Response to a douche and new friend reticence.

Allow me to share something with the group.
Which may be of interest to potential friends.

Up until the start of the year, I had a friend on here. We chatted, role played, wrote intimate stories.
I poured my heart into what I wrote, exploring fantasies and even memories. Some very intimate and some painful ones too. I shared deeply personal sexual activities.

Then I caught him in a lie.
A straight up bare faced lie. I called him out on the lie.
He refused to admit it despite all the evidence.
He tried love bombing and gaslighting me.

So, like so many other women have done before me, I gave him another chance.
Then he lied again.
On reflection, he seemed to get off on me doing his thinking for him. He claimed to only have access to this site via a mobile phone; no laptop, no PC, no tablet. He claimed things like: he couldn’t cut and paste, was a real dunce with technology etc. and then sent me a dick pic with his new iPhone.

Then another lie.

The thing is, the dick pic… not the worst, actually quite impressive. He told me that he had taken it that morning.
Only I found it, with minimal effort on at least three other sites dating back two years.
So, I emailed him the screenshot picture demanding he explain himself. He claimed his email has been hacked.

Then came the begging IMs which I have not responded to; demanding that if I contact him, he will explain all.

Fat chance.



Am I being unreasonable?
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AngelababysDaddy
That is one of the problems with Xhamster and the internet in general. People pretend to be something that they are not, I really dont know why, maybe they are just dissapointed with who they are in real life, and instead of doing something about that they go onto the internet and pretend. I had an interaction with a woman on here who pretended for a long time to be in her teens, but some of the stuff that she knew, particularly lyrics to old songs made me suspect that she was much older, eventually she admitted to being in her 50s which would not have been a problem for me because I really enjoyed corresponding with her. But by virtue of the fact that she had lied I stopped corresponding with her.
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Fuck him off.
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ArousalPlace
la Smokenylons : yes it is; Ive had several similar things..men posing as women isn't uncommon. Wives who "love to swing"..but.. I can only chat with the man and there's no evidence  of a wife even existing. ...the vast vast majority on here are exploring fantasies, and most are deathly afraid of being identified, so most times it starts out with dishonesty, and eventually either burns out or gets busted. :frowning:  At least that's my experience from years on here.
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Smokenylons
la ArousalPlace : Thank you for the response. It wasn't so much the picture. It was that it was a lie on top of a lie on top of another bare faced lie. The 'expectation' I was going for was honesty; I thought I'd established that with him. If your telling me that I'm being naive to believe anything or everything I am told or read here, you're probably right but it is a sad state of affairs, isn't it? 
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ArousalPlace
If youre offended and  surprised that a male sent a fake dick pic, Id say "you cant be disappointed if you dont create expectations".  80- 90-95% of people on a porn site like this are fantasizing; living what they wish, not living what they really are. Expecting virtue is probably going to lead to disappointment.
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