"All women are [physiologically] capable of having multiple orgasms," says Barbara Bartlik, MD, clinical assistant professor of psychiatry at Weill Medical College of Cornell University in New York, NY. So why aren't more women keeping their neighbors awake at night with their moans of pleasure?

"Women, and their partners, don't usually try to have multiple orgasms," says Bartlik.And why aren't women trying? Bartlik chalks it up to no time and no desire. "These days, people are very busy and they just don't have time for sex. When they do have time for sex, they don't have the energy to work for more than one orgasm," she says. They may also feel greedy about looking for a second or third orgasm. It feels like asking for a second or third slice of birthday cake.

"Many women [are] comfortable and satisfied with one orgasm, and they don't want to try for more," says Bartlik, who adds, "Instead of thinking about multiple orgasms as an embarrassment of riches, why not think of them as making up for lost time?"

What is a Multiple Orgasm?
Multiple orgasms are a series of sequential orgasmic experiences that occur in quick succession. And when it comes to multiples, women have the biological upper hand over men. This is because unlike men, women don't experience a refractory period (the period of time after men ejaculate when they can't be aroused). So women can and do respond immediately after orgasm to more (or hopefully continuous) clitoral, vaginal, and G-spot (that small, raised bump of urethral tissue just inside your vagina along its front wall) stimulation.

Sign Me Up!
According to Bartlik, women can "teach" themselves to have multiple orgasms. Here's how you can up your chances of having multiples.

Learn your body. You have to crawl before you walk; you have to have one orgasm before you can have multiple orgasms. Get to know your body's hot spots and not-spots. This is the essential foundation to sexual response.

Practice. It takes practice (both by yourself and with your partner) to achieve multiple orgasms. It's sort of like learning to have your first orgasm. You have to immerse yourself in fantasy, or do whatever it takes to get you aroused, and you have to use lots of lubrication so that you can keep trying for more orgasms by stimulating all of your genital area, while focusing your attention to your clitoris, vagina, and G-spot.

Slow down, and use lots of foreplay, especially foreplay that focuses on clitoral stimulation.

Get some rest beforehand. Often, experiencing multiples is limited by your lack of . After one orgasm, many women feel relaxed. So relaxed, that they may want to drift off to . But if you are well rested, you can resist that temptation, and work for another orgasm, and another, and another.

After the first orgasm, the orgasms "come" easier. It might take10 to 15 minutes to reach your first orgasm, but your second can occur in as little as five minutes, and your third in only two minutes. Keep going as long as you're having fun.

Female Ejaculatory Orgasm
Priming yourself to have multiple orgasms may also prime you for experiencing an ejaculatory orgasm, that almost mythical female sexual phenomenon. Because all of the erectile tissue in your genital area, including your G-spot and clitoris, is already swollen and more sensitive from having been stimulated to orgasm, you may be better able to achieve ejaculation.

Yep, you read that sentence correctly. Although it's not well known, many women, like men, can ejaculate.

Most women who experience ejaculation do so through direct stimulation of their G-spot, though some women also experience ejaculation through stimulation of their clitoris. Basically, when a woman's G-spot is directly stimulated, it can cause a pleasurable sensation and eventually an expulsion of fluid , either in drips or gushes, from your urethra. The ejaculate fluid isn't urine, rather it's a liquid produced and released from the paraurethral glands (surrounding the urethra). So don't worry -- unless you're fooling around on silk sheets, you've got nothing to worry about!

For many guys, picking up a stripper is the ultimate conquest!

By pulling this off, you'll have a great time and become the envy of your friends.

But a bit of warning...

Trying to pick up a stripper requires you to be on the top of your game. If you're confident enough and have a plan of action, you can make your fulfill your dreams of picking up a stripper.

In this article, I will give a few tips that'll help you with a stripper. Just remember picking up a stripper isn't that XXX these types of women are insecure and love attention, so if you this system, you can easily pick them up

Step #1- Fit an image

Typically strippers go for a certain personality in men who are edgy and live an exciting life. That's why you see a lot of strippers going for rock and roll singers.

Now I know you're probably an average guy so you might not have the "rocker" look. But you can increase your chances with a stripper by having the "right look". What you can do is go watch a few popular cover bands in your area and see how the lead singers dress. Then try to matching that image.

While it's not absolutely necessary to dress like a rock guy, you should try to create an image about yourself that will make yourself stand out from your average guy.

Step #2- Pick your right time to go

If you're serious about trying to pick up a stripper, you have to stand out from the crowd. One of the best ways to do this is to go during the right time.

Try to pick nights where business is slow and she has time to talk. This works because there will be less men vying for her affection.

Step #3- Bring a female friend

Strippers LOVE having other women around.

If you can bring an attractive female with you to the club, you'll definitely attract her attention.

Typcially strippers like to compete for men's attention. If your female friend is hot enough, you'll validate yourself by having her with you. By doing this, a stripper will want to work hard for your attention.

Step #4- Don't be like other guys

Your actions inside the club will dictate how a stripper will perceive you. A stripper will be attracted to you if you appear to not care about her affections.

This means sitting away from the main stage area where the girls are dancing, NOT tipping the dancers, tipping the bartender WELL, avoiding the standard "stripper services", and engaging other people in conversations.

The more you can do to enlist allies with the people around you (especially the bartender), the more you'll increase your value in her eyes.

Step #5- Be interesting

When you see a stripper you particularly like, engage her in a conversation. Your goal during this discussion is to be a mysterious person who is both charming and engaging.

By acting in a friendly but aloof manner, you'll become a prize to her. Basically since you're not kissing her butt, she'll wonder why you're not attracted to her. As a result, she'll start to work for your attention.

If you work your conversation well, you can easily get her number and set up an encounter outside the club. Then it's just a matter of using your attraction skills to build towards intimacy.

I thought it would be interesting to have some sexual trivia, and some sexual history available to readers. Some people have collected this trivia for years and we are sure we can fill a lot of pages with this interesting, useless information. (Some of it is not so useless).

* Everyday, 200 million couples around the world have sex, which is about over 2000 couples at any given moment.

* Women are most likely to want to have sex when they are ovulating.

* Sex is the safest tranquilizer in the world

* 30% of women over the age of 80 still have sexual intercourse either with their spouse or boyfriends.

* Mosquitoes, which mate in the air perform a sex act that lasts only 2 seconds.

* Women with a Ph.D. are twice as likely to be interested in a onenight stand than those with only a Bachelor's degree.

* Fellatio ranks as the number one sexual act desired by heterosexual men.

* Australian women have sex on the first date more than women the same age in the USA and Canada.

* Its to have sex without a condom in Nevada. (More on Sex Laws later).

* Today, Japan leads the world in condom use. Like cosmetics, they're sold door to door, by women.

* More Americans lose their virginity in June than in any other month (must be all those weddings and prom nights).

* A mans penis not only shrinks during cold weather but also from nonsexual excitement like when his favorite football team scores a touchdown, etc.

* Wyomings Grand Tetons mountain range literally means Big Tits.

* In the original Grimm fairly tale of ' Beauty', the Prince her while she and then leaves before she wakes up. (Good thing that was rewritten!)

* The word 'gymnasium' comes from the Greek word gymnazein which means to exercise naked, which often was done in ancient Greece.

* White women and those women with a college degree, when asked said they were more receptive to anal sex than women without college educations.

* The word avocado comes from the Spanish word aguacate which is derived from the Aztec word ahuacati which means testicle.

* The original representation of Cupid by the Greeks was that of a beautiful whose naked form was considered to be the embodiment of sexual love.

* The first condoms in the US were made from vulcanized rubber in the 1870s. They were expensive and annoyingly thick and meant to be reused.

* Women who went to college are more likely to enjoy both the giving and receiving of oral sex than high school dropouts. (Amazing what one learns in college).

* About 1% of the adult female population are able to achieve orgasm solely through breast stimulation.

* 14% of males said that they did not enjoy sex the first time.

* 60% of women say they did not enjoy sex their first time.

* The Romans would crush a first time gonads between two stones.

* Its to have sex with a anywhere in the United States.

* In Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, its against the law to have sex with a truck driver in a toll booth.

* In Fairbanks, Alaska its for moose to have sex on the city sidewalks. (I don't know how this is enforced.)

* In Florida having sexual relations with a porcupine is .

* According to a survey of sex shop owners, cherry is the most popular flavor of edible underwear.

WARNING THESE ARE NOT TESTED JUST LEARNED USE AT OWN RISK.

BABY OIL GEL
In the drug store, look for Baby Oil Gel. It's smoother than Vaseline but washes up easily, with just a little soap. It's also slicker than baby oil (and not as thin), water resistant (great in the shower), and leaves your hands and penis smooth and soft. And it's inexpensive. You might also try adding a little conventional baby oil to it: Put some gel on your hand, and then add a few drops of baby oil on your palm, and spread it around. The cleanup seems a little easier compared to just the gel.

ULTIMATE MASTURBATION FLUID
Mix together the following ingredients:
1 teaspoon baby oil
2 tablespoons Vaseline Intensive Care hand lotion
2 tablespoons facial cream (cold cream, etc.)
3 tablespoons aloe vera (the green stuff) 1 tablespoon Campho-Phenique canker-sore-numbing ointment (optional)
Get in the shower, and smear some of the fluid all over your penis and scrotum or anywhere else you want. Then get some more and put it all over your hands. Use the grip that makes you most comfortable, and enjoy. This is not something to try without being in the shower, as it can get messy.

Have you ever noticed you can make any sentence creepy just by adding a pause and the word ladies at the end of it.

Example: I'm going to the store for some milk ... Ladies.
I've just found the cure for AIDS ... Ladies.

No worries, When in trouble I use the buddy system.

Everyone knows that sex with women can *sometimes* be a chore. After all, they don't come with instruction manuals, do they? (Lord knows us men wished they did!)
But hey, let's face it. You're either a wham-bam-thankyouma'am type of guy, or you're a guy who wants to give as much as he recieves. After all, there's no better method of having the girl come back for more than pleasing her in bed better than any other man ever has.

This, of course, brings us to the subject of the G Spot.

I can't tell you how frustrated I get when I'm with a woman who says "I can only orgasm when my clit is stimulated." There's nothing wrong with that, per say, but damn it! I want to stand out! I look at girls who've never had a G Spot Orgasm as a challenge. But sometimes, that challenge can be more than I'm willing to handle. I hate fishing around in there, looking for a G Spot, when there's some hunk-hunka burnin' lovin' that could be going on!

(I've even had one girl tell me she was "broken," because no one has ever been able to find her G Spot. Poor thing!)

Anyway, as GI Joe says, knowing is half the battle, so if you KNOW where the G Spot is, you won't have to waste your precious nookie time looking around for it. So here's an easy way to find the G Spot…

If the girl is laying down on her back, you can gently slide your finger into her, your finger tip contouring the roof of the vagina. Some guys just jam their finger all the way in, but the G Spot isn't that far back. You're looking for a kind-of spongy area, it almost feels like a soft raisin. Once you think you've found it, try gently stroking it. You can either do this in a "come hither" motion, or twist your wrist side-to-side. Ask the girl if that feels good. If it does, congrats, you just found the G-Spot!

NOTE: Stimulating the G Spot WILL make the girl feel like she has to pee. Let her know this before hand. This is tanta-mount to the female ejaculation.