Stage one: You can distinctly recall being told "Don't put your hands on your hips like that when you stand" and "you walk like a girl". You were naturally a little femme, and had to make an effort not to show people who you really are. You tried to fit in, but got beat up a lot. As a teen you had thoughts and desires about being pretty. The "hot" or popular girls paid no attention to you whatever. Your only real friends were other boys who didn't fit in and some of the girls who were deemed to be "less attractive" but they would never consider you as anything other than a dear sweet fri… 더 읽기
