How to rim and lick assholes properly

Guys, this is mostly for you.

DO NOT try pushing your tongue in/up her ass as hard as you can. That feels just as bad as suddenly trying to push something up your ass with no lube or warning. You have to gently and slowly lick around the sphincter. It is an interesting texture on the tongue. Then start concentrating on licking the middle, but to try pushing in yet.. Use the tip of your tongue to feel the crinkly creases. And keep it light, it is super sensitive. If she is attentive she will relax her hole and your tongue with start slipping in with.little effort.

If she doesn't catch on start very slowly licking it from top to bottom. Gently start to push in with the tip of your tongue, gradually pressing harder as you reach the center of her ass. With any luck the tip of your tongue with just barely slip in down into the main crevice opening.And once there continue to lick upward ever so slightly tug on the edge of the clenched crevice with MINIMAL pressure. Do the same when lick downward. If that doesn't give her the hint, lightly use the tip of your tongue to find the middle of her ass opening..Keep the tip of your tongue as pointed and rigid as possible and slowly begin to press it into her hole extremely light and slow for about two seconds at a time.

Gradually increasing the max pressure.Your tongue with slowly loosen her hole and make its way inside. When your tongue can easily slip in about 5mm each time you press, switch to licking from top to bottom again, but when you get to the center move your tongue in and back out with a spooning like motion. Like you are trying to gently lick something out of it. From this point her ass with totally relax and you can start to slowly ramp up until you are eating her ass the way you wish. Just make sure she is still enjoying it.