If you're a fake Mistress, what are you gonna

I've got to say.. I've often bristled at some Dominas calling other women "fake" mistresses because the Domme in question doesn't live up to their idea of what a Mistress should be.

A multitude of Dommes have come up with a multitude of reasons why they are a "real Dominatrix" and another woman is a fake. For example, women have been deemed fake Dommes for:

1) allowing a slave to cum

2) using her sexuality to tease a man, even if he's not allowed to cum

3) not posting her real picture online

4) only doing the job for the money.

5) having ever switched.

6) letting the client tell her what turns him on (under the logic of 'this isn't about you, it's about what I want.')

Honestly, from top to bottom, these are some of the most ridiculously narrow definitions of Domination I've had the displeasure to see. Anyone who thinks they can define Domination and submission for all people is a fool. The key is to find out what trips a sub's trigger and use it to control them, to the satisfaction of both parties.. that may be something as simple as calling him names and demanding he fuck you or as elaborate as rigging out the entire house with pulleys, ropes, cuffs, stretchers, and studded leather instruments of torture.

Ds relationships are as diverse as the people in them and anyone who tries to say what constitutes "real submission"is as foolish as the person who tries to define real love for another couple.

And that doesn't even address those who think a smiling snapshot posted online gives them some sort of Ds credibility.. anyone who doesn't know the difference between being a Domme and being a model really has no business being in the business. I know plenty of Dommes who have posted their pics online, uncluding myself at one time, but it's really not the images that make us Dominants and having a picture in your profile is an incredibly poor ruler to measure a person's Ds legitimacy by.

Now... with that said...

How the fuck is anyone gonna call themselves a "Mistress" when every story, picture, and video they post is entirely comprised of someone else's work?

While I'm all for borrowing ideas that appeal to you and incorporating them into your own playl that's a far cry from flat out plagiarism and digital media piracy.

For those of you who haven't guessed by now, I'm talking about the person who used my words and voice and set them against other pirated imagery to make a video for posting on xhmaster.

This person, who claims to be a Mistress also has a website where she asks for tributes and offers in-person sessions for those who want to be more than just a virtual pet.. but here's the rub.. not only are all her videos here on xhamster stolen from other people, every single post she has is plagiarized from other sites.

How on earth is she going to be able to dominate anyone or anything when she can't even write or speak a single sentence describing what she does, will do, or has dreamed of doing? At this point, I'd be amazed if it turned out this person was actually a woman.

Man oh man.. if ever there was a case for 'buyer beware,' this is it. Oh.. and since I'm looking at all the ways she's trying to cheat people out of cash tributes by presenting other people's work, I'm reminded to give this warning.. never.. never.. never use paypal to pay or receive payment for anything of an adult nature. They will not only suspend your account, they might withdraw any money they previously deposited into your checking account, even for non-adult related transactions while they figure out which of your transactions fell outside the parameters of their Terms of Service.

Ok.. this was a broad rant and it's over now.. if you're still reading.. good on ya. And thank you for giving me your attention for this long.. after all, you did come here for porn to begin with.