Why do we like to watch other people having sex? The answer isn’t immediately obvious. After all, if I’m hungry I don’t get any pleasure from watching someone else eat dinner. Why should sex be different? As a sex therapist and … [Read more...] about Why Does Porn Exist?
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Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Post-Baby Libido
Many kids and no libido Q: I'm 27 I have 6 kids and one more on the way. I have 5 boys and 1 girl. I'm a mother so in my relationship for two and a half, going on three years there's been no sex. Yes, I love my husband, but we … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Post-Baby Libido
Disability and Sexuality Part 5: My Favorite Sex Toys, Gadgets and Tools
Having dwarfism taught me a harsh lesson early in life: People think we dwarfs look strange. I know because they stare and gawk, and even say rude things to us. I often wonder if that knowledge made me the creative and gutsy man … [Read more...] about Disability and Sexuality Part 5: My Favorite Sex Toys, Gadgets and Tools
6 Tips for Revving Up Your Sex Life From a Sexpert
Could your libido use a boost? Tired of the same old, same old? Need more confidence to be uninhibited in the bedroom? We don’t have sex just because we like it—we do it because we LOVE it! And when that part of our life feels … [Read more...] about 6 Tips for Revving Up Your Sex Life From a Sexpert
Post-Baby Sexuality: The Mommy Mojo Makeover
Mother’s Day may have just passed, but if you’re a mother yourself, you should know that it’s highly encouraged to honor yourself every day, not just once a year—especially when it comes to your sexuality. That’s one of the … [Read more...] about Post-Baby Sexuality: The Mommy Mojo Makeover
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: the First Time
Scared of first time Q: Hello. I'm scared to death because my boyfriend and I were talking about having sex, and neither of us has ever done it. I'm just really scared, even though we've been planning on doing it for a while … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: the First Time
Disability and Sexuality Part 3: Myth-busting, Gutsy Dwarf Style
In my last post, I hinted that my sexual life went from “zero to 60 miles per hour,” but did not reveal much other than to say “I started dating and I’m currently married”. Today I will share very personal details to dispel three … [Read more...] about Disability and Sexuality Part 3: Myth-busting, Gutsy Dwarf Style
Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting Kinky
Vanilla boyfriend Q: Hi! I'm currently 20 and my boyfriend is 21. We've been together a while and love each other plenty...but the problem is that I'm ridiculously kinky and he can't bring himself to dominate me in the bedroom. … [Read more...] about Q&A With Dr. Laurie: Getting Kinky
Painful Intercourse: How Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy Can Help
Painful intercourse, also known as Dyspareunia, is a common occurrence among women; however, few women feel open and comfortable enough to discuss their painful intercourse. Yet it’s an issue that can impact sexual pleasure, … [Read more...] about Painful Intercourse: How Pelvic Floor Physical Therapy Can Help
Q&A with Dr. Laurie October 18
Quantity vs. Quality Q: My wife and I have been married four years, and we only have sex once a week. Is that normal? A: For you, it is. There are national averages, but they don’t mean a thing. They don’t take into account … [Read more...] about Q&A with Dr. Laurie October 18
Finding the right porn for you and your lover
You may know what you like, and your partner may know what they like, but how do you take the plunge and integrate pornography into your partnered sex life? If you’re looking to spice things up, adding porn watching into your … [Read more...] about Finding the right porn for you and your lover
Q&A with Dr. Laurie September 27
Heartbroken Q: I have recently come out of a long term relationship. It was mutual and we have remained friends however I do not believe that she has an interest in getting back together (I believe she has started dating). I am … [Read more...] about Q&A with Dr. Laurie September 27