Protection Against STIs
Q: In your very informative article about sex parties, you didn’t seem to touch on the spread of sexually transmitted infections. Most specifically herpes and HPV (not 100% prevented by condom usage) as well as any other STIs. I’d be very interested to know the statistics on this; thank you.
A: You bring up an excellent point. Not much has been written about this. However, I found a few studies looking at STIs in the swinging community. This study found that “Safe sex was reportedly deemed important (77%). Overall, 72%, 62%, and 56% reported that STI testing, partner notification, and condom use is the norm in the swinger community.” In another study reported here, “swingers—couples who regularly swap partners at organized parties or clubs—may have rates of sexually transmitted infection (STI) that are higher than those in high-risk groups, like female prostitutes, a Dutch study found. Middle-aged swingers, over the age of 45, were particularly vulnerable to disease.”
Because herpes and HPV are transmitted skin to skin, it is much more difficult to prevent, even with the use of consistent condom use, which is still the best defence, albeit imperfect. It stands to reason that the more partners you engage with in sexual activity, the greater your chances of contracting an STI. Those in the swinger community know this risk, believe in safer sex practices and make calculated risks for themselves (according to the available research).
Period and Pregnancy
Q: Greetings; I was wondering if a girl can have her usual periods on time if she is pregnant?
A: A usual period, NO, but a little blood called spotting, YES. Spotting is not uncommon (happens in 15-25% of women) during the early stages of a pregnancy, but it is not enough blood to soak a pad or a tampon. It’s usually light pink or dark brown. Generally speaking, if you are concerned, please see your gynecologist. If you are bleeding more heavily after you tested for pregnancy and got a positive result, then something else may be going on and you should seek medical attention immediately (it may be a sign of miscarriage, infection, or something else). Bottom line: If you are having a regular period, you can assume that you are not pregnant.