My TVchix application bio ;)

Hi everyone ;)

I'm a gurl looking to meet a nice man who is relationship-minded and wants this gurl in his life. You should not only be looking for intimacy but a real and loving relationship. I don't sleep around, never have and won't start now.

Sexually, I've never given myself to a real man other than a couple brief fumblings here and there. I've given up on fighting my true wants and desires, and have accepted them as a part of me. I've never been one to see a man and say to myself "Wow, he's handsome." I am more into intellect than looks or size, besides, we all know what goes where-right? So, please don't try to impress me with how large you are, I don't really care. I can make whatever you have work and feel good for us both. Besides, the man who will win me over will have enough self-esteem to really understand what I'm trying to say here.

Fellow gurls, I'm good with becoming gurlfreinds, however, I have no desire to be with you sexually-just the way I'm wired. That goes for you guys out there who like to wear ANY women's clothing, sorry fellows, I'm just not into both of us wearing women undies.

I am divorced from a woman I will love forever. She didn't love me though, and I've finally come to terms with that. Everything was final in 2013, so yes, it took me a long time to get to this point and finally accept life as it is. I did choose life though, not for me but for my k**do. If I didn't have my k**do you wouldn't be reading this right now.

Right now it's just my k**do and me in our home. Because of my ex-wife's new life, my k**do has decided to live with me exclusively, which made me extremely happy and let me see that there just may be a tomorrow. Getting that news was the best feeling I've ever had to be honest, although I am sad that my k**do doesn't feel loved or love their mother. I mean, how can a mother choose anything or anyone over their only c***d, right? I'll never understand it, NEVER.

I decided a few years ago to be a stay at home parent. So now, with this ugly pandemic I have had almost no time to work on my look as "Brenda." Although the time k**do and I have spent together has been incredible and eye-opening, I am a human being and do have "needs" that I used to be able to attend too when k**do was not home. So for the last 7 months, I've had to sneak my "Brenda" time whenever and however possible.

I have a decent amount of women's clothing that I've bought over the last 6 or 8 years now. I decided during the separation that I just didn't care anymore and started shopping for "Brenda". I also have a small toy collection and love it when I have enough time and privacy to enjoy them.

So, who am I looking for? As I mentioned briefly, I will be ready in the future to meet a nice man who is confident, taller and bigger than me and wanting to share the rest of his life with a gurl like me. You don't have to be Brad Pitt or Sean Connerly, you just have to be real, you have to be honest and you have to be in love with me (and only me.) If your married, save us both the time-because I'm not into cheaters, I'm appalled by them in all actuality so contact someone other than me.

Of course, I expect to be part of your life in every way possible and accept, as you will to, that you likely have c***dren and grandc***dren. I'm not interested in living a lie anymore and won't be your dirty little secret. I will be your wife and together we will be honest with the world. You will be single, divorced or a widower, anything but married obviously. We will live together and share and take on the world every morning we wake up.

I will be there for you in every way a real woman is for her man, except for raising more k**do's as I will be in my mid 50's when I'm ready to settle in with you. I will cook, clean, and keep a warm home for us. I am a bit old-fashioned when it comes to roles and relationships. I believe the feminine takes her lead from the masculine, I feel that's the way relationships are meant to be for those of us my age and older. You can work, be retired or have your time outside of our together time. When it's time for dinner though, that's when I DO expect you to be home and ready to have our time together.

I will also share this; I have no intention of having any of my body parts removed. I don't have much in that area to begin with, so it is easy for me to appear more feminine than masculine in that regard. I have considered some enhancement in my chest area, however, it wouldn't be much so if you're looking for DD's, I'm not your gurl. I honestly like the idea of being a little firmer and in the small B arena. I have never had the classic manly pecs. Mine have ALWAYS been soft and female appearing. So much so that I used to get horribly teased and taunted as I grew up, and quickly learned to keep them hidden through various means. I will also let you know I don't have the best hair follicle genes, so I will wear a wig, just how it is.

k**do will be finished with college in 2025/26 and need awhile to get on their feet. So my plan is to re-locate out of Wisconsin as fast as I can in that time frame. I'll go anywhere that doesn't have winter weather like Wisconsin does. I mean that with every ounce of conviction I have. I want to live out my life without being frozen inside without sunshine for 5 months in a row. I like snow, I really do, I just really loathe the bitter cold.

I want to do things together. Travel, walking on the beach together is my desire, but anything together is enough for me. I love movies, anything other than horror. I love to read, layout in the sun, talk, and of course have my time on the computer. I prefer Apple over Android, pizza over fine dining, driving over riding, and intimacy over entertaining.

I believe in love. I believe you are out there and are looking for me. I'm not lonely anymore, I'm not impatient anymore, I am willing to wait for you and am counting on catching your eye.

You don't have to be rich, debonaire, or perfect for me to love you. You just have to be you.

I hope to hear from some great people here ;)



Brenda