In Praise of Sissies
To the sissies, all the femboys and fags; to all the shemales, ladyboys and traps:
Why do you seek punishment?
Time and again, I have met a wonderful, admirable person like you. I spend some time admiring your images and I reach out to you. I ask what you desire in a lover, and I get the reply: “I want to be abused.”
I ask you all: why would I hurt you? I think you’re lovely, and beauty is something to be protected. Why would I mock you - you, who dare to take a stand (even if only in your own home) against society’s small-minded hegemony? The fact that you choose to act and dress like a woman - to be a woman - doesn’t make me consider you a sissy; it makes me admire your bravery!
Do I think you’re a whore, simply because you’re eager to be fucked? Do I revile you for loving sex? Of course not! That’s why we’re all here at xHamster, and I am glad of your enthusiasm. Desire for sex is natural, and hunger for it is one way we know we’re alive.
Consider this: making oneself pretty is a skill that girls spend years perfecting. If you need an example, just look at a young teenager, in her overdone foundation and clownish lipstick. Nobody taught you that skill; you had to seek it out and learn it in secret. That makes your beauty doubly amazing, because it’s self-defined. There were no mother-figures, no helpful adults; there was only your dedication and vision, and a daunting array of cosmetics. When you make yourself up for me, or for the camera, you’re making a work of art out of your own features - even if you wash it off an hour later. Should I chastise you for that? Never!
Perhaps you dream of being with a man - of kneeling before a ready cock, or feeling the weight of a strong lover against your back. Perhaps you feel your own body stir at the mere mention of it; perhaps you think it makes you a slut. Shall I call you such? Should I insult your desires as dirty, filthy, weak? Should I say these things, even as I dream of my own body pushing against yours? Hypocrisy. I will praise you for your needs, and thank you for our time together.
You’re different, and many people fear the things to which they are unaccustomed. In my estimation, though, being different makes you interesting, and I would love to get to know you as a person. You’re clearly creative, and you think outside the box. Why would I put you in a cage?
Give me your opinions, your insight, the wonders and the fears of your human mind. I will give you the same. I will lead if you wish; I will be the strong one and tell you how to act - but I will not malign you for being who you are, because “who you are” is someone that I like.
If you want someone who genuinely despises you, who thinks of you as nothing more than a faggot cocksleeve and wants to spend each moment reminding you of that - then I suppose it’s best to look elsewhere. I want to wish you luck in that search; but, really, I think you deserve better.
Stay beautiful.
Why do you seek punishment?
Time and again, I have met a wonderful, admirable person like you. I spend some time admiring your images and I reach out to you. I ask what you desire in a lover, and I get the reply: “I want to be abused.”
I ask you all: why would I hurt you? I think you’re lovely, and beauty is something to be protected. Why would I mock you - you, who dare to take a stand (even if only in your own home) against society’s small-minded hegemony? The fact that you choose to act and dress like a woman - to be a woman - doesn’t make me consider you a sissy; it makes me admire your bravery!
Do I think you’re a whore, simply because you’re eager to be fucked? Do I revile you for loving sex? Of course not! That’s why we’re all here at xHamster, and I am glad of your enthusiasm. Desire for sex is natural, and hunger for it is one way we know we’re alive.
Consider this: making oneself pretty is a skill that girls spend years perfecting. If you need an example, just look at a young teenager, in her overdone foundation and clownish lipstick. Nobody taught you that skill; you had to seek it out and learn it in secret. That makes your beauty doubly amazing, because it’s self-defined. There were no mother-figures, no helpful adults; there was only your dedication and vision, and a daunting array of cosmetics. When you make yourself up for me, or for the camera, you’re making a work of art out of your own features - even if you wash it off an hour later. Should I chastise you for that? Never!
Perhaps you dream of being with a man - of kneeling before a ready cock, or feeling the weight of a strong lover against your back. Perhaps you feel your own body stir at the mere mention of it; perhaps you think it makes you a slut. Shall I call you such? Should I insult your desires as dirty, filthy, weak? Should I say these things, even as I dream of my own body pushing against yours? Hypocrisy. I will praise you for your needs, and thank you for our time together.
You’re different, and many people fear the things to which they are unaccustomed. In my estimation, though, being different makes you interesting, and I would love to get to know you as a person. You’re clearly creative, and you think outside the box. Why would I put you in a cage?
Give me your opinions, your insight, the wonders and the fears of your human mind. I will give you the same. I will lead if you wish; I will be the strong one and tell you how to act - but I will not malign you for being who you are, because “who you are” is someone that I like.
If you want someone who genuinely despises you, who thinks of you as nothing more than a faggot cocksleeve and wants to spend each moment reminding you of that - then I suppose it’s best to look elsewhere. I want to wish you luck in that search; but, really, I think you deserve better.
Stay beautiful.
8 jaar geleden
I suppose the article I wrote above might come off as a little preachy, if read from a certain perspective. However, it was meant as more of a question for consideration than a sermon. More than that, though, it was mostly meant as a statement of where I stand. The way I see it, communication is key, and I wrote this as an easy way of stating my opinions to those who might be interested.
There seems to be a huge movement lately that equates submissiveness with self-abuse. Personally, I don't think that'll lead to anything good - particularly when there's such potential for openness and gender-freedom looming. As such, I decided to "speak out" a bit - but it's a decision everyone needs to make for themselves. Funny enough, I'm all for D/S relationships (indeed, I think a lot more relationships are D/S than even their participants realize); I don't even mind S&M in play. It's just the notion of defining one's identity around a self-harming stereotype.
That said, I wish everyone reading my stuff a good time!