My BDSM Test Results

I have no idea how this stacks up to other versatile dudes but this is what it says.... == Results from bdsmtest.org == 100% Switch 84% Primal (Hunter) 84% Dominant 77% Experimentalist 75% Daddy/Mommy 73% Submissive 65% Brat tamer 64% Brat 63% Vanilla 60% Rigger 57% Degrader 55% Master/Mistress 54% Ageplayer 53% Voyeur 49% Rope bunny 48% Primal (Prey) 48% Owner 45% Exhibitionist 38% Sadist 30% Non-monogamist 24% Degradee 17% Slave 9% Masochist 8% Pet 0% Boy/Girl… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 2 år sedan

Kinkiest thing you have done (Past 90-days)

So I'll start. Was on a camping trip last month with a trans chick I was seeing and we decided to spend the weekend camping at Big Bend Park over in Texas. We were with a group of 6 others (3 couples) who were all coworkers of hers and my girl (as far as I knew) was the only trans in the group. My girl's co-workers all know my girl was trans but not so sure if the other guys knew or not. Fast forward to the second night and everyone bedded down late that night after beers and shots by the campfire. I knew from dating trans chicks before that going to sleep without sex is sort of taboo as one… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 2 år sedan 4

Process for ensuring nearly pain-free intercourse

So first off, I can’t honestly take credit for this as it was taught to me by an ex-girlfriend who was a MTF transgender. When I started down the path of dating and having encounters with CDs, sissies, and trans women, I was always the top and the aggressor. I had the occasion of being in summerlong relationship with a trans girl who was maybe a unicorn and encouraged me to get outside my comfort zone and try something different. In short, she wanted me to experience being penetrated (by her). It took me a while to warm up to this as I had tried it once before and didn’t really like it. That w… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 17

Why a Bi male?

I am curious....I see a lot of CDs who say in their profile that they are looking for a bisexual male and it sort of confuses me. Are straight guys not your thing? Are they too rough? Not respecting? Not open-minded? Are you afraid that straight men won't accept your gender? I personally don't see a straight man being with a trans or CD as either gay or bi. Some straights (like me) are simply into androgynous people and they don't want to be with either genetic males or females. Although my personal preference is a MTF trans woman living as a woman full-time, I have been with CDs and accept y… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 14

My one and only experience with a post-op trans

This is about the one and only time I have been with a post-op trans woman. Based on this experience, I am definitely open to doing it again but meeting trans for dating is hard enough without further reducing the potential dating pool to post-ops only. It’s hard enough meeting pr-ops honestly. So we met on a dating site (not Hamster) and exchanged messages back and forth. She was from a city a few hours North. We ended up chatting a few times on Skype and doing a few video calls and there was definite chemistry. We eventually agreed on a meet-up and date in Phoenix the following week. We di… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 11

What's with a little hair?

So I have always been into outdoor stuff like camping, hunting, shooting. I occasionally drive over to Texas for RV and Outdoor shows and that’s where I met Tomasa who was a rep for an RV dealer. Tomasa was Mexican and originally from a smaller town in the Mexican state of Chihuahua. I’m a half breed myself being ½ Mexican by anestry but I inherited my white dad’s skin and tall height. This along with being able to speak conversational Spanish at least seems to give me an edge in the Hispanic trans dating game. By 2016, I had already been with a trans girl in a FWB kind of thing for a few mont… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 7

My first encounter as a straight with a Trans

So I thought I would post a story to give a little insight to who I am. I grew up near the U.S.-Mexico border and am ½ Mexican Hispanic and ½ Anglo (white). I was raised to appreciate both sides of my culture by a strong Mexican mom and a White dad who was a bad-ass but pretty much adored her and let her be the boss. I never learned Spanish fluently but enough to get by on the street and at school. I visited Nogales Senora across on the Mexican side on and off during my teen years. As a young adult, I was fearless and sometimes went across alone to visit the strip clubs, get a cheap lunch, o… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 13

My first MILF (best friends mom)

It was 2006 and I was a senior in high school. I had just turned 19 three months earlier and was about to graduate. I was a year older than most of my classmates due to being held over a grade in middle school. Me and my best bro Carlos were ready as hell to get out of school and tear up the world. We had played football together since our sophomore year and were pretty tight. All through the football season, we stayed at each other’s houses after school and slept over sometimes. His mom Lupita was a great cook and always had food for us whenever I came over which was often. One afternoon aro… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 3

Banana Anyone?

I was 27 and single and enjoying being free sort of the ‘sworn to fun loyal to non’ stage in young adulthood. I lived alone in a 1-bedroom apartment and loved working on my motorcycle which I kept in my living room. Most Friday nights for me were jamming out to music, enjoying a few beers and tinkering with the bike. I dated occasionally but nothing serious. There were a few cute single girls living in my apartment that I saw around and always said hi but never really pursued them. I had had a bad experience before with dating so close to home and knew better by now. One girl in particular I a… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 6

Opinions on cut versus uncut - what's yours?

First off, I am uncut myself and all of the trans and CDs I have been with were also uncut. Perhaps a throwback to the Mexican half of my heritage but the truth is, a lot of Latinos and therefore Latinas don't get circumcised at birth. Its never been an issue for me and I have no plans of ever removing my skin but in the context of male-trans-CD relationships, I have a few thoughts that I want to confirm. I am of the opinion that sex with an uncut partner is less painful and therefore, more enjoyable. This is because the penile membrane itself is encased in a layer of skin and this skin give… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 2

Trans Video Comments Make Me Shake My Head

I see all kinds of wild comments on trans and CD vids and some of the make me laugh. Of course this is a place where we can share our thoughts, fantasies, and opinions without judgement whether we have or haven't yet been able to act on them. A couple of truth's and realities are in order though. A lot of them would rather you just treat them like a woman and respect goes a long way when dating trans chicks. This doesn't mean that she isn't attracted to your 'maleness.' Quite the contrary as she is super attracted to everything male about men. This doesn't always mean that she is super excite… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 10

Don't grab her clit during sex

So we have all seen the sexy vids of couples making love in all kinds of positions. In missionary and cowgirl passion especially, we tend to see vids where either the girl or the guy, grabs her cock and furiously jerks off while taking her man's cock. A couple of things I have learned over the years are that while some girls do like this, some others don't. The reasons for those who dont like it are varied, maybe she is a submissive and sees her cock as a hindrance to this. For others, they want to be seen as women and while they accept thier genitalia, they don't particularly want it touched… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 9

My views on gender and sexuality

So, as a man who has dated both women and trans women, I decided to pen a few thoughts on how I see gender and sexuality. For simplicity sake and although its not technically and anatomically correct, I will group CDs, Sissies, FemBoys, Shemales, Trannies all in the group trans women. Aside from one, I have only been with pre-operative trans women (i.e. a person who still has their penis). I am 33 and at age 24, had my first experience in Mexico with a with a trans. I didn't really want to at first but she was persistent and also sexy as hell. I knew her gender but had this phobia inside me t… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 5

Advice for men dating transgender and CDs

So I decided to write a few things about transgender women and crossdressing females that is mostly focused toward guys since I see so many comments on videos that tells me they need to step up their game and learn. I don't at all claim to be any sort of expert and these comments are based on my experience as a straight guy dating genetic females and then ‘transitioning’ (pardon the pun) to trans women. I have dated a handful of mtf trans girls (one for an extended period of time) and have had a few casual encounters with crossdressers (CDs) who would fit the category of ‘sissies’ as people ca… Läs mer

Publicerat av AllenB12 3 år sedan 31