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No I dont want to masturbate with you and no I don't want have a sex chat with you, this section of the site is for dating.

Honestly, this is how I feel about total power exchange. To have an exchange means you have allowed someone to have and hold their power above yours over you. They have agreed for their power to be given to you in an exchange.

We all have power and thus the responsibility over ourselves. I have not given my power of self away to another up till no. Some label this as being strong and domineering. I view it as stepping into my power of being and knowing who I am. Even as a young girl I was very independent. However, I am willing to choose to share my power over myself with you if you are trusted.

Of course a man may be able to physically overpower me with brute strength. As a woman though I learnt to overpower men sort of speak mentally. So therefore, the playing field is even or perhaps more in my favour.

I also believe men need women far more than women need men. Women are the creators that birth and nurture new life. Women are the backbone of the family dynamic. Women are the power behind a man's drive and motivation. Women are also the safe space for a man to be vulnerable with his deeper feelings.

Some may say it is for the man to be able to assume more the role of the female in the dynamic and vice versa. I don't want a man to be the female. There is only one female in the relationship and that is me because I have the pussy and femininity is my power. I want the man to become more of himself, just as I will become more of myself.

Whomever said men rule the world have never met a true woman and experienced her power. A woman can bring a man to his knees. Thus, power exchange is a paradox in my view.

Am single young black African girl. I am new to the lifestyle and I also believe am very submissive and obedient, honest and understanding. Am seeking for a serious Dom/Master who needs a live-in sub that you can train me to become the good and perfect sub to serve. To have someone give you control of their bodies and minds, to be entrusted with the responsibility of care, to have someone willing to suffer for you, to forsake pride and dignity to please you... I want to experience the giving of this gift as I cant imagine any other gift in this world that can possibility equate to that? And more importantly, I hope I find one that is worthy to receive it? I'm open minded looking to explore the entire bdsm scene, meaning I will try anything at least twice to see if I want more of it or not. Preferred age should be above 35 as I am also after experience. I had to select one, so just write if you feel this is what you are looking for.