SLUTS

Why are women who have their pictures - sometimes partially naked sometimes spreading, sometimes showing their holes on web sites referred to in a demeaning way as SLUTS. The dictionary definition of Slut is: a woman, who is sexually promiscuous. Also meaning Harlot, Prostitute. Does Applying the word Slut to innocent, modest women gives men power over them.

Hence alluring women who's picture is viewed by many men are insulted just for posing in a provocative way (to please their husbands, boyfriends,lovers) and showing their bodies.
Naked men are referred to in a more complimentary way: Stud, Stallion, Well Hung

What would be a better word to describe these temptresses who pictures men leer at. For instance Vamp is an old fashioned word for an alluring woman - Seductress, Siren, Lovely, Cutie.
Lets find a better word to describe these lovely ladies.

Comments please.

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Published by coster2018
4 years ago
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coster2018 Publisher 3 years ago
The English Language has a lot of words to describe cute ladies. babe [slang], beauty, beauty queen, cookie (or cooky), dolly bird [British], enchantress, eyeful, fox, goddess, honey, knockout, queen, stunner
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KCUM 3 years ago
to coster2018 : I agree. I'd never use 'slag' either, nor tart or whore. Anything derogatory really.
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coster2018 Publisher 3 years ago
to KCUM : Thank you for the comment. Interesting idea - perhaps needy - leads onto the nymphomaniac idea. There are much better ways of describing lovely ladies. Slag is also a HORRID word.
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KCUM 3 years ago
I agree absolutely. I'd never call a woman 'slut'. Its disrespectful. Men who are promiscuous never get called sluts, but they fit the description. Now, the term "wanton" as a applied to a woman might be more appropriate. Thoughts?
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coster2018 Publisher 3 years ago
to Laphroaig001 : there are so many (degrading) words to describe women, especially if they pose legs open.
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Laphroaig001 3 years ago
"Tart"? I suspect the intent is to imply some sort of "edge" a spirit somewhere between "naughty" and outright whore. Whatever word is used, that's the level of sexual confidence I love in a woman. 
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coster2018 Publisher 3 years ago
to Laphroaig001 : I have a thing about people posting pics of women clothed or unclothed and calling them Sluts. I just think it demeans them. Temptress, Cutie etc.
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Laphroaig001 3 years ago
I think women who self-identify as "Slut" have taken control of the word and wear it proudly. After all, most of the women Society refers to as "slut" are simply women confident in their sexuality. At the end of the day it is a word that could be easily retired. Seductress is good. Voluptuary. 
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coster2018 Publisher 3 years ago
This post was meant as a discussion point. I find it sad that the cute women posing are referred to as sluts, they are much better than that.
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grtlcker69 3 years ago
I totally agree, I love to have people see my pictures and videos, I love the hot comments, tributes and stories of what they want to do to me but I’m not a slut. 
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coster2018 Publisher 4 years ago
to dgrade : Sorry I did not mean to come over as bigoted. I just like the idea of finding new names for theses lovelies.
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dgrade
Sorry, I didn't know you were just looking for people to agree with your insightful comments.
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coster2018 Publisher 4 years ago
to dgrade : xhamster chat is not really meant to be a philosophical chat room, I find it sad in a way that pretty/beautiful women with great (or not so great) bodies can not have better words used to name them. My avatar is a lovely cutie. Are some of the best porn photographs taken by women?
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dgrade
While you're technically correct--my wife can't be a slut because she's completely faithful to me and doesn't know about her xhamster fame--I still love hearing her referred to in demeaning terms. It plays into my fantasy narrative that she secretly wants to be used and degraded like a whore. Applying these terms to innocent, modest women gives men power over them. And when you dig deep enough, power is what pornography is really about, isn't it?
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