Addiction
Addiction
When feeling lonely, unwanted and or bored the addict becomes susceptible to temptation in the vain hope of reaching a utopia that will resolve their problems. Without thinking too much about exactly what they are getting into, they consider how to seek a solution to their problems after all they are harmless.
Initially just to have an interest and bit of fun sounds good, so not surprising many people embark on a journey into the unknown and unprepared. Inevitably the internet comes into play as it’s an easy option and does not require any physical effort beyond pressing a few keys.
The journey varies in attraction and covers a variety of routes, smoking, drink, sex, etc and on the route you meet what you trust to be likeminded people. Unawares, the tendency is to take everything at face value as this helps to justify your decisions. Over a short period of time you are encouraged to go even further down the road, still searching for the Holy Grail. Everything in the garden is sweet and nobody is harmed so what’s the problem. After all everything is fine in moderation, you convince yourself, so no matter what time of day or night your enjoy your new found pleasure.
Within a short period they are slightly obsessed with the attentions and adrenalin rush the new found excitement brings, common sense is clouded as the perceived benefits outweigh everything else The first set back is dismissed as one of those things, so the journey continues.
The number of contacts expands and the feeling of self worth increases with every new adventure, the world is wonderful, without realising it everything else is pushed to the background, no matter what it is or who is involved, the fix comes first One day the world collapsed and realisation sinks in, and that dreams cannot be fulfilled, however the addiction has taken hold and being helpless to stop or even reduce. Now caught hook line and sinker, and cannot get off the carousel, and soon , 24 hours a day are consumed by the dependency, and family work and friends take second place as the need for satisfaction is the ultimate aim for the day. Over time, priorities start to change and slowly getting more isolated, except for your addictive friends, the risk losing everything looms.
Warning, advice well intended, often rejected until its far to late to turn back to reality.
When feeling lonely, unwanted and or bored the addict becomes susceptible to temptation in the vain hope of reaching a utopia that will resolve their problems. Without thinking too much about exactly what they are getting into, they consider how to seek a solution to their problems after all they are harmless.
Initially just to have an interest and bit of fun sounds good, so not surprising many people embark on a journey into the unknown and unprepared. Inevitably the internet comes into play as it’s an easy option and does not require any physical effort beyond pressing a few keys.
The journey varies in attraction and covers a variety of routes, smoking, drink, sex, etc and on the route you meet what you trust to be likeminded people. Unawares, the tendency is to take everything at face value as this helps to justify your decisions. Over a short period of time you are encouraged to go even further down the road, still searching for the Holy Grail. Everything in the garden is sweet and nobody is harmed so what’s the problem. After all everything is fine in moderation, you convince yourself, so no matter what time of day or night your enjoy your new found pleasure.
Within a short period they are slightly obsessed with the attentions and adrenalin rush the new found excitement brings, common sense is clouded as the perceived benefits outweigh everything else The first set back is dismissed as one of those things, so the journey continues.
The number of contacts expands and the feeling of self worth increases with every new adventure, the world is wonderful, without realising it everything else is pushed to the background, no matter what it is or who is involved, the fix comes first One day the world collapsed and realisation sinks in, and that dreams cannot be fulfilled, however the addiction has taken hold and being helpless to stop or even reduce. Now caught hook line and sinker, and cannot get off the carousel, and soon , 24 hours a day are consumed by the dependency, and family work and friends take second place as the need for satisfaction is the ultimate aim for the day. Over time, priorities start to change and slowly getting more isolated, except for your addictive friends, the risk losing everything looms.
Warning, advice well intended, often rejected until its far to late to turn back to reality.
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