Help- Sex (and Dating) Advice

For as crazy and weird 2020 has been, I have made some serious strides this year. I was able to pay off my student loans and have lost 30+ pounds. I’m also saving up money to get a place of my own (no more roommates!). It does feel “off” to mention the good things that have happened to me given how people have had a much worse year than I have. That said, the one area of my life I was hoping to make progress in was my dating and sex life. Even before COVID, I was looking forward to 2020 being a big year for me in that regard. I do not have a ton of experience with either and I was excited to… 続きを読む

投稿者 metalfan777 3年前 5

Taking a Break

Recent events have caused me to question who I am and what I want in life. I think it is best for me to take a break from xHamster and work on my goal of improving myself physically, mentally, and spiritually. I would like to cut back on the amount of porn I watch and hopefully come back a better man. I am going to take it one week at a time and I hope to see you all again. I am not going to "retire" my account; I am just going to take a "Leave of Absence". Chat with everyone later!… 続きを読む

投稿者 metalfan777 9年前 3

Just a rant on trying to date

So I don't have much luck when it comes to dating women. I've been trying a dating site and I saw a profile I liked and at the bottom she wrote something along the lines of "Feel free to message me if you want to meet up for drinks". So I message her and say I'd be interested in getting drinks. She replied back that "I don't usually people on here." WHAT THE FUCK! Don't type it and then backtrack when someone asks you about it! I hate being single and want to find someone to love and spend my time with but it's shit like that that pisses me off.… 続きを読む

投稿者 metalfan777 9年前 4

Questioning What I've Known

I've always considered myself straight, but over the past year or so, I've been thinking more and more that I might be bisexual. I've never been with a guy before but I've been thinking about what it would be like more and more. I had an opportunity a few months ago to hook up with a guy, but I couldn't bring myself to do it. I think I could still hook up with the guy, but honestly, I'm nervous. So I guess my question is: should I give it a try? How do other people get over their fears or nervousness?… 続きを読む

投稿者 metalfan777 10年前 27