BBC Sex? - Bigger IS NOT always better...
I was corresponding with this young black male about interracial sex for several days when I first joined xHamster. Of course, his profile and avatar were nothing more than pictures of his erect cock and usually I ignore messages or any other form of communications from these types of men regardless of color. However, he did seem articulate and took the time and effort to write several incredibly detailed messages about the size differences of female vaginas between white and black women and why, to a white woman, sexual intercourse with a black man is superior in all aspects over sexual intercourse with a white man. I have had intimate experiences which lead to an attempt at intercourse with three black men over the last year and each attempt was to say the least a very “uncomfortable” and unfulfilling experience. I want to share what I wrote back in the LAST response to this persons "black is always better" assumption:
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You make a good argument with all the external information on penis and vagina sizes between races. Putting aside all the scientific studies of "genitalia size" the reality, at least MY reality is sexual intercourse with black males, three over a period of a year, were almost identical. They were extremely painful and most important performed without ANY attention to tenderness or attention to my sexual satisfaction.
I especially want to detail the last interracial intercourse encounter I had, I will call him “Mark”. He basically seduced me with his long and detailed messages and explanations, he was very good at expressing himself. His prognosis on why I did not enjoy my previous interracial encounters was because, according to him these black men where not conducive to the "real experience" of sexual perfection with an interracial partner who was educated and experienced in the ways of pleasing a white woman.
According to Mark, for the ultimate interracial experience I needed a black man who possessed the correct penis length and experience on how to use the extended length for proper sexual implementation. He was very persuasive, he provided tons of information and links on the internet for me to read and review, especially information on the physical attributes of a black man's penis and what makes him so superior when it comes to intercourse. He basically outlined our first sexual encounter from beginning to end, like a sexual "check list" before I finally succumbed to his requests and agreed to meet him in person.
Prior to meeting in person, we shared intimate pictures; he had asked for close ups of my vagina and inner thigh area in multiple angles so that he could "measure me visually" so to speak.... yeah I figured that was bullshit also but I'm an exhibitionist and enjoyed taking the pictures of myself. He outlined the process of how he would slowly enter my vagina that would produce minimal pain. He did mention that there would be some initial pain at first, he then described he would use slow but steady strokes of "pleasure pressure" with his penis as it would slowly stretch my outer vagina lips enough to envelope his penis head. Once his penis head was in me, he explained my vagina would automatically adjust and my inner lips would provide the perfect amount of grip around his shaft all without any artificial lubrication. Mark explained that with proper stimulation from a slow entry with his penis, my vagina would produce all the required lubricants naturally. I was thinking a little different, something like Mark rubbing the head of his penis on my clitoris followed by finger and mouth play to produce enough natural lubricant before penetration but unfortunately I was soon to learn that was NOT on the menu.
On the evening of our encounter I have to admit I was amazed by his size. He boasted about his penis size during our correspondence, but I thought nothing of it until I saw it in person. His penis when erect was and still is the largest penis I have ever seen or experienced. Once the size amazement was over, the intimidation immediately started, I was asking myself how would I be able to really enjoy sex due to his size? We only kissed for maybe 10 seconds before he was pushing down on the top of my head. I found myself quickly kneeling in front of him my eyes staring at his midsection. From the moment I removed his belt, unhooked his pants and lowered his zipper, his penis was rock solid and almost slapped me in the face as it popped straight out as I lowered his pants, he had no underwear. I was afraid to touch him, he started moaning loud and breathing heavily, his penis throbbing violently to each breath, I should have seen this reaction as a major RED FLAG of what was to come.
He picked me up quickly and threw me on the couch like a rag doll, lifted my skirt and basically ripped my panties off. He was all over me, grouping my body like a high school boy having first time sex on prom night. What ever happened to the tenderness, the foreplay, all the crap he had put into words? He was on top of me within seconds, there was not much I could do, Mark was just over 6 foot, very muscular, I am 5 feet 100 pounds soaking wet. The head of his penis was pressing firmly on my outer lips, he started to moan and thrust in an attempt for quick penetration, stretching and splitting my dry vagina in half. I started crying from the pain. He stuck one hand under my back and lifted me up in an angle and I suddenly felt the head of his penis stretch my outer lips to their limit, he pushed harder and my vagina finally engulfed the head of his penis. The pain was intense, however I was still able to feel him move and throb within me.
He started to push more of his penis inside me, I can't say how much more since I started screaming for him to stop. He pulled completely out and immediately started to re-enter me again. My vagina was already stretched so the pain was not as bad as the initial thrust. He pushed himself a little deeper inside me, perhaps his entire head and an inch or two of his shaft. He then proceeded with a few slow in and out partial strokes never pulling his head out. The slow stroking did not last for more than 25 seconds. He stopped on an instroke and I felt his penis head throbbing violently inside of me. He then made a very deep exhale and slow rumbling moan as I started to feel multiple strong streams of liquid hit the rear of my vagina. It was probably the most intense male orgasm I have ever experienced, his body was shaking during his ejaculation, I have never felt anything like this before. However, the reality was that he already ejaculating after maybe 60 seconds of partial intercourse. Really? That was it? That was the great black cock experience? I was still in deep pain with a stretched vagina full of sperm after only 60 seconds? I have to say the amount of sperm he released during ejaculation was just too much for me to handle, it was everywhere, it was like this was Mark’s first time with ANY woman.
He rolled off me and immediately started apologizing, made some remarks and excuses about my body, my beauty, that he never experienced intercourse with such a petite woman and that I had the tightest and best feeling vagina he has ever experienced, and he just simply lost it. After some drinks and a brief period of rest and conversation, he begged for another opportunity to engage in intercourse. I reluctantly said NO at first, however after watching his penis still throbbing at full erection almost an hour after our first intercourse attempt, the visual was simply to intoxicating, my vagina said no, but my mind said yes and I agreed to a second attempt.
I figured that I was still dripping wet from his orgasm and that should help as a lubricant, however my stretched vagina was still throbbing in pain. Every time Mark attempted penetration, he would push just enough so that the head of his penis would spread my outer lips. Once he started to supply the lightest pressure to enter me beyond the head, the pain was just too intense. I begged him to stop and get off me, which he did politely. We waited 20 to 30 minutes and attempted penetration again with the same results.
Mark had such a sad looking face and appeared to be generally concerned that I may have suffered some type of physical injury to my vagina. He then started to slowly complain about his own pain, that he needed to "release" the building pressure within his cock. I was still amazed that his cock was still rock solid after three failed attempts of intercourse. I felt I had to do something for him so I laid down and told him to simply place the head of his penis between my legs so that his head was lightly touching my outer lips only. I started to raise and lower my pelvis very slowly rubbing the outer lips of my vagina on his penis, yep I was dry humping hoping that maybe I can get some satisfaction myself. I felt his penis start to throb more and his shaft was rubbing my clitoris in a way that I started to get excited. He would then adjust, trying to reangle himself to try and enter me, I immediately pushed myself away. This fake intercourse went on for maybe another 90 seconds followed by anther round of deep breathing moans, body shakes and multiple streams of his sperm, this time landing in my hair, face and chest. Mark grabbed his cock and pointed it so that the last streams of his ejaculation was all over my vagina and thighs. He thanked me and expressed a desire to meet again soon. He immediately got up from the couch and walked away, I sat there with my legs spread thinking WOW, absolutely ZERO emotion for me, I felt like he was in a rush for me to go so I picked up my things, got dressed and left. As I sat in my car, I started to cry I could still feel his orgasm leaking down my leg. When I got home I must have spent an hour or more in the shower, felt like SHIT the rest of the evening.
When he called me the next day to ask how soon we can see each other again I of course turned him down and told him I was simply not interested in seeing him again. I was amazed that he did not make much of an effort to ask why, I was ready to explain to him how painful and one-sided our sexual encounter was, exactly like the other two. We hung up and I have yet to hear from him again. I chalked up this experience as the 3rd and FINAL attempt to engage in interracial sex. All three experiences did absolutely NOTHING for me from a sexual perspective. From a "learning" prospective I now fully understand that the phrase "Once you go Black you never go back..." is pure BULLSHIT.
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I am open to read other "real" experiences or any suggestions or comments on what I could have done differently to avoid the pain?
UPDATE: 1/2/2021
I have received a few PM's from several black males requesting that I watch the BBC porn found on xHamster to see the facial reactions of pure satisfaction from the white women as they engage in interracial sex. Really? Guy's, please... this IS NOT reality, these are professional women, actors getting paid to act with vaginas stretched so wide you can park a small car in there.
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You make a good argument with all the external information on penis and vagina sizes between races. Putting aside all the scientific studies of "genitalia size" the reality, at least MY reality is sexual intercourse with black males, three over a period of a year, were almost identical. They were extremely painful and most important performed without ANY attention to tenderness or attention to my sexual satisfaction.
I especially want to detail the last interracial intercourse encounter I had, I will call him “Mark”. He basically seduced me with his long and detailed messages and explanations, he was very good at expressing himself. His prognosis on why I did not enjoy my previous interracial encounters was because, according to him these black men where not conducive to the "real experience" of sexual perfection with an interracial partner who was educated and experienced in the ways of pleasing a white woman.
According to Mark, for the ultimate interracial experience I needed a black man who possessed the correct penis length and experience on how to use the extended length for proper sexual implementation. He was very persuasive, he provided tons of information and links on the internet for me to read and review, especially information on the physical attributes of a black man's penis and what makes him so superior when it comes to intercourse. He basically outlined our first sexual encounter from beginning to end, like a sexual "check list" before I finally succumbed to his requests and agreed to meet him in person.
Prior to meeting in person, we shared intimate pictures; he had asked for close ups of my vagina and inner thigh area in multiple angles so that he could "measure me visually" so to speak.... yeah I figured that was bullshit also but I'm an exhibitionist and enjoyed taking the pictures of myself. He outlined the process of how he would slowly enter my vagina that would produce minimal pain. He did mention that there would be some initial pain at first, he then described he would use slow but steady strokes of "pleasure pressure" with his penis as it would slowly stretch my outer vagina lips enough to envelope his penis head. Once his penis head was in me, he explained my vagina would automatically adjust and my inner lips would provide the perfect amount of grip around his shaft all without any artificial lubrication. Mark explained that with proper stimulation from a slow entry with his penis, my vagina would produce all the required lubricants naturally. I was thinking a little different, something like Mark rubbing the head of his penis on my clitoris followed by finger and mouth play to produce enough natural lubricant before penetration but unfortunately I was soon to learn that was NOT on the menu.
On the evening of our encounter I have to admit I was amazed by his size. He boasted about his penis size during our correspondence, but I thought nothing of it until I saw it in person. His penis when erect was and still is the largest penis I have ever seen or experienced. Once the size amazement was over, the intimidation immediately started, I was asking myself how would I be able to really enjoy sex due to his size? We only kissed for maybe 10 seconds before he was pushing down on the top of my head. I found myself quickly kneeling in front of him my eyes staring at his midsection. From the moment I removed his belt, unhooked his pants and lowered his zipper, his penis was rock solid and almost slapped me in the face as it popped straight out as I lowered his pants, he had no underwear. I was afraid to touch him, he started moaning loud and breathing heavily, his penis throbbing violently to each breath, I should have seen this reaction as a major RED FLAG of what was to come.
He picked me up quickly and threw me on the couch like a rag doll, lifted my skirt and basically ripped my panties off. He was all over me, grouping my body like a high school boy having first time sex on prom night. What ever happened to the tenderness, the foreplay, all the crap he had put into words? He was on top of me within seconds, there was not much I could do, Mark was just over 6 foot, very muscular, I am 5 feet 100 pounds soaking wet. The head of his penis was pressing firmly on my outer lips, he started to moan and thrust in an attempt for quick penetration, stretching and splitting my dry vagina in half. I started crying from the pain. He stuck one hand under my back and lifted me up in an angle and I suddenly felt the head of his penis stretch my outer lips to their limit, he pushed harder and my vagina finally engulfed the head of his penis. The pain was intense, however I was still able to feel him move and throb within me.
He started to push more of his penis inside me, I can't say how much more since I started screaming for him to stop. He pulled completely out and immediately started to re-enter me again. My vagina was already stretched so the pain was not as bad as the initial thrust. He pushed himself a little deeper inside me, perhaps his entire head and an inch or two of his shaft. He then proceeded with a few slow in and out partial strokes never pulling his head out. The slow stroking did not last for more than 25 seconds. He stopped on an instroke and I felt his penis head throbbing violently inside of me. He then made a very deep exhale and slow rumbling moan as I started to feel multiple strong streams of liquid hit the rear of my vagina. It was probably the most intense male orgasm I have ever experienced, his body was shaking during his ejaculation, I have never felt anything like this before. However, the reality was that he already ejaculating after maybe 60 seconds of partial intercourse. Really? That was it? That was the great black cock experience? I was still in deep pain with a stretched vagina full of sperm after only 60 seconds? I have to say the amount of sperm he released during ejaculation was just too much for me to handle, it was everywhere, it was like this was Mark’s first time with ANY woman.
He rolled off me and immediately started apologizing, made some remarks and excuses about my body, my beauty, that he never experienced intercourse with such a petite woman and that I had the tightest and best feeling vagina he has ever experienced, and he just simply lost it. After some drinks and a brief period of rest and conversation, he begged for another opportunity to engage in intercourse. I reluctantly said NO at first, however after watching his penis still throbbing at full erection almost an hour after our first intercourse attempt, the visual was simply to intoxicating, my vagina said no, but my mind said yes and I agreed to a second attempt.
I figured that I was still dripping wet from his orgasm and that should help as a lubricant, however my stretched vagina was still throbbing in pain. Every time Mark attempted penetration, he would push just enough so that the head of his penis would spread my outer lips. Once he started to supply the lightest pressure to enter me beyond the head, the pain was just too intense. I begged him to stop and get off me, which he did politely. We waited 20 to 30 minutes and attempted penetration again with the same results.
Mark had such a sad looking face and appeared to be generally concerned that I may have suffered some type of physical injury to my vagina. He then started to slowly complain about his own pain, that he needed to "release" the building pressure within his cock. I was still amazed that his cock was still rock solid after three failed attempts of intercourse. I felt I had to do something for him so I laid down and told him to simply place the head of his penis between my legs so that his head was lightly touching my outer lips only. I started to raise and lower my pelvis very slowly rubbing the outer lips of my vagina on his penis, yep I was dry humping hoping that maybe I can get some satisfaction myself. I felt his penis start to throb more and his shaft was rubbing my clitoris in a way that I started to get excited. He would then adjust, trying to reangle himself to try and enter me, I immediately pushed myself away. This fake intercourse went on for maybe another 90 seconds followed by anther round of deep breathing moans, body shakes and multiple streams of his sperm, this time landing in my hair, face and chest. Mark grabbed his cock and pointed it so that the last streams of his ejaculation was all over my vagina and thighs. He thanked me and expressed a desire to meet again soon. He immediately got up from the couch and walked away, I sat there with my legs spread thinking WOW, absolutely ZERO emotion for me, I felt like he was in a rush for me to go so I picked up my things, got dressed and left. As I sat in my car, I started to cry I could still feel his orgasm leaking down my leg. When I got home I must have spent an hour or more in the shower, felt like SHIT the rest of the evening.
When he called me the next day to ask how soon we can see each other again I of course turned him down and told him I was simply not interested in seeing him again. I was amazed that he did not make much of an effort to ask why, I was ready to explain to him how painful and one-sided our sexual encounter was, exactly like the other two. We hung up and I have yet to hear from him again. I chalked up this experience as the 3rd and FINAL attempt to engage in interracial sex. All three experiences did absolutely NOTHING for me from a sexual perspective. From a "learning" prospective I now fully understand that the phrase "Once you go Black you never go back..." is pure BULLSHIT.
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I am open to read other "real" experiences or any suggestions or comments on what I could have done differently to avoid the pain?
UPDATE: 1/2/2021
I have received a few PM's from several black males requesting that I watch the BBC porn found on xHamster to see the facial reactions of pure satisfaction from the white women as they engage in interracial sex. Really? Guy's, please... this IS NOT reality, these are professional women, actors getting paid to act with vaginas stretched so wide you can park a small car in there.
4 years ago
the whole argument is surely about how effectively you use the equipment that you are endowed with, and that includes your penis, your hands, your mouth, your tongue and most of all your mind.