Anal sex preperation?

Ok just have to ask this as its something i have no knowledge of but after talking to some people and them admiring that part of me would like to try haha

I wash and shower most days so i'm a clean person but I've heard alot of people saying that before anal sex you have to have an enema to make sure everything is clean inside? It sounds quite umm whats the word 'invasive' and i'm guessing it would be a bit smelly, which might lead to the guy changing his mind about doing it?

i suppose what i'm asking is that alot of these sexual desires are spontanious, so to have to go through this beforehand seems a bit much? i'm guessing its because the guy might come out afterwards messy or smelly? or is it cos it feels nicer for the woman/man?

Sorry if i sound naive, I've experimented on my own (only with finger nothing scary big haha) and know it can feel a bit uncomfortable when something is inside and i don't know if this is normal but i feel the need to go/p*o if something is in there. Would an enema let you relax more knowing you wouldn't have an accident?

DJ x
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I'd fuck your ass anytime babe and all men would so don't worry about a aneama 
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Toffeechris
My last girlfriend loved anal sex & she never had that done & didn't smell either so it was just good fucking pleasure. Did you get to try it? 
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Nothing should come out with proper prep.  Just go with it.  That sphincter around a cock is unbelievable.  Love to have my clean.tight butthole licked too.  Soooo sensitive
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till demi98 : If you was my sub slut i would fuck only your mouth and ass!
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till demi98 : As long as you enjoy it :smile:
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I don't have a problem if my cock is a bit smelly when I withdraw from your arse. In fact I find it a bit kinky
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Loveakinkygirl
I fuck ass all the time never had a women use one before 
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Real_naughty_male
We are gonna have so much anal sex. Rather that than your fanny 
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Msg me on private u need to be ruined
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till demi98 : That's what the amyl nitrate is for ?
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demi98
this was 3 years ago i wrote this so its a bit old but i wont delete it, i have had anal sex now quite a lot of times and i really enjoy it and like it even more than normal fanny sex, so i dont know what i was scared about, if you relax it feels really nice and enjoyable
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demi98
till Dirty_Monkey : lol yeah i suppose so but anal sex does feel nice 
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Honestly, I'd rather just not bother with anal so my suggested preparation would be "fuck in the front hole loads" ?
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I suppose a little preparation is required to avoid messy accidents but once it’s done, you can rest easy that nothing is going to spoil your playtime. Just relax with plenty of your favourite lube and everything will be fine xxx
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Thepornid3ntity
Dirty is good for me ?
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No you just insert the cock and enjoy it! X
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gameboy2010
I thought you'd get alot of response from this post ?
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Lovely_Cummer_4U
It does put a pressure that gives a similar feeling of needing to go p.. The more you relax, the better it feels. Enema's feel awkward at first, but can also feel good. Nice to have a clean ass for toys and such.. Coconut oil is the best, cheap, smells nice, and is great lube..  ...also a tongue can be nice, and helpful.. :wink:
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As few have said here anal can be so enjoyable but only if done in a gentle way to start, take time and be well lubricated and I promise you would enjoy it xx
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You need to find someone who will care about you and your feelings, go at your pace and know how to relax and excite you at the same time
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Daddy_4_You_UK
Read Daddy's "About Me". If you havn't tried it yet (I can see this was written 2 years ago) Then choose someone older. If done wrong it could put you off for life.
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You don't need an enema for anal. It can actually be bad for you as it can damage the lining in your bum which can lead to bleeding and if you are really unlucky infection. Even if the guy is wearing a condom. And seriously avoid ass to mouth or vaginal penetration until you know the cock is totally clean. 
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Foreshoreman
Oil or silicone based lube rather than water based is my top tip. Coconut oil is my fave anal lube and I find it not only helps with friction,  but helps to keep things clean too. X
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There is no need to have an enema before anal sex. All you need to do is ensure you have emptied your bowels and that you have washed externally. Too many enemas can lead to having problems going normally and also leave you more open to STD infection. Play safe and have lots of fun xx
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chrisukbishare
I've learned lots from these comments as a bi man. Thank you
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Dont worry, lets do it! :wink:
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I douche every day; make it part of your morning routine x 
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Interesting read!  Thanks for asking those questions.  I have wondered the same.  I have had anal sex with the wife a couple of times.  One messy, one not.  Didn't cum either time (alcohol to blame) ... sorry for the brutal honesty.
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Who ever told you this is talking crap,you don't need an enema.You need to find a guy you feel comfortable with/trust and ask him to use plenty of lube on your bum (after rimming/fingering if you enjoy these),also lube his cock then he can very slowly and gently ease the head of his cock into your bum.You should also agree a sign so that you can let him know if you want him to stop if it's too painful. If he's any sort of gentleman he should take things at your pace and let you keep control.
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Hi I love anal and right from the first time have never had an enema but let the men lub your anus by spitting or ky jelly. It is so enjoyable just relax take it steady and let him cum inside. Let him get hard again or take another males cock while you are full of cum then there is no pain and you should cum as well xxx
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