Guide to Friendly Feminization
Sissifying a beta male is not about making him feel sexually attracted to you - most beta males don't feel attracted to men in this way at all. When a sissy allows a man to fuck him, it is not out of sexual attraction, but obedience. For the sissy, it is about giving up control to a superior man. To acquire control, you must gradually make him feel small, weak, and emasculated in contrast to you. At the same time, you must appear large, strong, calm, caring, and confident.
eventually you will use this contrast to gain complete control over him.
1. subtle mental prompts
If you can make the beta male feel like he is vulnerable and delicate (i.e. feminine), he will naturally fall in line and follow a strong masculine leader.
this should be your first goal: to show the beta that he is weak and vulnerable on his own; lacking in strength and manliness - a boy among men. small and cute, and nothing more.
simultaneously you must demonstrate that you are not only strong and masculine, but willing and able to help this beta male by keeping him safe and comfortable in return for his obedience.
That may all sound very intense and complicated, but there very simple cues you can exploit in order to get the desired result:
if you are physically bigger than him, stand close to him and tower over him as often as possible, especially when speaking. Make the size difference impossible to ignore. make sure that he must always look up in order to make eye contact with you. encourage him to sit down whenever possible, so his line of sight is even lower.
use affectionate but condescending body language (e.g. caress his head like a puppy. give him a pat on the butt whenever possible. when next to him, casually put your arm around his shoulders like you would if you were on a date with a girl. horse around - give him a playful shove, pick him up off the ground just for fun. If you want to lead him somewhere, take him by the arm and pull him along.) These small gestures build up over time, and quickly form an unspoken power dynamic.
if possible, give him small tasks to do for you e.g. fetch me a drink, hang up my coat, etc. whenever he completes a task, praise him so he associates serving you with validation.
give him only feminine compliments: cute, pretty, slender, petite, nice body, nice butt, big lips, pretty eyes, etc.
don't seek his approval or validation. You must be totally self-assured so that he can have zero impact on your social value. your confidence will also make him more likely to see you as a leader.
2. emasculation
demonstrate that he is physically weaker than you
arm wrestle, play-fight, lift-and-carry, etc.
if possible, demonstrate that his genitalia are small, and point out the femininity of his body. do your best to make him feel physically inadequate to ever be an alpha.
if possible, get him naked and confis**te his clothes. he will feel very vulnerable and insecure, and will be much less likely to argue with you. Also, having him naked while you are still clothed creates a very obvious power difference which he will internalize. you want him to get comfortable with you having more power than him.
you must do all this while still appearing as a benevolent, friendly presence. this is the fine balancing act.
you can pass any belittling off as friendly ribbing, or as helpful truth-telling.
the more you succeed in reducing his self esteem as a male, the more you must also reaffirm that he is safe and valued because you are there to look after him.
its important that while you wittle down his sense of power and autonomy, you replace it with a sense that he is valued for his cuteness, loyalty, and obedience.
Emphasize that he is physically attractive, not as a man, but as a femboi/trap/sissy.
reassure him that while he may not be desired by most women, he is very desirable to dominant men.
if you do all this successfully, he will start to associate safety and comfort with being submissive to you.
3. control
this is arguably the most crucial phase: making the transition from "insecure beta male" to "powerless subdued plaything"
the most important task in gaining control is to get him in chastity. Here are some general tips:
The work performed in phases 1 and 2 should have him feeling detached from his masculinity, confused, and eager to find a stable social identity (i.e. he should be insecure and highly suggestible)
At the same time, you will hopefully have positioned yourself as not only someone he can fully trust, but someone who knows whats best for him - Someone he will listen to.
There are two things that are very emotionally difficult for a beta boy in denial:
feeling comfortable enough to reveal his fem/sub side to another man
being humble enough to take orders from another man, especially a friend or peer.
In order to override these two mental blocks, you may need to be both:
friendly {fun/accepting/encouraging}
AS WELL AS strong {assertive/direct/commanding}.
Base your approach on how your sissy reacts; if he obeys without hesitation but looks unhappy, you may need to try more positive encouragement. If he argues or resists often, you need to use more authority.
Here are some different practical strategies to break the ice with chastity.
Tell him that since he won't be doing any fucking today, his penis is a just a pointless distraction. Locking it up will help clear his mind.
play a game or contest, and set a wager that the loser must get locked up. make it something that you know you will win such as wrestling or dick-measuring.
Tell him that women want smaller penises to be locked in chastity. He must be locked up as a sign of respect for women.
Tell him if he puts it on, you will help him dress up as a pretty girl.
Tell him that butt-play feels better than penile stimulation, but it only works if you're locked up.
Show him sissy pics that you have of him, and promise not to show anyone as long as he submits.
Ask him to lock himself up as proof that he fully trusts you.
put him in a full-nelson or pin him down and say you will release him if he submits to chastity.
Show him the device and suggest that he tries it on to see how it feels.
Tell him to put it on or he gets a spanking.
Tell him that if he wants your companionship and protection, he must be locked up.
Explain to him that as a beta male, it is his place to obey alphas. society depends on his submitting to you.
Point out that unless he is trying to fuck you, he doesn't need his dick for anything today.
get him to confess to doing something perverted in the past. Then say that he needs to be locked up as punishment.
Tell him that you have a strict personal policy of keeping your beta male locked up.
Tell him that you know its what he wants deep down.
Tell him that chastity will help him feel less pressure to act alpha so he can be himself.
Tell him it will look cute on him.
Of course you may need to use some combination of the above methods, or invent your own. What matters is that his little beta cock gets locked up, and you hold the key.
Assure him that as long as he is a good sub, he will be unlocked when the time is right. This should be enough to ensure he follows your every command from now on.
4. Feminization
By now, he should be locked in chastity.
If you can also persuade him to wear a butt plug, that's a bonus.
If you haven't already stripped him naked and confis**ted his boy clothes, do so now.
if he asks why you're taking his clothes, say that beta sissies like him don't look good in guy clothes.
Lay out the collection of girl clothes and tell him that these are the only clothes he's allowed to wear today.
getting him dressed should be a combination of his preferences and yours.
let him start by choosing a top and any accessories he wants to wear (e.g. stockings, socks, etc.)
For panties, have fun with it. make him try on and model several pairs for you. Give him feedback, let him know exactly what you think of how each pair fits him. Do a fashion show: make him walk, crawl, and pose. taunt and tease him, compliment him, objectify him.
Eventually choose the one or two pairs that you like best on him, and make him wear them for the rest of the day.
At this point you can do makeup:
you can do it for him, or make him do it himself if he's comfortable.
Give him incentive to do a good job e.g. "the prettier you look, the better I'll treat you"
inspect his work when he's done and give him positive feedback. He will likely be feeling self-conscious. make him feel cute and pretty.
you can add a wig and/or skirt/shorts if you like.
By now he should be fully dolled up. make him model his new look, not only for you, but for himself in the mirror. He needs to internalize his ultra-feminine appearance so that he can fully identify with his sissy-self.
Its also very good if there is a mirror where he can see himself standing next to you. Let him really see the difference between alpha male and sissy gurl.
Have fun bossing him around a bit - make him pose, crawl around, dance, grind on your dick. this will be as fun for him as it is for you.
Once he is used to his girly new look, you can do other fun activities such as a photoshoot, or even a short walk outside if you feel he looks passable. If you do decide to go for a walk, make sure he holds your hand the whole time so he can't wander off (and so its clear who's property he is). This will make him feel safer as well.
eventually you will use this contrast to gain complete control over him.
1. subtle mental prompts
If you can make the beta male feel like he is vulnerable and delicate (i.e. feminine), he will naturally fall in line and follow a strong masculine leader.
this should be your first goal: to show the beta that he is weak and vulnerable on his own; lacking in strength and manliness - a boy among men. small and cute, and nothing more.
simultaneously you must demonstrate that you are not only strong and masculine, but willing and able to help this beta male by keeping him safe and comfortable in return for his obedience.
That may all sound very intense and complicated, but there very simple cues you can exploit in order to get the desired result:
if you are physically bigger than him, stand close to him and tower over him as often as possible, especially when speaking. Make the size difference impossible to ignore. make sure that he must always look up in order to make eye contact with you. encourage him to sit down whenever possible, so his line of sight is even lower.
use affectionate but condescending body language (e.g. caress his head like a puppy. give him a pat on the butt whenever possible. when next to him, casually put your arm around his shoulders like you would if you were on a date with a girl. horse around - give him a playful shove, pick him up off the ground just for fun. If you want to lead him somewhere, take him by the arm and pull him along.) These small gestures build up over time, and quickly form an unspoken power dynamic.
if possible, give him small tasks to do for you e.g. fetch me a drink, hang up my coat, etc. whenever he completes a task, praise him so he associates serving you with validation.
give him only feminine compliments: cute, pretty, slender, petite, nice body, nice butt, big lips, pretty eyes, etc.
don't seek his approval or validation. You must be totally self-assured so that he can have zero impact on your social value. your confidence will also make him more likely to see you as a leader.
2. emasculation
demonstrate that he is physically weaker than you
arm wrestle, play-fight, lift-and-carry, etc.
if possible, demonstrate that his genitalia are small, and point out the femininity of his body. do your best to make him feel physically inadequate to ever be an alpha.
if possible, get him naked and confis**te his clothes. he will feel very vulnerable and insecure, and will be much less likely to argue with you. Also, having him naked while you are still clothed creates a very obvious power difference which he will internalize. you want him to get comfortable with you having more power than him.
you must do all this while still appearing as a benevolent, friendly presence. this is the fine balancing act.
you can pass any belittling off as friendly ribbing, or as helpful truth-telling.
the more you succeed in reducing his self esteem as a male, the more you must also reaffirm that he is safe and valued because you are there to look after him.
its important that while you wittle down his sense of power and autonomy, you replace it with a sense that he is valued for his cuteness, loyalty, and obedience.
Emphasize that he is physically attractive, not as a man, but as a femboi/trap/sissy.
reassure him that while he may not be desired by most women, he is very desirable to dominant men.
if you do all this successfully, he will start to associate safety and comfort with being submissive to you.
3. control
this is arguably the most crucial phase: making the transition from "insecure beta male" to "powerless subdued plaything"
the most important task in gaining control is to get him in chastity. Here are some general tips:
The work performed in phases 1 and 2 should have him feeling detached from his masculinity, confused, and eager to find a stable social identity (i.e. he should be insecure and highly suggestible)
At the same time, you will hopefully have positioned yourself as not only someone he can fully trust, but someone who knows whats best for him - Someone he will listen to.
There are two things that are very emotionally difficult for a beta boy in denial:
feeling comfortable enough to reveal his fem/sub side to another man
being humble enough to take orders from another man, especially a friend or peer.
In order to override these two mental blocks, you may need to be both:
friendly {fun/accepting/encouraging}
AS WELL AS strong {assertive/direct/commanding}.
Base your approach on how your sissy reacts; if he obeys without hesitation but looks unhappy, you may need to try more positive encouragement. If he argues or resists often, you need to use more authority.
Here are some different practical strategies to break the ice with chastity.
Tell him that since he won't be doing any fucking today, his penis is a just a pointless distraction. Locking it up will help clear his mind.
play a game or contest, and set a wager that the loser must get locked up. make it something that you know you will win such as wrestling or dick-measuring.
Tell him that women want smaller penises to be locked in chastity. He must be locked up as a sign of respect for women.
Tell him if he puts it on, you will help him dress up as a pretty girl.
Tell him that butt-play feels better than penile stimulation, but it only works if you're locked up.
Show him sissy pics that you have of him, and promise not to show anyone as long as he submits.
Ask him to lock himself up as proof that he fully trusts you.
put him in a full-nelson or pin him down and say you will release him if he submits to chastity.
Show him the device and suggest that he tries it on to see how it feels.
Tell him to put it on or he gets a spanking.
Tell him that if he wants your companionship and protection, he must be locked up.
Explain to him that as a beta male, it is his place to obey alphas. society depends on his submitting to you.
Point out that unless he is trying to fuck you, he doesn't need his dick for anything today.
get him to confess to doing something perverted in the past. Then say that he needs to be locked up as punishment.
Tell him that you have a strict personal policy of keeping your beta male locked up.
Tell him that you know its what he wants deep down.
Tell him that chastity will help him feel less pressure to act alpha so he can be himself.
Tell him it will look cute on him.
Of course you may need to use some combination of the above methods, or invent your own. What matters is that his little beta cock gets locked up, and you hold the key.
Assure him that as long as he is a good sub, he will be unlocked when the time is right. This should be enough to ensure he follows your every command from now on.
4. Feminization
By now, he should be locked in chastity.
If you can also persuade him to wear a butt plug, that's a bonus.
If you haven't already stripped him naked and confis**ted his boy clothes, do so now.
if he asks why you're taking his clothes, say that beta sissies like him don't look good in guy clothes.
Lay out the collection of girl clothes and tell him that these are the only clothes he's allowed to wear today.
getting him dressed should be a combination of his preferences and yours.
let him start by choosing a top and any accessories he wants to wear (e.g. stockings, socks, etc.)
For panties, have fun with it. make him try on and model several pairs for you. Give him feedback, let him know exactly what you think of how each pair fits him. Do a fashion show: make him walk, crawl, and pose. taunt and tease him, compliment him, objectify him.
Eventually choose the one or two pairs that you like best on him, and make him wear them for the rest of the day.
At this point you can do makeup:
you can do it for him, or make him do it himself if he's comfortable.
Give him incentive to do a good job e.g. "the prettier you look, the better I'll treat you"
inspect his work when he's done and give him positive feedback. He will likely be feeling self-conscious. make him feel cute and pretty.
you can add a wig and/or skirt/shorts if you like.
By now he should be fully dolled up. make him model his new look, not only for you, but for himself in the mirror. He needs to internalize his ultra-feminine appearance so that he can fully identify with his sissy-self.
Its also very good if there is a mirror where he can see himself standing next to you. Let him really see the difference between alpha male and sissy gurl.
Have fun bossing him around a bit - make him pose, crawl around, dance, grind on your dick. this will be as fun for him as it is for you.
Once he is used to his girly new look, you can do other fun activities such as a photoshoot, or even a short walk outside if you feel he looks passable. If you do decide to go for a walk, make sure he holds your hand the whole time so he can't wander off (and so its clear who's property he is). This will make him feel safer as well.
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