My interesting experience with sexy older BBW
After years of trying to find an older woman, I came to the conlusion that older women(let's say women above 50) do not need sex that much or, in other words, the sexual need is not so strong that they would actually actively look for a man.
Or maybe they just do not prefer younger men? Maybe they do not find them good enough? Or maybe they are too picky? Or they are just to busy with other things? Or need more time to surrender and are not so 'sexually straighforward' as men? But then it comes back to my conclusion: that they do not really need or miss sex because if they did, they would do something about it.
I realize there may be many reasons why older women seem not to be interested in sex or sexual relation not only with a younger man but with any man...Every woman can have their reasons. It is also possible that a woman really yearn for it, but does not know how to get it, is too shy or the social pressure is too strong...Simply put, it is not that she does not want it, but something stands in the way.
Let's get more concrete and personal and talk about me and my experience. I am 33 and single. Without sounding bumptious, I am a friendly, witty and handsome gentleman. I find older women very attractive, but this does mean I am into any older woman. The age is not the most decisive factor. The most important condition for me is that there is 'a click' and the woman I see in front of me or look at attracts me. It is true I prefer full-figured older ladies with big juicy breasts, round ass, thick thighs.. But again, this does not mean every older lady who is full-figured attracts me. Or even if she can attract me, as soon as I find out it is not a friendly, soft and nice woman( in a word a real woman/goddess), the attraction is somehow ruined and I feel disgusted and deceived in a sense....For me it is about much more than a (type of) body. It is about a connection that you cannot really create but rather discover.
I feel like I have discovered such a connection a fews times in my life, but it was not mutual or simply something stood in the way of bringing this connectiion to fruition and connecting also physically.
Let me write about my last experience with an older woman, which left me disappointed, confused and down.
During a volunteering job, I got to know an older woman who had not only nice attractive curves, but she also attracted me a lot. I knew that as a man it is my 'duty' to do something and not just wait hoping she will take the first step. I did not hesistate to take my chance to get close to her and let her know my interest in her. It was not so easy because I am a shy person and most of the time they were many other people around. But one time, and quite accidentally, I was alone with her. I realized this is my chance. I thought 'now or never'. I asked her if she wants to go for a coffee. She seemed surpised by my suggestion, but she not only agreed without any hesisation, she also immediately said she would pay for it. That time I did not know her at all, so we just talked about ordinary things. After an hour or so she wanted to go home to walk her dog. I did not suggest anything. I did not find it approapriate. She did not show any explicit and implicit sign implicating she wanted something more that time.
After the meeting, I was thinking what I could do next; how I could get closer to her. During the coffee talk, she mentioned she liked what I studied and would like to learn more about it. So I thought it would be a great idea to borrow her a book - an introduction into my study field. I did so and in the book I put a slip of paper with my email address and mobile phone. I gave her the book and she seemed happy. A week, a month, 2 months passed by, but I did not get any email nor did she call. During this time, I saw her for a short time once a week at the workplace. I asked her about the book and if she found it interesitng. She said she had been too busy with other things and she found the book difficult to read. The job ended in May and the last time I saw her, she did not bring the book back. I assumed, or rather wanted to think, she did it on purpose and waited till the job was done, so nothing and nobody stood in the way. However, when I did not hear anything from her by the end of July, I asked for her email address to get in touch with her. In my email I was very friendly and let her decide the way to return the book. She replied to my email within 4 days. Yet although she was friendly, I felt distance from her email and, moreover, she sent the email also to other two persons responsible for the practical and adminstrative things. What also surprised me, or rather shocked, was that she explicitly mentioned in the mail that she did not want me to come to her house to pick up the book. That hurt me because: 1. I did not even suggest it and 2. It made me feel like I was a predator or sexual delinquent. Although she also wrote, we could meet in a cafe to give me the book there, in her last email she explicitly said she did not want to meet me and would leave the book at the workplace. My last hope was that she would leave a message in the book. The book was nicely packed, but there was nothing inside...Maybe like her...
I am convinced she was interested in me. I could saw it from her looks and to some extent she also showed it in person and in her emails (she seemed hesitant). I feel something stood in the way and she did not manage or did not want to remove it. I do not think I could do something more or ortherwise. I was polite, friendly, clearly showed my interest. I also was not pushy and gave her time to decide.
I did not much about her. I just knew she was a widow and at the time she did not seem to have any relation. She was already 67, so maybe the age did play a role and she was not confident enough. She felt something towards me, but her rational part was stronger and finally won. Or maybe I am just looking for excuses?
Let me know in the comments your thoughts on older women in general and on the woman in my story and how you would explain her behaviour. Feel also free to share your experience with older women.
Take care and stay hungry and horny;)
Or maybe they just do not prefer younger men? Maybe they do not find them good enough? Or maybe they are too picky? Or they are just to busy with other things? Or need more time to surrender and are not so 'sexually straighforward' as men? But then it comes back to my conclusion: that they do not really need or miss sex because if they did, they would do something about it.
I realize there may be many reasons why older women seem not to be interested in sex or sexual relation not only with a younger man but with any man...Every woman can have their reasons. It is also possible that a woman really yearn for it, but does not know how to get it, is too shy or the social pressure is too strong...Simply put, it is not that she does not want it, but something stands in the way.
Let's get more concrete and personal and talk about me and my experience. I am 33 and single. Without sounding bumptious, I am a friendly, witty and handsome gentleman. I find older women very attractive, but this does mean I am into any older woman. The age is not the most decisive factor. The most important condition for me is that there is 'a click' and the woman I see in front of me or look at attracts me. It is true I prefer full-figured older ladies with big juicy breasts, round ass, thick thighs.. But again, this does not mean every older lady who is full-figured attracts me. Or even if she can attract me, as soon as I find out it is not a friendly, soft and nice woman( in a word a real woman/goddess), the attraction is somehow ruined and I feel disgusted and deceived in a sense....For me it is about much more than a (type of) body. It is about a connection that you cannot really create but rather discover.
I feel like I have discovered such a connection a fews times in my life, but it was not mutual or simply something stood in the way of bringing this connectiion to fruition and connecting also physically.
Let me write about my last experience with an older woman, which left me disappointed, confused and down.
During a volunteering job, I got to know an older woman who had not only nice attractive curves, but she also attracted me a lot. I knew that as a man it is my 'duty' to do something and not just wait hoping she will take the first step. I did not hesistate to take my chance to get close to her and let her know my interest in her. It was not so easy because I am a shy person and most of the time they were many other people around. But one time, and quite accidentally, I was alone with her. I realized this is my chance. I thought 'now or never'. I asked her if she wants to go for a coffee. She seemed surpised by my suggestion, but she not only agreed without any hesisation, she also immediately said she would pay for it. That time I did not know her at all, so we just talked about ordinary things. After an hour or so she wanted to go home to walk her dog. I did not suggest anything. I did not find it approapriate. She did not show any explicit and implicit sign implicating she wanted something more that time.
After the meeting, I was thinking what I could do next; how I could get closer to her. During the coffee talk, she mentioned she liked what I studied and would like to learn more about it. So I thought it would be a great idea to borrow her a book - an introduction into my study field. I did so and in the book I put a slip of paper with my email address and mobile phone. I gave her the book and she seemed happy. A week, a month, 2 months passed by, but I did not get any email nor did she call. During this time, I saw her for a short time once a week at the workplace. I asked her about the book and if she found it interesitng. She said she had been too busy with other things and she found the book difficult to read. The job ended in May and the last time I saw her, she did not bring the book back. I assumed, or rather wanted to think, she did it on purpose and waited till the job was done, so nothing and nobody stood in the way. However, when I did not hear anything from her by the end of July, I asked for her email address to get in touch with her. In my email I was very friendly and let her decide the way to return the book. She replied to my email within 4 days. Yet although she was friendly, I felt distance from her email and, moreover, she sent the email also to other two persons responsible for the practical and adminstrative things. What also surprised me, or rather shocked, was that she explicitly mentioned in the mail that she did not want me to come to her house to pick up the book. That hurt me because: 1. I did not even suggest it and 2. It made me feel like I was a predator or sexual delinquent. Although she also wrote, we could meet in a cafe to give me the book there, in her last email she explicitly said she did not want to meet me and would leave the book at the workplace. My last hope was that she would leave a message in the book. The book was nicely packed, but there was nothing inside...Maybe like her...
I am convinced she was interested in me. I could saw it from her looks and to some extent she also showed it in person and in her emails (she seemed hesitant). I feel something stood in the way and she did not manage or did not want to remove it. I do not think I could do something more or ortherwise. I was polite, friendly, clearly showed my interest. I also was not pushy and gave her time to decide.
I did not much about her. I just knew she was a widow and at the time she did not seem to have any relation. She was already 67, so maybe the age did play a role and she was not confident enough. She felt something towards me, but her rational part was stronger and finally won. Or maybe I am just looking for excuses?
Let me know in the comments your thoughts on older women in general and on the woman in my story and how you would explain her behaviour. Feel also free to share your experience with older women.
Take care and stay hungry and horny;)
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