Shouldn't they just disappear?

I don't get it... when you have a one night stand with someone, aren't they supposed to disappear afterwards? Like, forever?

Sometimes I feel like I'm the only person whose one-night-stands either won't go away or keep popping up after quite some time...

Do they not understand the phrase "one and done"?

And the creepy thing is, the seem to remember every aspect of our meeting. Every sound, every position... I barely remember their names. And then they are stunned... STUNNED... that I have no interest in seeing them again.

Some assume I'm just sitting around waiting for them to text and don't understand when I don't remember who they are.

Maybe it's just me, but a night in a hotel with a hot tub is not the stuff dreams are made of... why would they think it was more than what it was?
द्वारा प्रकाशित ktpinto
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति deltasquad09 : No probably about it, but they had their chance. :smile:
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deltasquad09 3 वर्षो पूर्व
Probably because you’re great in the sack ?‍♂️?
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
True, but they should enjoy it and move on to their real, mudane life. LOL!
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति mjon : There should be a bunch of opportunities...
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mjon
mjon 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति ktpinto : you'd think so ..... wouldn't  ya
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति mjon : I'm sure you can find someone for that!
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
True, if they actually showed the proper attention for the latter, but they wait a few months and then "Hi!" out of the blue...
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mjon
mjon 3 वर्षो पूर्व
love to be a one and done kinda guy ... just a memory
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति paul1248 : Nope
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paul1248 3 वर्षो पूर्व
Lets get it on
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति seanhere : My own experiences.
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seanhere 3 वर्षो पूर्व
@ktpinto  Do you speak based on a recent ONS or just in general.
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crypt99x 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति ktpinto : I see.  My mistake.  
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
I never wish for a commitment. If that's to happen, it happens naturally. Why push it?
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति Inexperience : It's the latter that I believe.
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति crypt99x : I'm not talking about having a one night stand. I'm talking about those in my past who just appear.
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति sterlingrising69 : Your profile says how long you've been friends with me on here? I'm pretty sure it doesn't.
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sterlingrising69
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प्रति ktpinto : Not new if you check out my profile. 
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Inexperience
Inexperience 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति ktpinto : Being a man Sounds like theyre either shy or they've gone through options. 
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crypt99x 3 वर्षो पूर्व
I have offered. Lol
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति sterlingrising69 : Thanks for the kind words!

You must be new here though... I tend not to take other people's viewpoints into consideration when writing posts based on my many years of experience as a single woman. They're written with the very-small hope that some men/women/other may think twice before doing something rude or dumb...
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ktpinto
ktpinto प्रकाशक 3 वर्षो पूर्व
प्रति Inexperience : That's very sweet of you to say! 
Many guys seem to believe they want a one night stand, but then months later try to hit me up again. That's a little less than casual. LOL!
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sterlingrising69
sterlingrising69 3 वर्षो पूर्व
Maybe you're just too good in the sack! I've had some awesome dreams that were a night in a hotel room with a hot tub so keep in mind that view points are relative and people generally want more of a good thing...
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Inexperience
Inexperience 3 वर्षो पूर्व
You probably were the best theyve ever had. It happens. You are a cute girl id certainly want more than a one night stand even if it was casual but i think most men are afraid to be transparent with what they want. 
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