First: if the lovely lady will pleasure me that way at all, I'm grateful. My wives over the years developed skills to the point I can answer your question. Love: kissing my cock and balls, anywhere; licking from the base to the tip with a wet tongue, narrow is okay, broad tongue is a bit better; circling the head with the lips and tongue; licking the frenulum; taking the first part of the cock into the front of the mouth and just tonguing it all over; taking the cock deeper to touch the back of the mouth and throat, touch is great, leaving it there for a little while stationary, is amazing; then bobbing and sucking like we see on the videos, is fabulous. And then sometimes going back to the licking the shaft and frenulum and circling the head -- then resuming the cock in mouth experience. If she's willing, then cumming in her mouth is the absolute pinnacle of pleasure. Swallow is optional. Second choice, if she doesn't want cum in mouth: at the moment of ejaculation, switch back to licking and tonguing the frenulum as the semen erupts. Don't stop until it's done And then let me kiss you a lot afterward, and then cuddle.