The bisexual's guide to sucking a cock the fi

Whether you're a man or a woman, whether you suck cock or have had your cock sucked, you have opinions and experiences on the best way to have it done, and the things you would like a first timer to know.

Please share!

I've been fantasizing about teaching a hot young guy to suck for the first time, and decided to share my pointers. What are yours?

--Just get it in his mouth!
As with any unusual sex activity a lot of people chicken out at the last minute! Whatever the seduction method, fooling around, body massage, whatever, it's important to have him touch your cock, and get it on his mouth as soon as possible. have him touch it, then take it away. You don't want to overwhelm him. Guys do this to girls all the time. As soon as they get her to taste it, they try to skull-fuck her and it's too much too soon. Get it in there, and out, so they feel the pleasure but don't feel out of control.

--Reassure him it won't make him gay.
People should have a little experiences with both sexes. It's only fucking. Two straight men can jerk each other off, suck, fuck, whatever & never have to do it again if they don't want to. Women do it far more often. I think men are afraid if they give into their homo-curiosity, it'll affect thier ability to attract women, while women attract MORE men when they've tasted the homo-apple. It's no big thing.

at the same time, I do tell guys that while it won't make them gay, it will change them, and they will be more open to homo-sex, even if they don't do it again. That's true.

--If you're the experienced man, keep him on the edge.
Sexual frustration is what gets people to push thier limits, men or women. So use foreplay. Play with his penis, get him to feel the pleasure so he can't stop even if he wants to, but DO stop before he comes. feed him your penis, stop, suck him again without coming...etc. You should get him close to ejaculating several times in half an hour to an hour without letting him ejaculate. The pressure for sexual release will help him surrender and have a good expereince.

--You come first.
After getting him close to orgasm several times over, close to an hour, he should be screamingly horny. He should also have been sucking your cock several times, so they he's used to it and enjoying it (cocksucking seems to come naturally to everyone if they aren't scared off by over-aggressive guys). Tell him this time you're going to come, and that you'll signal him before you do so he can prepare. I think it's important for a young man to swallow the sperm, but that's up to you guys, just decide in advance, and follow that. When i'm a few minutes away from coming, I'll tell hm it's time and to begin to suck and swallow, and have him continue that way. He'll be swallowing a lot of his own saliva and when I begin to spurt in his mouth, the sperm usually slides down easily without choking. Even while I'm coming, and I cum pretty hard, I Keep verbally coaxing him to keep sucking and swallowing until I'm empty.

Most guys will feel a need to run as soon as they've had thier first male-on-male orgasm, so it's important that his orgasm comes last, and he experience everything before his release.

--Make him come hard!
After you've shown him all there is to sucking a guy off and eating the cum, now you can reward him. Take some time and give him a lot of pleasure, When he is at the edge of cumming, slow down until he begins to cum then speed up. Pump him hard during the entire orgasm and try to keep him ejaculating until he's fully spent adn dry.

--Slow down, but don't stop after he comes.
After he's pumped his last, slow down adn gently continue to stroke for a minute or two after. it'll keep his cock hard and keep him relaxed and unwound afterward. Some guys can be coaxed to a second orgasm, but don't try to force it.

There you go, my suggestions.