When your worlds collide
So, have you ever randomly run into a person that you recognize from xHamster (or another site) in real life before? I'm not talking about a planned meeting where you know that you're going to meet. I'm talking like, randomly minding your own business, running errands, and you just happen to run into someone that you recognize from the site.
Some people don't know how to act and that can be forgivable. I'm sure that Miss Manners doesn't discuss how one should act when running into your online sexlife acquaintance in public. But generally speaking, you should probably play it cool. You don't know what other people have going on. Are they married and playing on the side without their partners knowing? Are they working? Are they with their partner and k**s? Do they want complete separation of their online persona and their public persona? Here's a couple of incidents that i've personally have experienced.
One time, I went to Meijer to pick up some camera accessories late one night. I go into the camera section and start looking for my purchases. Who do I see working behind the counter? A woman that I know from swinger parties, online yahoo groups, and hotel parties. This particular woman really gets off on being mouth fucked roughly. While I never partook in using her mouth (not really my thing and honestly, she wasn't that good at it from what I could tell), I'm pretty sure that she recognized me. I found my items and went up to the counter. While I was at the counter, I did not bring up, nor hint at any of her off-the-clock activities. I didn't leer at her. We made small talk about my purchases while she was ringing me up. I paid for them and left the store. Now, full disclosure, while I do know that she doesn't like to talk about her sexual proclivities out in public, I feel that this is how everyone should act.
One time, I was at local library doing some work. A guy walked in and recognized me from very recent playdate I had with a female friend and him at his place. (She went to his place to play, but he wasn't doing the job right. Since I live a few towns over, she called me up to turn their one-on-one into a threesome. I came over and took care of business) He proceeded to walk over and loudly start to talk about the night in question. I had to stop working, take him out of the area and ask him what his fucking problem was. Our conversation went something like, why the fuck are you loudly talking about my business in front of all of these random people? You need to take a minute and think about what you're doing. We're not friends like that. I was angry at the time, because I felt that he didn't know how to act.
Was doing some shopping at Walmart one time with a female friend who I play and do photo shoots with occasionally. We're walking down the aisles with our cart and we see a guy and his woman walk toward us. We both recognize and know this guy. We've seen him at the local adult theater getting action. He's fucked my friend multiple times at hotel parties. I mean, we know who he is. He sees me and my friend, and his face gets the "OMG! The chick i've fucked my wife/girlfriend is about to meet. My life is about to turn to shit right now". You know what i'm talking about. He thinks that this is the show Cheaters and he just got caught. It's funny cause his woman is talking and can't see his face, so she doesn't know what's going on. The dude is breaking out in a sweat. So we all come together in the aisle and pass each other without breaking stride. Later, my friend and I laughed about it on the car ride home.
I was going to a hotel party in Chicago one time and I stopped by a store to pick up some alcohol. There was random woman in the store that was doing the same thing. We ran into each other a couple of times while we were looking through the aisles, and started to speak. We just happened to step in line at the same time. The line was slow, so ended up chatting a little more. I decided I wanted to pick up some other items, told her have a good night and went on my way thinking that I would never see her again. (See a pretty girl, chat her up for a bit, never see her again. That's usually life for me.) I paid for all of my stuff and started to make my way to the hotel. I get into the elevator and go up to the floor. As I step off the elevator and make a right to go to the room, I almost run into woman that I was chatting up at the store. We both get that, "uh, what are you doing here?" "where are you going?" look on our face. It hit us at the same time that we were going to the same place. It was a very enjoyable evening. ;)
I have a few more stories, but you get what I mean. Generally, if you see someone from your online life out in public, play it cool. Don't come off creepy and stalkerish. Treat them respectably. Don't bring up their online life unless THEY bring it up. (Think about it. How many messages, emails, etc do you think that women get on this site. Do you think that you're THAT remember-able?)
Some people don't know how to act and that can be forgivable. I'm sure that Miss Manners doesn't discuss how one should act when running into your online sexlife acquaintance in public. But generally speaking, you should probably play it cool. You don't know what other people have going on. Are they married and playing on the side without their partners knowing? Are they working? Are they with their partner and k**s? Do they want complete separation of their online persona and their public persona? Here's a couple of incidents that i've personally have experienced.
One time, I went to Meijer to pick up some camera accessories late one night. I go into the camera section and start looking for my purchases. Who do I see working behind the counter? A woman that I know from swinger parties, online yahoo groups, and hotel parties. This particular woman really gets off on being mouth fucked roughly. While I never partook in using her mouth (not really my thing and honestly, she wasn't that good at it from what I could tell), I'm pretty sure that she recognized me. I found my items and went up to the counter. While I was at the counter, I did not bring up, nor hint at any of her off-the-clock activities. I didn't leer at her. We made small talk about my purchases while she was ringing me up. I paid for them and left the store. Now, full disclosure, while I do know that she doesn't like to talk about her sexual proclivities out in public, I feel that this is how everyone should act.
One time, I was at local library doing some work. A guy walked in and recognized me from very recent playdate I had with a female friend and him at his place. (She went to his place to play, but he wasn't doing the job right. Since I live a few towns over, she called me up to turn their one-on-one into a threesome. I came over and took care of business) He proceeded to walk over and loudly start to talk about the night in question. I had to stop working, take him out of the area and ask him what his fucking problem was. Our conversation went something like, why the fuck are you loudly talking about my business in front of all of these random people? You need to take a minute and think about what you're doing. We're not friends like that. I was angry at the time, because I felt that he didn't know how to act.
Was doing some shopping at Walmart one time with a female friend who I play and do photo shoots with occasionally. We're walking down the aisles with our cart and we see a guy and his woman walk toward us. We both recognize and know this guy. We've seen him at the local adult theater getting action. He's fucked my friend multiple times at hotel parties. I mean, we know who he is. He sees me and my friend, and his face gets the "OMG! The chick i've fucked my wife/girlfriend is about to meet. My life is about to turn to shit right now". You know what i'm talking about. He thinks that this is the show Cheaters and he just got caught. It's funny cause his woman is talking and can't see his face, so she doesn't know what's going on. The dude is breaking out in a sweat. So we all come together in the aisle and pass each other without breaking stride. Later, my friend and I laughed about it on the car ride home.
I was going to a hotel party in Chicago one time and I stopped by a store to pick up some alcohol. There was random woman in the store that was doing the same thing. We ran into each other a couple of times while we were looking through the aisles, and started to speak. We just happened to step in line at the same time. The line was slow, so ended up chatting a little more. I decided I wanted to pick up some other items, told her have a good night and went on my way thinking that I would never see her again. (See a pretty girl, chat her up for a bit, never see her again. That's usually life for me.) I paid for all of my stuff and started to make my way to the hotel. I get into the elevator and go up to the floor. As I step off the elevator and make a right to go to the room, I almost run into woman that I was chatting up at the store. We both get that, "uh, what are you doing here?" "where are you going?" look on our face. It hit us at the same time that we were going to the same place. It was a very enjoyable evening. ;)
I have a few more stories, but you get what I mean. Generally, if you see someone from your online life out in public, play it cool. Don't come off creepy and stalkerish. Treat them respectably. Don't bring up their online life unless THEY bring it up. (Think about it. How many messages, emails, etc do you think that women get on this site. Do you think that you're THAT remember-able?)
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