vibrating her clit to maintain sexual arousal and not think of pooping. Usually when your mind goes there, you instinctively contract the sphincter muscle to hold that in. So she has to stay in receive mode. When you feel her anus relax a bit more on your cock, and you are really seriously lubed up so that you donât feel her asshole sticking to your cock, then you can slowly push it the rest of the way in. Do that and then hold it, so she feels all of you inside. Once sheâs breathed through that, begin sliding it in and out.
Slowly. Stay slow and steady until she is so into it that you can go a bit faster. The pick up a nice medium rhythm which she can enjoy and you enjoy it too. And then itâs just about her and seeing if she can get to orgasm while you do that and she masturbates. Thatâs the other key to navigating this maze. If sheâs masturbating the whole time, sheâs staying relaxed physically and inviting sex, instead of tensing up to keep from pooping.
So have her completely go for it. Just rub it out, finger her pussy, whatever. Iâve had a girl put a vibrating egg in her pussy and leave it there while she rubs her clit and I fuck her ass. Anything to get her to that full-body orgasm. Because this orgasm is the most amazing one ever. And if she cums that way, awesome, but if you then want to switch to doing anal from behind, thatâs up to you, or save it for next time. Loving anal over multiple sessions takes practice and working up to it.
One more variation, once youâve gone through intermediate training and she totally wants anal, and even asks for it⌠have her insert a penis-sized dildo, preferably a jelly dong, into her pussy so that you can fuck her ass while she has the toy inside. Then she gets full DP, you get the anal, and you both get to cum as if you havenât fucked in a month!
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You heard the lady - happy assfucking. :)
12 years ago
