I receive a lot of messages and friend requests every day.. So, Better i make everything clear. So that before messaging and sending friend request, you can get a clear view.
1. Why i don't accept people?
If you don't have contents specially lezdom or femdom (though i am more into lezdom) then i will not accept. Now a days nothing is free.
2. What is lezdom?
lezdom is lesbian domination. I have received a lot of messages regarding this.. It's completely female-female. FEMDOM IS NOT ANYWAY RELATED TO LEZDOM. But yes, i do like some specific femdom clips.
3. Sometimes, you have some lezdom clips, But i didn't accept your request. Why?
Also faced this question minimum 50+ times. seriously, If i get that video available in every fucking site, then why should i accept you to see that video?
4. Why i post maximum videos privately?
My life, my choice. And secondly, for DMCA.
5. Do i take requests to upload video as your choice?
No, I don't take. 
6. Why don't i upload video regular basis?
Because i have a life outside pornhub. 
Now I have answered almost each and every questions i have faced..
another thing i must say, don't beg to me to get accepted. I hate this kinda behavior. Upload some vids, I will accept. begging will not work. AND STOP SENDING ME REQUESTS CONTINUOUSLY WITHOUT UPLOADING ANY VIDEO... I will mark you spam. 
Thank you. Have a great day.