xhamster

Think we're all getting disillusioned with xhamster, it's such a shame what it's become.

I was checking out various porn sites when I came across xham 4yrs ago. After surfing the site for a few months I stumbled across the profile of a CD (I wish I could recall whose) which proved to be the gateway into my present life. Through that one page I discovered a multitude of others and a world I was unaware. It's led to me being introduced to other sites where CDs proliferate and venues and events where I can go out as Ginny and meet others, it's changed my life in a way I could never have envisaged 4yrs ago. After years of being a carer I felt lost when my wife entered the care home and I'm indebted to xhamster for giving me a new start and purpose in life, I'd go so far as to say I rediscovered my self which I'd lost nearly 20yrs previous.

I set up my own page and shared videos and was thrilled at the reaction I received which gave me confidence in who I am. I found a real community and made friends around the World, and this now appears lost.

I am aware that the New York Times did an expose of PornHub and discovered videos used without consent some of which they found contained people who were u******e, they also discovered the vetting process was virtually none existent. The result was all major credit cards vetoed the PornHub site and other similar porn sites have become very wary. xhamster have become slow to process new videos and don't have the resources to vet the pictures that people would want to upload. The algorithm they use for language is over sensitive, my friend discovered the word 'bimbo' is considered an offensive term.

Besides this external problem there is all the self inflicted problems, NewXhamster was universally detested and now we have these promo inserts before videos, so MY videos are indirectly being used to promote what I assume is pay to view streaming that I have no interest in without my consent.

I keep my 'friends' numbers low and restrict it to people I regularly communicate with and I'm finding they are increasingly closing their sites and I'm left with ill mannered strangers trolling me. The result is I will keep my page open but logging on less often. I now spend more time on tvChix and now consider it my primary site.

Ginny XXX