Stimulation & Fulfillment

These concepts are key to thriving. This goes beyond sexuality, into what we consume, read, watch, and learn. But when it comes to sensuality, providing and receiving, there's something spiritual about the whole experience. Straight friction grants a moment's excitement. Passion, taking one's time, the connection between two people, takes it to another level. One that matters far more than a quick grab and tug.

One can find fulfillment in many things. Whether it's providing pleasure to a lover, taking a task they don't appreciate, or learning their desires so they can be met, selflessness can be fulfilling. Even if you aren't the one receiving the same treatment. Indeed, in some cases, you might find it far more exciting to feel the tension of another as they release than doing it yourself. That sort of submission can be thrilling.

What we do with ourselves, how we stimulate, how we fulfill, can mean the difference from just another orgasm to something profound which can be remembered for months if not years. That one time your lover took their time teasing, touching just the right way, and drawing out every ounce of pleasure before escalating to heavier intimacy...that's the connection we should be searching for. While it may not be practical all the time, and there's nothing wrong with a quickie, sometimes taking our time is exactly what is needed to become more than casual connections.