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Cuck Frustrated that His Hot Wife has Stopped
Dear Cuckoldress,
My wife and I have done some cuckold role playing over the past few years with a few different guys. This came after a few years of me telling her how much I wanted to watch her fuck other menj ust as I had with several of my previous girlfriends who were fucked by some of my friends. After many discussions, she finally agreed to do it and it was great for both of us. We did it several times over the course of 15 months with 4 different men....one guy she really enjoyed ended up coming over to fuck her every other weekend for about 2 months which enabled all of us to experiment with all different kinds of cuckolding
scenarios....me sucking his cock....eating his cum and even some golden shower activity with her peeing on me while he stood and watched....
However the last time we had a guy over was in December of 2006 and it was him. Now she just seems totally disinterested and I'm very frustrated. She always says that she might change her mind again at some point but I'm beginning to doubt it. I'm constantly thinking about sex, Specifically about her fucking other guys. And I have real images in my head from the times she actually did it which makes it even more frustrating. Should I just be content that I got to experience it and revert to
just fantasizing about it as before it ever happened?
I can't last very long during sex anymore because as soon as she starts sucking my cock or if we're fucking, my mind automatically envisions her with another guy and I cum very quickly especially when she verbally refers to those past events!!! I love her very much, want to stay together, and have no interest in fucking other women at all. But I also have considered trying to find a true cuckoldress, at least a woman to correspond with who would appreciate a good loyal cuck. Are there really many women out their that really understand cuckolding and the cuckold male besides you?!?!?
Any advice or suggestions would be welcome!
Thanks,
Phil in GA
Dear phil,
Essentially all your hotwife did was fuck other men for you and after awhile that becomes boring. Your relationship never developed so she never found any emotional contentment from the act. I suggest you do the cuckold communication exercise on cuckyboy with her. She might find it more interesting if you look at it in terms of enhancing your relationship.
The Cuckoldress
New Hot Wife Frustrated by Her Cuckold Husbands Change of Heart
Dear Cuckoldress,
My husband and I have started cuckolding about a year ago. We are into the tame stuff. He recently got a different job that restricts his availability to meet. So, I have been having a hard time trying to schedule something within his schedule. So, we have agreed for me to play alone which gets him horny. He has all of a sudden said no more meetings alone for awhile. Which is very frustrating for me. I am all horny and primed and he (in my eyes) is trying to
control me and my sexuality. Don't open the door and then just shut it down is my feeling. Any ideas for us?
Newbie
Dear Newbie,
I can understand your frustration and I can also understand your cuckold husbands concerns. I'm not sure what you do when you date alone but if your cuck is not involved in some way then it's not much fun for him. My suggestion is communicate, communicate, communicate! Sit down and talk to each other. Express your frustrations and find out why he doesn't want you to date alone. Couples can often find a compromise.
Even if he is at work is there a way for him to be involved? Prepares your clothes before work while you tease him about the date or you could call him on a cell and give him updates and of course let him listen while you are getting fucked, take pictures or videos and definitely make sure you give him all the details of your date so he can get off. There is nothing more frustrating for a cuckold then their hot wife having a great time and not telling the details. Believe me, I have been there several times. I got a little tipsy on a few dates and the details are hazy afterwards and my poor cuckold husband was left frustrated and wondering what happened.
Remember cuckolding is just not about you having a good time it is also about the cuckold getting their sexual needs met as well. Keep me informed.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
This is newbie thanking you for your advice earlier telling me that cuckolding was not just about me having a good time by myself but my husband, the cuckold, also getting his needs met. Your wise advice to communicate, communicate, communicate was exactly right. He conveyed his feelings which pretty much mirrored your opinion that I was leaving him out of the whole process and not meeting his sexual needs. We have talked and things have improved a lot.
Except now when I try to schedule things including him he is usually too tired and lets me go by myself. I always try to make myself available afterwards to discuss the evening and for him to get his creampie for dessert. But, he just don't seem that interested. So, while things have improved his interest has waned and I have had a difficult time trying to find a man that understands cuckolding that could make it more interesting for him. So, Thanks for your advice earlier and making me understand that this isn't just about me. Your advice really helped a lot.
Sincerely,
Newbie
Dear Newbie,
Thank you for you compliment. Your cuckold husband may have enjoyed the conversation and is pleased that you are trying to include him but he may need you still to be assertive. He may be just pouting a little. Even though he enjoyed your aloofness in the past toward his sexual needs he was still concerned. Now that you have addressed his concerns you may want to assert you sexual needs and control over him. Don't give him choices tell him he's going to eat cream pie. Come home and shove it in his face and make him eat it. I think you will see him responding again. He needs you to control him sexually. Part of his fantasy is your a slut and you need more cock then his can give you and that you will get it no matter what and he will just have to like it.
Good Luck and keep us informed and I will post your story on my page.
The Cuckoldress
Boyfriend Wonders if His Hot Girlfriend is Fucking Her Ex
Dear Cuckoldress,
Hello my girlfriend has seen her ex-boyfriend for 3 times now so she told she met him in his car and then they go for a drive. She told that she still has feelings for him and the last time she felt his cock to see if he had a hard one and he did. She said she won’t see him again because she let him down because he wanted to fuck her but she didn’t because the thought of me was stopping her. I told her to do it and that I got sexually exited from it if she would. My question is do you think they will see each other more often and do you think they will have sex eventually?
Erik
Dear Erik,
Have you ever heard the saying, “if you keep hanging out at a barbershop you are going to end up with a haircut”. Of course she will fuck him, why wouldn't she? She has in the past and it will be a matter of time. Does he have a bigger cock then you? If he does then you can rest assure she will be fucking him if she already has not? She may have done so and is just checking your reaction.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress
Thank you for your reply yes he has a bigger cock then me. I spoke too him on msn and he agreed to have koffie with me and my girlfriend. I hope they will sit together on the sofa and send me to get things for them while they start to kiss each other. Do you have a tip too make things even more exiting for them?
Erik
Dear erik,
Very good erik you are going to be a good little cuckyboy. I am sure they will find ways to heat things up between them. Especially since you are going to be such a wimp and take care of them. I bet your little peter gets hard just thinking about it! Keep me informed on how things are progressing.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
Well he came too have koffie when i was at work she told me they kissed and had sex on the sofa and then in our bed. She told me that she has made a appointment for tomorrow as well. Can you tell me how i can make things even better for them?
erik.cuckold
Dear erik,
Just make sure your lady knows and understands that you love you and you support her in this matter. Make her feel safe and secure and she will fuck his brains all the time. Let’s face it erik, it doesn’t sound like you have much to offer her in that department so she will get her sexual needs met through her ex-boyfriend and others soon. All you can do is meet her emotional needs which seems to make you a happy little cuckyboy.
The Cuckoldress
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Is my Wife ready to become a Hot Wife?
Dear Cuckoldress,
I have had this fantasy of seeing my wife fucked for a couple of years now. About a year ago she found emails I sent to someone on the premise of seducing her. She wasn't pleased.
A few months later we were talking about fantasies and I told here it would really turn me on if she would pretend to have fucked someone else and tell me about it while we were having sex. To her credit she did and we had really hot sex.
She told me she was worried I was going to set something up (we sometimes go away for the weekend and stay in a hotel) she was worried there was going to be a 3rd person there. That put us off the playing it out scenario for a while.
A few months ago while we were fucking I asked how far she would have gone if I had set something up. She just looked at me and said "you really want to do this don't you" and then came really heavy.
A couple of nights ago we were fucking and she whispered 'do you still want to see me fucked?' I almost came there and then, I said yes and she asked me to tell her what he was doing to her and I talked through a scenario as we fucked. As she came I said 'do you want to be fucked by someone else?" she moaned 'yes'
is she ready?
M
Dear M,
I do think your wife is ready but what I would recommend is that she be involved in setting something up and do this together. The sharing and going about doing it together can be so much fun.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
Thanks for the suggestion Monique - I’m not really sure how to go about it though. M
Dear M,
There are several excellent articles there on how to get your wife to cuckold you. Such as “Hot to Get Your Wife to Cuckold You””. I would also create a personal ad and see what kind of responses you get and show your wife. See if they excite her.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
My wife and I have done some cuckold role playing over the past few years with a few different guys. This came after a few years of me telling her how much I wanted to watch her fuck other menj ust as I had with several of my previous girlfriends who were fucked by some of my friends. After many discussions, she finally agreed to do it and it was great for both of us. We did it several times over the course of 15 months with 4 different men....one guy she really enjoyed ended up coming over to fuck her every other weekend for about 2 months which enabled all of us to experiment with all different kinds of cuckolding
scenarios....me sucking his cock....eating his cum and even some golden shower activity with her peeing on me while he stood and watched....
However the last time we had a guy over was in December of 2006 and it was him. Now she just seems totally disinterested and I'm very frustrated. She always says that she might change her mind again at some point but I'm beginning to doubt it. I'm constantly thinking about sex, Specifically about her fucking other guys. And I have real images in my head from the times she actually did it which makes it even more frustrating. Should I just be content that I got to experience it and revert to
just fantasizing about it as before it ever happened?
I can't last very long during sex anymore because as soon as she starts sucking my cock or if we're fucking, my mind automatically envisions her with another guy and I cum very quickly especially when she verbally refers to those past events!!! I love her very much, want to stay together, and have no interest in fucking other women at all. But I also have considered trying to find a true cuckoldress, at least a woman to correspond with who would appreciate a good loyal cuck. Are there really many women out their that really understand cuckolding and the cuckold male besides you?!?!?
Any advice or suggestions would be welcome!
Thanks,
Phil in GA
Dear phil,
Essentially all your hotwife did was fuck other men for you and after awhile that becomes boring. Your relationship never developed so she never found any emotional contentment from the act. I suggest you do the cuckold communication exercise on cuckyboy with her. She might find it more interesting if you look at it in terms of enhancing your relationship.
The Cuckoldress
New Hot Wife Frustrated by Her Cuckold Husbands Change of Heart
Dear Cuckoldress,
My husband and I have started cuckolding about a year ago. We are into the tame stuff. He recently got a different job that restricts his availability to meet. So, I have been having a hard time trying to schedule something within his schedule. So, we have agreed for me to play alone which gets him horny. He has all of a sudden said no more meetings alone for awhile. Which is very frustrating for me. I am all horny and primed and he (in my eyes) is trying to
control me and my sexuality. Don't open the door and then just shut it down is my feeling. Any ideas for us?
Newbie
Dear Newbie,
I can understand your frustration and I can also understand your cuckold husbands concerns. I'm not sure what you do when you date alone but if your cuck is not involved in some way then it's not much fun for him. My suggestion is communicate, communicate, communicate! Sit down and talk to each other. Express your frustrations and find out why he doesn't want you to date alone. Couples can often find a compromise.
Even if he is at work is there a way for him to be involved? Prepares your clothes before work while you tease him about the date or you could call him on a cell and give him updates and of course let him listen while you are getting fucked, take pictures or videos and definitely make sure you give him all the details of your date so he can get off. There is nothing more frustrating for a cuckold then their hot wife having a great time and not telling the details. Believe me, I have been there several times. I got a little tipsy on a few dates and the details are hazy afterwards and my poor cuckold husband was left frustrated and wondering what happened.
Remember cuckolding is just not about you having a good time it is also about the cuckold getting their sexual needs met as well. Keep me informed.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
This is newbie thanking you for your advice earlier telling me that cuckolding was not just about me having a good time by myself but my husband, the cuckold, also getting his needs met. Your wise advice to communicate, communicate, communicate was exactly right. He conveyed his feelings which pretty much mirrored your opinion that I was leaving him out of the whole process and not meeting his sexual needs. We have talked and things have improved a lot.
Except now when I try to schedule things including him he is usually too tired and lets me go by myself. I always try to make myself available afterwards to discuss the evening and for him to get his creampie for dessert. But, he just don't seem that interested. So, while things have improved his interest has waned and I have had a difficult time trying to find a man that understands cuckolding that could make it more interesting for him. So, Thanks for your advice earlier and making me understand that this isn't just about me. Your advice really helped a lot.
Sincerely,
Newbie
Dear Newbie,
Thank you for you compliment. Your cuckold husband may have enjoyed the conversation and is pleased that you are trying to include him but he may need you still to be assertive. He may be just pouting a little. Even though he enjoyed your aloofness in the past toward his sexual needs he was still concerned. Now that you have addressed his concerns you may want to assert you sexual needs and control over him. Don't give him choices tell him he's going to eat cream pie. Come home and shove it in his face and make him eat it. I think you will see him responding again. He needs you to control him sexually. Part of his fantasy is your a slut and you need more cock then his can give you and that you will get it no matter what and he will just have to like it.
Good Luck and keep us informed and I will post your story on my page.
The Cuckoldress
Boyfriend Wonders if His Hot Girlfriend is Fucking Her Ex
Dear Cuckoldress,
Hello my girlfriend has seen her ex-boyfriend for 3 times now so she told she met him in his car and then they go for a drive. She told that she still has feelings for him and the last time she felt his cock to see if he had a hard one and he did. She said she won’t see him again because she let him down because he wanted to fuck her but she didn’t because the thought of me was stopping her. I told her to do it and that I got sexually exited from it if she would. My question is do you think they will see each other more often and do you think they will have sex eventually?
Erik
Dear Erik,
Have you ever heard the saying, “if you keep hanging out at a barbershop you are going to end up with a haircut”. Of course she will fuck him, why wouldn't she? She has in the past and it will be a matter of time. Does he have a bigger cock then you? If he does then you can rest assure she will be fucking him if she already has not? She may have done so and is just checking your reaction.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress
Thank you for your reply yes he has a bigger cock then me. I spoke too him on msn and he agreed to have koffie with me and my girlfriend. I hope they will sit together on the sofa and send me to get things for them while they start to kiss each other. Do you have a tip too make things even more exiting for them?
Erik
Dear erik,
Very good erik you are going to be a good little cuckyboy. I am sure they will find ways to heat things up between them. Especially since you are going to be such a wimp and take care of them. I bet your little peter gets hard just thinking about it! Keep me informed on how things are progressing.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
Well he came too have koffie when i was at work she told me they kissed and had sex on the sofa and then in our bed. She told me that she has made a appointment for tomorrow as well. Can you tell me how i can make things even better for them?
erik.cuckold
Dear erik,
Just make sure your lady knows and understands that you love you and you support her in this matter. Make her feel safe and secure and she will fuck his brains all the time. Let’s face it erik, it doesn’t sound like you have much to offer her in that department so she will get her sexual needs met through her ex-boyfriend and others soon. All you can do is meet her emotional needs which seems to make you a happy little cuckyboy.
The Cuckoldress
cuckoldress
cuckoldress
cuckoldress
Is my Wife ready to become a Hot Wife?
Dear Cuckoldress,
I have had this fantasy of seeing my wife fucked for a couple of years now. About a year ago she found emails I sent to someone on the premise of seducing her. She wasn't pleased.
A few months later we were talking about fantasies and I told here it would really turn me on if she would pretend to have fucked someone else and tell me about it while we were having sex. To her credit she did and we had really hot sex.
She told me she was worried I was going to set something up (we sometimes go away for the weekend and stay in a hotel) she was worried there was going to be a 3rd person there. That put us off the playing it out scenario for a while.
A few months ago while we were fucking I asked how far she would have gone if I had set something up. She just looked at me and said "you really want to do this don't you" and then came really heavy.
A couple of nights ago we were fucking and she whispered 'do you still want to see me fucked?' I almost came there and then, I said yes and she asked me to tell her what he was doing to her and I talked through a scenario as we fucked. As she came I said 'do you want to be fucked by someone else?" she moaned 'yes'
is she ready?
M
Dear M,
I do think your wife is ready but what I would recommend is that she be involved in setting something up and do this together. The sharing and going about doing it together can be so much fun.
The Cuckoldress
Dear Cuckoldress,
Thanks for the suggestion Monique - I’m not really sure how to go about it though. M
Dear M,
There are several excellent articles there on how to get your wife to cuckold you. Such as “Hot to Get Your Wife to Cuckold You””. I would also create a personal ad and see what kind of responses you get and show your wife. See if they excite her.
The Cuckoldress
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