Chi siamo

Hello xhamster people out there!

I am NOT into manly men seeking trans or CDs. Please don't contact me as I am not interested. I wish you all the best in your pursuits.

Gurls, CDs, trans and the Women who love them please do reach out - Thank you!

Long ago in the era known as the 80s in southern California one had to make clandestine trips late at night to adult bookstores or of all places the rows of news racks outside the post office. All this to get a copy of Hollywood Press or some other such shadowy smutty newspaper. In the back you might find an ad or two for Mistress/BDSM services. A lovely place know as The Chateau or Lady Laura's in LA hinted at what I thought I wanted. So, there it began. A trip to visit LA turned into an interview/orientation as to the services offered by one such establishment. (The Mistress was Dinah Cancer singer for 45 Grave, I had no clue) A few weeks later I started to learn about kink, fetishes and the power of this creative form of sexuality. I was forever in a state of desire. Life happens and periodically I would get a taste of thigh high boots, a Mistress sheathed in latex, the threat of anal intrusion if I wasn't a good slave and so on. Essentially, I visited a Pro Dom as often I as could. This meant one session every couple of months. I purchased things that I hoped, girl friends would find as interesting as I did. Since the mid 80s I have have not had enough. I was consistent for about 6 years and then it was oh so periodic. The gaps were horrendous. What has happened in between all that time. Well, thanks to the internet some compromise, loads of sites. But no real contact. I've tried other sites, but this one seems different, appropriate and positive. My wants and my needs are for a friend, a teacher/mentor, someone to perhaps play with and something happens great. I need to share and ask and question. Mostly, find someone with common interests. The sticky bit. I am extremely discreet. I am also committed becuase of responsibilities that I will see through. But, these things will not stop me from connecting. I've tried all the cleaver, compassionate and positive ways to enhance and entice my wife. No joy. I could list the remarks and responses, but that would not be good form. So, here I am it's all out there. Let's just talk. I could use, I need someone to talk with.