WHY WEAR A COCK CAGE AND BUTT PLUG?

That is an EXCELLENT question and I am glad you asked! It is a really simple answer to be quite honest. Wearing a cage and a plug is the next step in my sexual evolution. I enjoy dressing and presenting as female, acting as a female during sex, but I am not truly experiencing sex as a female.

The reason for that is that I still have my “male” parts aka my cock and my balls. I plan on keeping them, but I need to reprogram my body and mind to react as female. I still masturbate my cock, but now I do it as a girl would, rubbing it with 2 fingers under the head as if it were a clit. I also can make myself cum from fucking my ass with a dildo and that feeling is AMAZING! The problem is that I still find myself occasionally getting off as a “guy” would. I came to the decision that that must come to an end, I have been in the cage for 72 hours and things have already changed. First, I must pee like a woman. Every time I go, I must squat. This alone has helped to further change my mindset. I am constantly aware that I can no longer just “go at will” and always am aware of where the nearest bathroom is when I am on the road because I can’t just whip it out anymore.

Secondly, I no longer get to touch myself for pleasure. At ALL. No masturbating for a LONG time! Any time I get an urge and the body reacts as a guy, it physically hurts. Does that mean that I no longer have sexual urges? Of course not! What I am conditioning myself to do is get the male to female equivalent of a genetic girl getting wet. Sarina Valentina is a great example. Watch her videos and you will see that her “cock” doesn’t get hard, you never see her cum in a video, and her thing is more like a large clit than anything else. My sexual urges will be channeled in ways other than having a hard cock.

That leads to number three. I won’t be getting erections, I won’t be cumming from stroking and will be desensitized and I may not be able to even cum by rubbing it like a clit. My pleasure will now be more mental, from GIVING rather than RECEIVING (unless it is receiving a hot load of cum on my face or in my mouth!) Women will understand this more. How many times have you gotten fucked and not cum? How many times have you sucked a guy off but he didn’t go down on you? Did you still find the sex hot? Sometimes yes and sometimes no is my guess. That is the world I will enter. I will be able to cum from anal sex sometimes, but not all the time. That is the price women pay: There is not always an orgasm from sex for women. Is it fair? Maybe not, but that is out of our hands. My duty is to please and that means that physically I may get the short end of the figurative sexual stick sometimes, but that is the price and I am willing to pay that price to be the toy that men want. With the butt plugs, it will be easier to take any size cock on demand and in any position. With the effects of the cage, my stimulation will be mental rather than physical.

There are other effects I have noticed. With wearing the cage, my equipment is constantly out of the way when I walk so now my legs are closer together. With the plug inserted I am doing the anal equivalent of a kagel every single minute, and that has changed my walk, and both have changed how I sit. I am enjoying this so far, some changes have been subtle and some drastic, but each change is bringing me closer to my version of womanhood and I am grateful for that.

Please,, let me know your thoughts!

XOXO

Crystal Beth