About

I used to regard myself as a 100% heterosexual male, exclusively attracted to women, but have increasingly developed an obsession with femininity and effeminacy in others and come to regard them both as manifestations on a continuous spectrum which transcends gender. Consequently, I can be attracted to a person whether they are transsexual (m to f - but they must be a bottom who is attracted to men), crossdressers or transvestites (gay or bi bottoms), or even smoothe, skinny twinks (bottoms). Now I regard myself as more heteroflexible and it feels so liberating to escape from the narrower confines of the all pervasive heteronormative narrative many are expected to conform to or with.

If I had to be analytical about my preferences, my attraction towards femininity and effeminacy in others, it seems to accentuate the sense of masculinity within myself. It not only intensifies the lust and animal passion within me towards the objects of my desire, it also makes me protective of those I'm attracted to too. Their vulnerability becomes my source of strength and makes me a better, more compassionate man/human being (if that makes any sense). Don't get me wrong, I adore women (always have done, always will do), but I seem to lust even more after those whose feminine qualities are found in a slightly less 'conventional package', so to speak (thankfully, the lines between 'unconventional' and 'conventional' seem to be increasingly blurred these days - amen to that!).

Another obsession - as most of my video preferences indicate - is anal sex. I really enjoy eating arse (analingus), and giving anal sex to women or being an exclusive top to all bottoms. I could get all Freudian about this obsession and write a whole dissertation about the whens, hows and whys regarding my anal 'addiction', but don't feel that this is the place to be writing about it. I simply enjoy it. Period. If you have a moral objection or issue with that, then perhaps I'm not the man for you. Besides, there are far more important issues to be getting all uppity about in this world than peoples sexual peccadilloes. And if you're a woman or bottom who enjoys this particular sexual activity, don't be shy, hit me up. ;)

In terms of physical preferences, I have very catholic tastes. Young/old, black/white, I don't care. As long as you are of legal age and a fully consenting adult, I really do not care about trivial superficialities. I care more about the person behind the facade and believe you should never judge a book by it's cover (I gravitate towards decent, respectful people - the beauty on the inside is the quality that can't be faked by applying some lipstick or mascara anyway). The only restriction I have, is: I'm not into men. Period (let me throw in a few emphatic exclamation marks here, for added insistence)!!!!! (there you go, that ought to do it). So any burly, muscular, hairy types (gay jocks, bears etc), I'm really not into that kind of thing. Not my cup of tea at all (I'm more of a coffee person anyway). To sum up, I'm a rooster looking for hens, not a rooster looking for a cock (double entendre intended)!

Apologies for writing an epic. For those of you who have managed to read this far, congratulations, you've almost made it to the end. For those of you at the back of the class snoring, there could be a pop quiz (you have been warned!).

If any of you have any questions, just ask.

My results from http://bdsmtest.org/

== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
99% Brat tamer
82% Vanilla
81% Degrader
76% Voyeur
68% Non-monogamist
66% Primal (Hunter)
58% Experimentalist
48% Owner
46% Master/Mistress
46% Rigger

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